Open mind, so ignorant

[wa****]

Hi! I am vey curious what a lot of certain “titles” mean. (not sure if I worded that correctly ) but I have no idea what a brat a pony I know there’s other ones that I’m forgetting but what exactly does mean I know they apply to a person and what they are fetishes are their personality is, could use you or anyone out there please explain me what type of personality they are

[Th****]

There will be some variance to each individual and how they interpret each descriptive label. So remember than any definition is a *general* one. 

Brat is most often used as a label for a type of submissive with extra of sass and attitude, the intensity varies. While not so often used as a descriptor for D types many are also quite bratty, I would consider myself to fall in that category as my style of sadism involves all the sass and mischief. 😉😈

*Sadist doesn't automatically = Dominant. There are submissive sadists and Dominant masochists. A sadomasochist is someone who is both (also me) and I've even seen a couple people refer to themselves as a masosadichist, which I loved seeing and maybe spelled that differently than they did. 

Edited November 8, 2023 by ThaliaVirago
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[Th****]

Also... to me a brat is more of a role than title. There are some overlaps in title/role but I feel like most of those are D type labels. 

[ge****]

Pony is easier to define - there's a subset of pet play called pony play, where those who indulge wear harnesses and are trained like ponies/horses and even used to pull carts - at least that's the high level description, it's more nuanced than that though

[St****]

Great questions and answers

[Deleted Member]

Brat is most often used to describe a type of submissive. It can however, be used to describe a dominant. It’s a term that means different things to different people. To me, it means being playful and sassy in my submission, but never malicious or cruel.
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Pony play most often is when the dominant is the owner and then submissive the pony. Pet play can range from going into a full pet space, ie acting fully like a pony that doesn’t talk and eats hay. It can also be more subtle like wearing a harness and relating to the character of a pony (loyal, spirited, etc.)
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Labels can be helpful but equally confusing. What it means to each person and dynamic is so different. A little, a pet, a slave can be very different or quite similar. It’s all about how a dynamic functions, how the people in it feel, and how they relate to each other. No two people are the same nor are any two dynamics.

[Do****]

Bratt in a male submissive can mean stroppy, resistant, cheeky, needing to be made to behave rather than a submissive who enjoys doing as they’re told. Like a stroppy ***ager sometimes.