Do you love the idea of a BDSM power exchange that is all about physical Dominance? No equipment, just strength? Maybe you should give FemDom wrestling – AKA mixed wrestling – a try. But what does it involve and how can you get started? Here's our essential guide.

 

What is FemDom wrestling?

Wrestling has long been seen as a guy-on-guy sport, but, in fact, there is a growing trend for men looking to be Dominated by women using wrestling moves and holds. Known as FemDom or mixed wrestling, there are Mistresses up and down the land offering sessions for submissive men to live out their fantasies of being physically Dominated by a woman. It's the ultimate expression of girl power.

 

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What’s the goal in mixed wrestling?

The woman is always going to be the winner when it comes to mixed wrestling. The male can readily submit to her or struggle and try to fight back – it depends on exactly what floats your boat. The Domme will use a variety of wrestling holds to subdue the male submissive and might also punch and slap, but it will depend on what has been negotiated before the scene. 
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Ready to grapple? Get a grip on mixed wrestling 


FemDom or mixed wrestling is a heady power exchange that ends with the guy giving over complete control to his Domme. The sexual kick often comes from being defeated by the all-powerful woman. The sub male will, in effect, become owned by the Domme and will become little more than one of her possessions. 

 

How do you get involved in FemDom wrestling?

The great news: anyone can do it. You don't have to be a professional wrestler and can start by watching videos online – there are loads out there. Then experiment by incorporating some moves into your BDSM playtime. However, be sure to know the risks. Don't try any holds or moves you're not 100% confident in. Don't try to knock anyone out without specific training. It's essential to always practice Risk Aware Consensual Kink (RACK)

 

“FemDom or mixed wrestling is a heady power exchange that ends with the guy giving over complete control to his Domme. The sexual kick often comes from being defeated by the all-powerful woman.”


You can also search for professional Dommes who offer FemDom wrestling sessions. Obviously, this may come at a cost, but you'll be confident they know what they're doing. They'll be able to give you the exact session you're looking for. You can also head over to our wrestling dating pages here on Fetish.com to find like-minded folks you may want to start grappling with.
 

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BDSM wrestling: what positions do you use?

Any traditional wrestling moves work well, and those you might already incorporate in BDSM restraint play. Check out videos online to see what appeals to you most.

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The female wrestler sits triumphantly on the face of her defeated male Wikimedia Commons/gaynewyorker


Safety and consent in mixed wrestling

As with all BDSM practices, safety and consent are essential, and boundaries must be agreed upon in advance. There can be no doubts on what is permissible. Indeed, your first step is to establish a safeword.

 

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Also, ensure that you've agreed on a non-vocal symbol if the pain becomes too intense for the sub. For example, in FemDom wrestling, the sub can 'tap out' if he can't tolerate the pain. And then, of course, his magnificent mistress has the ultimate satisfaction of knowing that her dominion is complete!
 

Why does the male sub submit?

Mixed wrestling allows a male sub to live out a fantasy he may have harbored since childhood: an overwhelming desire to completely submit to a woman. Fantasy FemDom wrestling matches in hotel rooms, apartments, and even specialist gyms provide a safe and non-judgmental arena to live this dream.

 

“Mixed wrestling allows a male sub to live out a fantasy he may have harbored since childhood: an overwhelming desire to completely submit to a woman.”


However, some men yearn for the total power exchange of FemDom wrestling for other reasons. In being overpowered by a Domme, they can shake off unbearable stress by concentrating on the moment, being totally submissive to the Domme holding them down. 
 

Using toys in FemDom wrestling

You might want to concentrate on restraining another person with your body, but the joy of this kind of BDSM play is that you can add in other toys and equipment. You can employ bondage ropes, chains, or other restraints to keep the submissive in place once you've got them under your control.
 

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Once the submissive is in the losing position, the real shenanigans involved in mixed wrestling can begin. Whip out that dildo, and shackle him with those handcuffs. Collar him up – and demand he submits. Now is the perfect opportunity for the Domme to really push the sub's limits – and seize even greater control. •

 

Looking to get involved in mixed wrestling? Get chatting about FemDom wrestling in the BDSM forum 
 

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mi****

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On 3/5/2024 at 9:04 AM, Angelbaby865 said:

Good point. However I do not have a partner. I will keep this in mind tho

@Angelbaby865 you sound like you did some wrestling maybe we should dm each other to talk about it maybe you can make some suggestions to me

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I would like to challenge any female to wrestle me one on one her and me freestyle and submission match in my town of new Port Richey Florida  text me my number is on my profile and I made an ad

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On 3/2/2024 at 2:45 PM, Angelflakes said:

 My girlfriend recently told me she would crave to seeing another girl wrestle me in front of her. We're a couple based in Paris area. We're open to any woman who might love the idea - beginner or experienced. Traveling can be an option depending on the context (time, distance...).

But if your dream is to combine a visit of Paris area and some soft BDSM wrestling, be your guest!   

 

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I have been practising mixed wrestling with my girlfriend.

She recently told me she would crave to seeing another girl wrestle me in front of her. We're a couple based in Paris area. We're open to any woman who might love the idea - beginner or experiened. Traveling can be an option depending on the context (time, distance...).

But if your dream is to combine a visit of Paris area and some soft BDSM wrestling, be your guest!   

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That is the fetish I love powerful women I especially in business attire they show a sense of empowerment and I find it very sexy even though I can be very primal to be told what to do and put in place is a lot of fun

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7 minutes ago, ewillie said:

If you are intrigued by it, try it. You don’t have to be a Domme, make it whatever you and your partner enjoy. Explore the possibilities. I’m not a sub but sometimes I like to lose. Most times It’s the joy of a mutual struggle without having defined roles. I actually enjoy it more if I don’t know who will come out on top.

Good point. However I do not have a partner. I will keep this in mind tho

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15 hours ago, Angelbaby865 said:

I’m not a Domme

If you are intrigued by it, try it. You don’t have to be a Domme, make it whatever you and your partner enjoy. Explore the possibilities. I’m not a sub but sometimes I like to lose. Most times It’s the joy of a mutual struggle without having defined roles. I actually enjoy it more if I don’t know who will come out on top.

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An****

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22 minutes ago, ewillie said:

You should definitely try it!

I’m not a Domme

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2 hours ago, Angelbaby865 said:

Oh boy! This is intriguing!

You should definitely try it!

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An****

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Oh boy! This is intriguing!

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Bi****

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I need women to try this with

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Sa****

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Can I dominate you for a while

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Sa****

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Love that Message

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As****

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Yes, I would not mind wrestling a big girl ;-)

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bo****

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How do I sign up

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i would love to try it someday

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Sadly, the women that are interested in this kink are few and far between. I have yet to find one.

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An****

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Why is this post so hetero
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Kinkachew

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Nothing

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mi****

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There zero women in here lol I'm down but not with dudes that's gon end bad cause I got skills

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Te****

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Well this is interesting

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Noahstartintu101408

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Anyone down to trade nudes and just have a chill exchange
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pu****

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i might need to try this

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oa****

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My name mark im male sub i want be dominanted fem dom wrestling in every way show mistress how weak i am to females
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cr****

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Naked wrestling is very erotic. m vs m or m vs women, but best is w vs w

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Do****

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Im close to Boston, id love to be a sub male for a Superior Woman

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ni****

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Living the sound of this..... any volunteers near me willing to try?

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how to get involved near Boston??

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ke****

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I need to try this

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This is lots of fun. I’ve done it a couple of times and with me not being a big guy, some times the ladies can get the drop on me without me having to lay down for them. It’s a bigger thrill when they can put you in a position that you didn’t totally expect, or let them do to you. I’m currently looking for this type of play, so anyone interested please feel free to message me to discuss it.

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fa****

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Can't say I have done it or ever will. The closest I have come to this is, is one time play wrestling or fighting that progressed into spanking than then progressed into sex.

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Me****

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Funnily enough I had a pro domme come to me the other day for a proper wrestle.
Five minutes later and the poor thing was pinned in the corner being finger fucked in the nostrils while I told her she was “a dirty little bitch”
😂
You cannot beat a good sex fight

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I believe playfighting is quintessential. This just seems like an extension of that.

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as****

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I'll give it a try

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Ya- no

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andrewwe

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Love to see if anyone would want to try play wrestling

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te****

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I wanna play!!!! 🥵

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Ho****

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Yeah but.. what if the guy didn't let her win?
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Ryan2H4L

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Hi

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Daduesque

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Snap DDT into fujiwara armbar, all over just like that.

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Ma****

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Pls 🥺

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lo****

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I love doing that

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sa****

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Anyone in SLC .iintersted.in this, msg. Me..o know some women that are into it..

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Le****

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I would love someone to do this to me

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sw****

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Yes pls

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st****

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The victory pose is my favorite part

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Not my cup of tea but I can teach wresteling I am a black belt 😉.

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Loads of fun. One of my favorite kinks❤️

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sa****

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Its appealing to the exhibitionist in me when theres a crowd watching..

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sa****

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Ive donethis.. its really hot..u can play it close, like almost win..its a more intense exchange when the domme has to fight hard to beat you..

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si****

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I’m totally down for that!

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po****

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I'd love this

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Do****

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Interesting, would love to try this

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sp****

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I’d love this

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I’ve been trying to find a solid wrestling partner 🤔

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Always wanted to try this but I don’t know how to find anyone who’s be down 🥲

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MisstressStorm

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If you can’t control your instinct to pin a Domme then perhaps you should play another game that plays to your strengths. Having the wisdom/ wish to submit to a Domme should override your need to Top from the bottom ⛈
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Ky****

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12 hours ago, Wrestleboy said:

lets wrestle any takers

wish we could honey

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lets wrestle any takers

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Ky****

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being a judo/ju jitsu black belt I've always wondered whether I could submit to this or whether combative instinct would take over and I'd pin the Domme instead

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Always fancied trying mixed mud wrestling :-)

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Had my first competitive match a few weeks back with a guy who wrestles semi-pro and is big into filming scenes... No training, just me and my skills from handling my brother when he used to MAKE me play WWE wrestling when younger... But I have to say, I fuckin loved this and my opponent has sent me some great links that I’m currently researching... Watch this space 😉😈💪🏾
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bostoncrab52

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still looking for a woman in n.ireland who will wrestle and dominate me. where are you all hiding!!!!!
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Ad0NieS

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As soon as I learn I will change the photo 

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Ad0NieS

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Like to ask you try it
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