BDSM Play Partner in East Lothian

I'm looking for friends within the community, interesting people to share experiences with and potential female play partners.
I'm happy to chat, experiment and explore, try new things, make friends and have fun while doing it all. Life is too short to take yourself and life itself too seriously.
Any new connections are always welcomed.
Let's chat and see where it goes and how we get on 😉

(Any potential play partners will be vetted properly due to previous time wasters, bad experiences and questionable individuals.)

Anyone around the Edinburgh scene just looking for an honest chat before thinking of doing anything playful?

Curious to both queens and kings thoughts 💭 on the subject

Like how it first came to topic .
Who brought it up ?

Mainstream propaganda projects bbc is superior white guys are just weak ?

For me the idea of watching or allowing my queen explore with others is hot !! Even if the guy is bigger etc 🤷‍♂️ I’m comfortable enough in my own skin not to feel inadequate!!!


For a while now this is something I would like to explore with my long term friends with benefits ( no idea I’m on here btw never mind cuckolding) )

I don’t know how to bring the subject up. Or how she would react 😅


The reason for the question and hopefully great advice and understanding of my inexperience in the subject. ( go easy on me please lol I haven’t intentionally Ment to come across as rude etc but won’t hide from my inexperience on how to approach the subject.


Like I have tried to say during my message above 👆

Main stream influence projecting just bbc as the dominant in the lifestyle white woman black men

Rarely in the reverse dynamic

Find it quite discriminating and harmful to younger white men
Especially Tbe Twitter scenes BNWO

(btw all entitled to there own preference. Just personally seeing slot of white gate and mainstream or social media administration etc not act or keeping things clean . I. E away from racism!

As a curious newbie to exploring such things BNWO has been a massive game changer for me in regards to cuckolding . I’m all for preference. Playing roles to fulfil each other’s goals etc

So I guess amongst the many questions I have asked or trying to ask what is your opinion .


Please no hate . I purely understand I may have came across as ignorant or even confusing.😅😂

First time trying to write it as I see it . Apologies lol

Only serious woman open to explore my submissive fantasies and kinks and also to explore hers it’s a two way street as they say

Curious switch mainly dominant. Looking for a mistress locally to connect with and experience the above

Master seeking a Sub or Beat to take control of

A mistress who I can please
Looking to try new things

Edinburgh based, but very happy to travel by train for the right energy. I like to start simply. A drink, food, or a cinema. Somewhere we can sit close, talk, and let the tension build naturally. I’m not here to rush or perform. I’m here for the delicious slow burn.

I’m very much about words, presence, and attention. I enjoy teasing with intention, letting anticipation do its work, making you feel seen, desired, and just a little undone before anything physical even begins.
I like that moment where you realise you’re leaning in, where the air feels heavier, where curiosity turns warm and lush.
If the chemistry’s right, I love deep kissing, unhurried touch, and exploring what makes you soften, sigh, or squirm.

Finding sensitive spots. Taking my time. Creating a space that feels indulgent and safe at the same time. I’m especially drawn to curves, warmth, softness, and bodies that invite touch. Luscious, comforting, and impossible to ignore.

I’m very one-to-one focused, attentive, and calm. I enjoy making someone feel wanted without pressure, desired without demands. Bratty energy doesn’t scare me. I actually enjoy the push and pull, the playful resistance, the knowing looks that say more than words.

If you like slow builds, sensual teasing, meaningful presence, and the kind of closeness that lingers long after the night ends, we’ll probably get along very well.

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Looking for someone willing to be under my control, who likes being kept as my personal play thing. Into lots of kink play so tell me your hard limits before we proceed

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Looking to chat, meet and explore with new submissives. The brattier and kinkier the better 😏

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Looking for female dom near Edinburgh to explore and have fun

Looking for a sub, Domme and FWB to talk with and maybe become play partners if both sides agree.

My Fetlife is @Ignar if you are curious.

Looking for a sub to talk with and maybe become play partners if both sides agree.

My Fetlife is @Ignar if you are curious.

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Looking for any type of sub, man or woman I want you to worship me. I enjoy degrading, humiliating and using you, pushing you to serve to the best of your ability.

Any female doms in Edinburgh currently looking for a sub to ***. Hit me up

Yes I know it says dom on my profile but I’m looking a new experience. Is there female mistresses/spankers in and around Edinburgh who are willing to punish a naughty bottom?

Looking for a NSA bdsm play partner, in or around Edinburgh. Open to both old/young (non-binary/ ts welcome, but will be decided on a individual basis). Drop me a message if interested.