Femdom and long term commitment

[MissJacqui]

To the submissive men. What if the question of marriage and starting a family comes up from your Mistress. What is your reaction. Would you look at it as an order or topic should be open for discussion.?

[Deleted Member]

Should be open for discussion

[Deleted Member]

Absolutely

[gr****]

We discuss of it and plans for the future

[he****]

Ironically, that’s something I’m looking for. I haven’t had many committed partners in my lifetime but I know what I want.. it should be open to discussion of course but I would hope I’d find someone who’s a life-mate and also the dominant in the relationship.

[db****]

hersweetness, i have the exact same sentiments and thoughts! i would LOVE to marry my Mistress! Now all i need to do is find and get a Mistress!

[Sk****]

Mistress will own her sub in every way and its his duty to serve and worship her 24/7 in every way

[al****]

I believe that is one topic that has to be open for discussion but should not automatically be off the table.

[IW****]

That is what I’m seeking. Although I’m completely inexperienced in the lifestyle, so I’m not sure if it’s something I want to live 24/7.

[As****]

I would be good with it

[0m****]

To me, a Domme should be clear with expectations as should a sub with what they’re seeking. Enough said.

[su****]

Both order and topic

[MissJacqui]

Ok so if this relationship is ongoing for a number of years then and the mistress decides its time for a bigger commitment. Does she gets what she wants?

[su****]

For me yes

[su****]

Im looking to submit

[Mi****]

It really depends on the dynamic set. Discussion, here I don’t think my domme would want to order that.

[Masked_Gaby]

This is one lifestyle i'm interested in currently. But i do want balance between BDSM and non-BDSM

[Do****]

I'm not submissive, but I think something as profoundly momentous as bringing a new life into the world, if simply given as an order, should be treated with the contempt it deserves.

[ey****]

in my case, no in the sense I am already married - but that doesn't mean I can't/won't make a long term commitment to someone else (my wife and I are not monogamous) depending on what that looked like.

I think, mind, without wishing to project - that this is an idea most sub guys would be up for, but there is of course a big difference in meeting someone for 'play time' and the ongoing mechanics of a relationship

[Deleted Member]

Should be a discussion like all things in the relationship it should be something both sides desire.

Everything order has the right to be denied no matter what as nothing should ever be ***d after person stating they really don't want it ,,

 

Edited June 7, 2024 by Deleted Member

[Deleted Member]

No part of any relationship no matter the dynamic should be ***d upon someone who truly has no desire to do it.

Even in Dom/Sub forcing a partner to do anything you know that they don't want or like is abusive use of power and needs immediate correction 

Edited June 7, 2024 by Deleted Member
Correction

[Deleted Member]

On 6/1/2024 at 6:31 AM, MissJacqui said:

 

On 5/31/2024 at 2:39 PM, MissJacqui said:

To the submissive men. What if the question of marriage and starting a family comes up from your Mistress. What is your reaction. Would you look at it as an order or topic should be open for discussion.?

I would happily say yes – no questions asked