Find kinky women in Durham

Still building my profile 👷🏼‍♀️ But I'm a proud lesbian and I'm looking to explore the community and maybe learn more about myself and my desires. I love learning new things and so I'm hoping to educate myself about the kink community and maybe finally get up the courage to join in.
Female (30) Up Cerne, Durham
Yes, I’ve been here before. No, I’m not fresh meat , so if you’re here to prey on the naïve, keep it moving. I see you coming a mile off. I’m ENM and poly. Open to authentic connections and different dynamics with people who understand mutual respect, emotional intelligence, and how to behave like a grown-up. I'm hot, don’t approach if you're not. Just being my age doesn’t mean you’re my type. I don’t look my age, either, photos are real and recent. If feminism offends you, or you think confident women need “handling,” you’ll be out of your depth here, fast. Manosphere types, trad bros, and control freaks in Dom’s clothing: don't waste your time or mine. Unsolicited pics, pushy messages, or lazy one-liners will be ignored. This isn’t your fantasy playground. Bring your manners, or don’t bother. Now all the so-called “alphas” have retreated back to their mum’s spare room for a good old rage wank. I enjoy gigs (alternative/indie mostly), dancing like no one’s watching (but you probably are 😘), comedy, good food, and excellent company. If you can make me laugh, we’ll probably get on. If you can quote ***p Show, Stath Lets Flats, or The IT Crowd even better. Fair warning: I might be funnier than you. That’s not a challenge. It’s just statistically likely. If you’re emotionally literate, politically sound, and capable of adult conversation, feel free to say hi.
Female (49) Watercombe, Durham
Bit of a handful in body and mind Built for pinning down and hateful fuking Not built for lies, shit aftercare and poor communication 😊 Not seeking casual
Female (46) Darlington, Durham
Switch l just love that word don't you . Sexy is another word l like. Owned , mine , belong , control, slow, tingle all words l like. Submission , his, sensual, eyes again says a lot doesn't it, to the right people.
Female (54) Wear Valley, Durham
tied teased and edged virtual play i do not send pics or videos its not my thing i want a guy who can tell me what they will do to me and virtualise it
Female (25) Durham, Durham
hey there 👋🏻 plus size bi girl 👱🏻‍♀️ honest and empathetic 🫂 i like to think I’m funny 😂 very chatty. emoji lover 🏻 pet whisperer 🐶🐱🐰 neurospicy 😋 in a d/s relationship 🧎‍♀️ not new to this open to finding connections and see where things go ✨🌈
Female (32) Wheatley Hill, Durham
I’m a 31yo female submissive looking for a Dom. Into a lot of things list is quite long so if you would like to know just message me. A few of these include: ropeplay, being controlled, being a brat… sometimes xx
Female (32) Melplash, Durham
hello, i am a 28 year old female. I'm self conscious and pretty much inexperienced. I'm a bigger girl, and shy about it. I have a breeding kink I need to satisfy 🙊 looking for NSA!
Female (29) North Lodge, Durham
Trying to cheat on my boyfriend and send him a video of it ☺️😋 What can I say? I just love the attention
Female (22) Tytherleigh, Durham
Bubbly ferret mom, fully caffeinated, fully gay, and fully submissive. I’m into older women who know what they want (and know how to take control). Horror movies and coffee are my jam, but I’ll happily let you pick the spot, the drink, and… well, pretty much everything else. My love language? Playful bullying with a blush on my face. If you can make me laugh and make me melt, we’ll get along perfectly. looking for a mistress/mommy
Female (25) Bournmoor, Durham
I don’t really know what to put here without sounding cringe or weird lol ? in other words I’m probably the most brattiest girl you will ever meet. I’m a tattoo addict and I plan to get so many more- I just love ***. I’m quite hard to make obedient as I like to do what I want when I want lol.
Female (21) Darlington, Durham
from county durham, into the dark romance books. need someone to tell me to STFUATTDLAGG😏
Female (25) Crookhall, Durham
i’m a Gyaru (A Girl into a Japanese Fashion Subculture that goes against Japanese beauty standards) I play games on PC so if you also play on pc hmuuuu, I’m slow to open up as im very shy with a lot of anxiety but once you get to know me I can be sometimes pretty childish when it comes to things I find cute and also a little bossy sometimes too lol
Female (21) Annfield Plain, Durham
• Lil Scottish masochist. • Happily partnered, we are not looking for anyone to join us. • Living together in a 24/7 dynamic • Here to make friends, chat to existing friends and learn more about the world of kink. • Please don’t send propositions or messages to tell me what you’d do, this is massively disrespectful to both me and my Dom. Not everyone is here to date!
Female (34) Melcombe Horsey, Durham
Switch from Sheffield! Currently living in Durham. I have a strong sub-lean but I'm happy to gentle dom for the right lady :D Enjoyer of books, player of games, student of history... not sure what else to put 😅
Female (21) Durham, Durham
Hey cheers for looking at my profile :3 I'm a Trans woman who is looking for hookups and fwb until I mysteriously poof off the app. the Drone thing is essentially just a talking point as it's more just a kink I'm interested in as opposed to something I'm actually all that experienced with 😂. in terms of people I'll actually take seriously when it comes to meeting up I need to actually get on with you first because I want to avoid really awkward hookups ❤️.
Female (22) Darlington, Durham
To make it clear, I am NOT looking for a man. I am looking to explore my submissive side with a Femme Dom. Kinks Overstimulation Bondage Roleplay Public play *** (we can go into detail on how extreme in DM's) Anal Fisting Extreme Toy Usage Stretching Nipple Play Hard No's *** *** Permanent Marks
Female (31) Plawsworth, Durham
I’d like to meet a dom, who I can be literally sexually obsessed with. I’m in to a lot of things. But most of that comes with time/trust. Enjoy being used. Rough. Orgasm denial. Pleasing. Restrained. Swinging. Clubs. Cum whore. Group. Discipline. Rules (I can be a bit of a brat and rules are meant to be broken for the right punishment, right). Roleplay. Your fantasies. Massage. Being a good girl. Not a huge *** fan. But can take a spanking. Did I say pleasing? No experience in the full lifestyle, which is what I’m looking for. to be owned. Had an on off D/S sexual for around 2 years, but that has ended and I’m looking for something a bit more serious. FWB dom/sub sexual relationship. Open to discussion. The chemistry has to be there. If I’m not your number 1 sub slut I’m not interested. requirements… local to me (Middlesbrough) single and I need to see your face before chatting. I’m not a teacher. I need somebody experienced.
Female (43) Up Cerne, Durham
Hey there! Please don't bounce into my DM's with a thousand word essay on scenarios or what you would do to me because I ain't got time to read all that. That also goes for random genital pictures, the dreaded "How's u?" and any kind of two word greeting. Anyway, about me. I am 22 and chronically ill with a neurological condition which impacts my day to day life. I have a long history of trauma, which means that I am wary and anxious, which means I'm looking for an experienced Dom, male or female around the Durham area, north east area. Each potential Dom will be vetted, and nothing will be rushed into and communication is PARAMOUNT. I can't stress that enough. looking at around 22-30 but may look into someone that is older if they peak my interest :) thank you for reading :)
Female (24) Rousdon, Durham
I am a big fan of the world of kink, bdsm and *** in particular. looking to chat to like minded people and learn more. I am in a relationship and very happy so not looking for anything but friendship. So no I will not DM you, so don't ask!!
Female (40) Durham, Durham
it’s been a very very long time since I found a Dom confident enough for me to be a sub to them so now I enjoy my feet/ass worshipped. I’m in an ENM relationship
Female (43) Durham, Durham
Queer (open to all of the gender spectrum), ENM, disabled, ND, fat, pagan woman looking for connections and community. Lover of power exchange and impact play. Dynamically disabled so my energy levels and abilities vary and I'm not able to travel very often. I'm looking for dates and longer-term connections, not NSA/ONS. I practise safe sex and require a clear STI screen within the last 3 months before anything physical.
Female (35) Wear Valley, Durham
Hey, I’m new to the kinky scene lol, and looking to chat to like-minded people and hopefully try new things. I’m submissive so would be nice to explore that side of things and also have fun lol.
Female (36) Teesdale, Durham
20 Looking for NSA, probably mostly online because I work a lot but if you’re nearby then definitely chance to meet I delete this app often when the notifications become overwhelming but I will always come back :)
Female (22) Wear Valley, Durham

New members in Durham

Still building my profile 👷🏼‍♀️ But I'm a proud lesbian and I'm looking to explore the community and maybe learn more about myself and my desires. I love learning new things and so I'm hoping to educate myself about the kink community and maybe finally get up the courage to join in.
Female (30) Up Cerne, Durham
Switch l just love that word don't you . Sexy is another word l like. Owned , mine , belong , control, slow, tingle all words l like. Submission , his, sensual, eyes again says a lot doesn't it, to the right people.
Female (54) Wear Valley, Durham
Yes, I’ve been here before. No, I’m not fresh meat , so if you’re here to prey on the naïve, keep it moving. I see you coming a mile off. I’m ENM and poly. Open to authentic connections and different dynamics with people who understand mutual respect, emotional intelligence, and how to behave like a grown-up. I'm hot, don’t approach if you're not. Just being my age doesn’t mean you’re my type. I don’t look my age, either, photos are real and recent. If feminism offends you, or you think confident women need “handling,” you’ll be out of your depth here, fast. Manosphere types, trad bros, and control freaks in Dom’s clothing: don't waste your time or mine. Unsolicited pics, pushy messages, or lazy one-liners will be ignored. This isn’t your fantasy playground. Bring your manners, or don’t bother. Now all the so-called “alphas” have retreated back to their mum’s spare room for a good old rage wank. I enjoy gigs (alternative/indie mostly), dancing like no one’s watching (but you probably are 😘), comedy, good food, and excellent company. If you can make me laugh, we’ll probably get on. If you can quote ***p Show, Stath Lets Flats, or The IT Crowd even better. Fair warning: I might be funnier than you. That’s not a challenge. It’s just statistically likely. If you’re emotionally literate, politically sound, and capable of adult conversation, feel free to say hi.
Female (49) Watercombe, Durham
Bit of a handful in body and mind Built for pinning down and hateful fuking Not built for lies, shit aftercare and poor communication 😊 Not seeking casual
Female (46) Darlington, Durham
tied teased and edged virtual play i do not send pics or videos its not my thing i want a guy who can tell me what they will do to me and virtualise it
Female (25) Durham, Durham
I'm curious about where this will go. I'm a domme, through and through. Usually a soft domme unless needed to be a hard domme. If you're lucky, I'll sub to you Also: My location doesnt show correctly, I am from North East England
Female (23) Lillington, Durham
from county durham, into the dark romance books. need someone to tell me to STFUATTDLAGG😏
Female (25) Crookhall, Durham
Trying to cheat on my boyfriend and send him a video of it ☺️😋 What can I say? I just love the attention
Female (22) Tytherleigh, Durham
To make it clear, I am NOT looking for a man. I am looking to explore my submissive side with a Femme Dom. Kinks Overstimulation Bondage Roleplay Public play *** (we can go into detail on how extreme in DM's) Anal Fisting Extreme Toy Usage Stretching Nipple Play Hard No's *** *** Permanent Marks
Female (31) Plawsworth, Durham
hey there 👋🏻 plus size bi girl 👱🏻‍♀️ honest and empathetic 🫂 i like to think I’m funny 😂 very chatty. emoji lover 🏻 pet whisperer 🐶🐱🐰 neurospicy 😋 in a d/s relationship 🧎‍♀️ not new to this open to finding connections and see where things go ✨🌈
Female (32) Wheatley Hill, Durham
Hello,I'm goddess Tris and I'm into *** as a kink, and love to degrade men in return for financial support i also send some nice pictures and videos
Female (20) Metal Bridge, Durham
Bubbly ferret mom, fully caffeinated, fully gay, and fully submissive. I’m into older women who know what they want (and know how to take control). Horror movies and coffee are my jam, but I’ll happily let you pick the spot, the drink, and… well, pretty much everything else. My love language? Playful bullying with a blush on my face. If you can make me laugh and make me melt, we’ll get along perfectly. looking for a mistress/mommy
Female (25) Bournmoor, Durham
it’s been a very very long time since I found a Dom confident enough for me to be a sub to them so now I enjoy my feet/ass worshipped. I’m in an ENM relationship
Female (43) Durham, Durham
i’m a Gyaru (A Girl into a Japanese Fashion Subculture that goes against Japanese beauty standards) I play games on PC so if you also play on pc hmuuuu, I’m slow to open up as im very shy with a lot of anxiety but once you get to know me I can be sometimes pretty childish when it comes to things I find cute and also a little bossy sometimes too lol
Female (21) Annfield Plain, Durham
Hey cheers for looking at my profile :3 I'm a Trans woman who is looking for hookups and fwb until I mysteriously poof off the app. the Drone thing is essentially just a talking point as it's more just a kink I'm interested in as opposed to something I'm actually all that experienced with 😂. in terms of people I'll actually take seriously when it comes to meeting up I need to actually get on with you first because I want to avoid really awkward hookups ❤️.
Female (22) Darlington, Durham
Queer (open to all of the gender spectrum), ENM, disabled, ND, fat, pagan woman looking for connections and community. Lover of power exchange and impact play. Dynamically disabled so my energy levels and abilities vary and I'm not able to travel very often. I'm looking for dates and longer-term connections, not NSA/ONS. I practise safe sex and require a clear STI screen within the last 3 months before anything physical.
Female (35) Wear Valley, Durham
hello, i am a 28 year old female. I'm self conscious and pretty much inexperienced. I'm a bigger girl, and shy about it. I have a breeding kink I need to satisfy 🙊 looking for NSA!
Female (29) North Lodge, Durham
Switch from Sheffield! Currently living in Durham. I have a strong sub-lean but I'm happy to gentle dom for the right lady :D Enjoyer of books, player of games, student of history... not sure what else to put 😅
Female (21) Durham, Durham
Hello. I'm a cis, pan, allistic woman and right now I'm exploring solo-poly life. if you're still reading, here are a bunch more representative words I would use to describe myself... I'm an atheist, a humanist, a socialist and a pacifist. I'm a subtle, non-conformist aspiring to live a hedonistic lifestyle. I'm kind. I'm respectful. I'm considerate and intuitive. I'm INFJ-T. An empath and an active listener. I'm self reflective. I'm a critical thinker, a non-drinker, a procrastinator and an over-eater. I'm into good morals, ethics and communication. I have a broad and complex sense of self. I'm a sensitive soul and I'm somewhat of an anxious introvert. I also have a silly sense of humour. I get fired up about social injustice. I don't fit in. I never did but nowadays I'm not sure I want to. I'm the quiet one but that's mostly because my head is often busy thinking big thoughts that I probably shouldn't say out loud. I write them down so that I don't have to. I'm not great in large crowds or even big groups really. I cope just fine but feel overwhelmed and need lots of time afterwards to retreat to my safe place. I do like seeing new places and doing fun things with nice people though. I'm not into ONS. Trust and understanding builds over time. I'm not looking to third wheel with a pre-existing couple. Tried it and it was nothing but a trainwreck. I'm not interested in becoming a parent. I'm happily child free and I have no maternal instincts. I've been hurt in life and in love. Such is part of this human existence. I've been treated badly but I have too much love to give to let it go to waste. So I refuse to build up a stupid, reactionary, cold, stoney wall. Instead I am committed to self improvement and learning from mistakes. When I feel close to someone, I like to be cuddly, tactile and affectionate. I like talking and bonding and developing real, authentic, fulfilling connections. I like sharing experiences and making happy memories together. I'm kinky. I am in to BDSM. I identify as submissive. I'm most comfortable around people who understand this as a real, authentic part of me. People who understand it's about so much more than sex. I've always gravitated towards power exchange relationship models. I'm experienced in kink but not nearly as advanced as I'd hoped by now. My desires are still largely unexplored and I would like to change that. Broadly speaking I'm attracted to maturity, self confidence and emotional availability. I like having someone to be silly with and to relax with. I like putting the world to rights. I like being in the company of trustworthy people I can comfortably be *** with and share my thoughts and feelings with and vice versa. I like it when people feel they can talk openly and honestly with me too. In an age where technology is ruling over our lives, I'm keen to move swiftly along from hollow, online chat to real world, face to face socialisation. No face pic because work, family and well, you know... because... the internet... Thanks for reading! Fetlife: floating-feather
Female (37) Darlington, Durham
looking for dominant master I'm a service submissive/slave wants constant *** play and *** wants to meet a dominant willing to train and can help guide me in this lifestyle want a dominant man who has experience training submissives want to be used by my master regularly for his gratification I'm always horny and wanting sex it is a curse enjoys playing with men and women loves group activitie
Female (27) Darlington, Durham
I’m a 31yo female submissive looking for a Dom. Into a lot of things list is quite long so if you would like to know just message me. A few of these include: ropeplay, being controlled, being a brat… sometimes xx
Female (32) Melplash, Durham
I’d like to meet a dom, who I can be literally sexually obsessed with. I’m in to a lot of things. But most of that comes with time/trust. Enjoy being used. Rough. Orgasm denial. Pleasing. Restrained. Swinging. Clubs. Cum whore. Group. Discipline. Rules (I can be a bit of a brat and rules are meant to be broken for the right punishment, right). Roleplay. Your fantasies. Massage. Being a good girl. Not a huge *** fan. But can take a spanking. Did I say pleasing? No experience in the full lifestyle, which is what I’m looking for. to be owned. Had an on off D/S sexual for around 2 years, but that has ended and I’m looking for something a bit more serious. FWB dom/sub sexual relationship. Open to discussion. The chemistry has to be there. If I’m not your number 1 sub slut I’m not interested. requirements… local to me (Middlesbrough) single and I need to see your face before chatting. I’m not a teacher. I need somebody experienced.
Female (43) Up Cerne, Durham
I don’t really know what to put here without sounding cringe or weird lol ? in other words I’m probably the most brattiest girl you will ever meet. I’m a tattoo addict and I plan to get so many more- I just love ***. I’m quite hard to make obedient as I like to do what I want when I want lol.
Female (21) Darlington, Durham
I am a big fan of the world of kink, bdsm and *** in particular. looking to chat to like minded people and learn more. I am in a relationship and very happy so not looking for anything but friendship. So no I will not DM you, so don't ask!!
Female (40) Durham, Durham

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