BDSM Mena

I'm just honestly curious how to go about even finding a dominant woman locally, because where I'm at, I've struggled for forever to find someone who wants a dominant female + submissive femboy relationship dynamic. I need advice on how to go about this and heck, even if some that aren't local wanna talk, I'd appreciate it so I can better understand how the mindset works ^//////^

We're looking for a man or woman to join us in a three-way! Rigger skills would be a plus!