BDSM Dating in Solihull

Based in West Midlands but open to long distance. I would like one-to-one exchanges with women (29+) who value reflection and lived experience sufficiently enough to sit through complexity with my character Harvey James, and not turn disagreements into debate or performance. From what I've learned through these online spaces and real life social scenes, people do not always relate the same way: different communication styles, different experience of life, so different outlook. If you understand what it's feel like to live slightly out-of-step, as an outsider looking "in", please message me.