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420toy
4****y
First and foremost, I am a **submissive** woman. I am not a domme, I am not a switch - please do not expect me to be these things. Subbing lights me up inside, and I find great pleasure & joy in the act. I am here to play, flirt, and stoke the fires of my passion for submission 🔥 My favorite role as a submissive is **fucktoy/babygirl** 🎀✨⛓️ I find a great thrill in being restrained & used, teased & taunted... in a cherished & favored way 😌 I have a praise kink, and do well with rewards and encouragement. I do not do hard ***. If you are looking to humiliate, demean, belittle or degrade your subs then I am not the sub for you. I am not vanilla. I am not interested in anything vanilla when it comes to play & sex. If you’re vanilla, that’s great! But that’s not for me - save us both the time, and skedaddle. I work in cannabis. I am a stoner. If you’re looking for sobriety, that’s not me. I’m extremely passionate about the topic. I’ll be your ganja fairy 🧚 Plant based cutie 🌱 since 2020. Not here to preach at you about it. Buy me vegan snacks and call me pretty? Playful but respectful. Kind, except to douchebags. Not meek and not mild, and not for the meek or mild. Two kids in a trench coat, but one of thems got real daddy issues and the other is just here for the zip line. Fighting the Girl Next Door allegations one tattoo at a time (I edit them out of my photos). Mostly into those aged 25+ and under 50. I am picky. I will want to trade face pics, and if you don’t have any pics of yourself up, I likely will not respond. NO MAGA. NO MILITARY. 🛑 ✋ NO EXCEPTIONS! Seeking (primarily) online fun, in varying degrees of commitment. I block creeps. Be polite & Shoot your shot! ✨
Female (34) Costa Mesa, California
higherthanheaven710
h*****************0
💋 Bratty. Submissive. Sacred. Spoiled. 🕯️ A rope bunny with a worship kink and a sharp tongue. I love being unraveled—mentally, emotionally, and with rope. I will test you, tease you, challenge you… but only because I’m seeking someone strong enough to hold space when I finally let go. My submission isn’t free. It’s earned through safety, consistency, and presence. I don’t play with boys who think dominance is about control without care. I’m looking for a man—someone grounded, honest, and self-aware enough to see me as more than a body to conquer. I need a connection to feel that spark. No spark, no flame. I’m learning that attraction for me starts in the mind, grows in the heart, and only then lights up the body. If you can’t hold a real conversation, hold a boundary, or hold yourself accountable… I’m not for you. Yes, I’ve had boys who treated me like shit crawl back, begging for a taste they never deserved. But I’m not interested in crumbs from men who don’t know how to feed a feast. If you recognize the difference between possessing a woman and cherishing her, we might just have something worth exploring. I crave intimacy that’s more than physical. I want to be seen, respected, and taken care of in every sense—not just used, not just touched. Worship me like I’m the altar you’ve been praying to. I’ll kneel for the right one. ✨ Vulnerability. Respect. Consistency. Depth. If you don’t come with those, don’t come at all.
Female (34) Costa Mesa, California
brizzys
b*****s
I have not experienced a whole lot when it comes to sex and what i do know is i am amazing at giving oral and. i like to experience. it apl i want to try it all i love sex. i wish i could have sex everyday of evey hour if you here to ask me i want to try toys i want to try domination i want to try tuff sex i want to try it all wil someone like to experinece these things with me
Female (32) Costa Mesa, California

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420toy
4****y
First and foremost, I am a **submissive** woman. I am not a domme, I am not a switch - please do not expect me to be these things. Subbing lights me up inside, and I find great pleasure & joy in the act. I am here to play, flirt, and stoke the fires of my passion for submission 🔥 My favorite role as a submissive is **fucktoy/babygirl** 🎀✨⛓️ I find a great thrill in being restrained & used, teased & taunted... in a cherished & favored way 😌 I have a praise kink, and do well with rewards and encouragement. I do not do hard ***. If you are looking to humiliate, demean, belittle or degrade your subs then I am not the sub for you. I am not vanilla. I am not interested in anything vanilla when it comes to play & sex. If you’re vanilla, that’s great! But that’s not for me - save us both the time, and skedaddle. I work in cannabis. I am a stoner. If you’re looking for sobriety, that’s not me. I’m extremely passionate about the topic. I’ll be your ganja fairy 🧚 Plant based cutie 🌱 since 2020. Not here to preach at you about it. Buy me vegan snacks and call me pretty? Playful but respectful. Kind, except to douchebags. Not meek and not mild, and not for the meek or mild. Two kids in a trench coat, but one of thems got real daddy issues and the other is just here for the zip line. Fighting the Girl Next Door allegations one tattoo at a time (I edit them out of my photos). Mostly into those aged 25+ and under 50. I am picky. I will want to trade face pics, and if you don’t have any pics of yourself up, I likely will not respond. NO MAGA. NO MILITARY. 🛑 ✋ NO EXCEPTIONS! Seeking (primarily) online fun, in varying degrees of commitment. I block creeps. Be polite & Shoot your shot! ✨
Female (34) Costa Mesa, California
brizzys
b*****s
I have not experienced a whole lot when it comes to sex and what i do know is i am amazing at giving oral and. i like to experience. it apl i want to try it all i love sex. i wish i could have sex everyday of evey hour if you here to ask me i want to try toys i want to try domination i want to try tuff sex i want to try it all wil someone like to experinece these things with me
Female (32) Costa Mesa, California
higherthanheaven710
h*****************0
💋 Bratty. Submissive. Sacred. Spoiled. 🕯️ A rope bunny with a worship kink and a sharp tongue. I love being unraveled—mentally, emotionally, and with rope. I will test you, tease you, challenge you… but only because I’m seeking someone strong enough to hold space when I finally let go. My submission isn’t free. It’s earned through safety, consistency, and presence. I don’t play with boys who think dominance is about control without care. I’m looking for a man—someone grounded, honest, and self-aware enough to see me as more than a body to conquer. I need a connection to feel that spark. No spark, no flame. I’m learning that attraction for me starts in the mind, grows in the heart, and only then lights up the body. If you can’t hold a real conversation, hold a boundary, or hold yourself accountable… I’m not for you. Yes, I’ve had boys who treated me like shit crawl back, begging for a taste they never deserved. But I’m not interested in crumbs from men who don’t know how to feed a feast. If you recognize the difference between possessing a woman and cherishing her, we might just have something worth exploring. I crave intimacy that’s more than physical. I want to be seen, respected, and taken care of in every sense—not just used, not just touched. Worship me like I’m the altar you’ve been praying to. I’ll kneel for the right one. ✨ Vulnerability. Respect. Consistency. Depth. If you don’t come with those, don’t come at all.
Female (34) Costa Mesa, California

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InkedAngel1991
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No wannabe doms. Must be experienced.
Please read my profile for my likes.
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Sinn612
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Heyyy!! I go by Keith, I'm 22, and love thrifting and true crime. Big into photography. Extremely 420 and kink friendly!
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humanportapotty
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Ask me for all the requirements you need to meet
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AngelAura777
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