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💋 Bratty. Submissive. Sacred. Spoiled. 🕯️ A rope bunny with a worship kink and a sharp tongue. I love being unraveled—mentally, emotionally, and with rope. I will test you, tease you, challenge you… but only because I’m seeking someone strong enough to hold space when I finally let go. My submission isn’t free. It’s earned through safety, consistency, and presence. I don’t play with boys who think dominance is about control without care. I’m looking for a man—someone grounded, honest, and self-aware enough to see me as more than a body to conquer. I need a connection to feel that spark. No spark, no flame. I’m learning that attraction for me starts in the mind, grows in the heart, and only then lights up the body. If you can’t hold a real conversation, hold a boundary, or hold yourself accountable… I’m not for you. Yes, I’ve had boys who treated me like shit crawl back, begging for a taste they never deserved. But I’m not interested in crumbs from men who don’t know how to feed a feast. If you recognize the difference between possessing a woman and cherishing her, we might just have something worth exploring. I crave intimacy that’s more than physical. I want to be seen, respected, and taken care of in every sense—not just used, not just touched. Worship me like I’m the altar you’ve been praying to. I’ll kneel for the right one. ✨ Vulnerability. Respect. Consistency. Depth. If you don’t come with those, don’t come at all.
Female (34) Costa Mesa, California
Hello ☺️ I am searching for someone who can generally do long term and close by. I do in fact require a social meeting beforehand to see if we vibe or not. Making time to talk with me, meet up, or face chat so I know you’re not a hot bot, makes a heck of a difference. Do NOT try and assert your dominance over me in the first message. As of right now you are nothing more than a person as am I and I expect to be treated with respect unless discussed otherwise if we continue to chat. Love POC. I am pansexual however, this app doesn’t have the option so I put Bi. Size Queen. girth is more important than length but for those asking, I guess average 5in and up is where I like to settle. please do not slut shame. this is my honest goal so I can find what I am looking for. it’s my life and I plan to have pleasurable experiences. ask me more I’ll let you know if you’re not my type or if I don’t want to continue a conversation anymore. also, verify yourself or no-go. any cops, toxic masculinity, sexist, racist, trum***s, ever said “all lives/blue lives matter” may do themselves the favor and fuck off.
Female (32) Costa Mesa, California
I have not experienced a whole lot when it comes to sex and what i do know is i am amazing at giving oral and. i like to experience. it apl i want to try it all i love sex. i wish i could have sex everyday of evey hour if you here to ask me i want to try toys i want to try domination i want to try tuff sex i want to try it all wil someone like to experinece these things with me
Female (32) Costa Mesa, California
Hello. What am I supposed to say here? I’m a brat. 😈 Also I’m getting my masters in Genetics so I prefer intelligent/ dominant people. 🖤 into CNC/ Free use.
Female (32) Costa Mesa, California

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I have not experienced a whole lot when it comes to sex and what i do know is i am amazing at giving oral and. i like to experience. it apl i want to try it all i love sex. i wish i could have sex everyday of evey hour if you here to ask me i want to try toys i want to try domination i want to try tuff sex i want to try it all wil someone like to experinece these things with me
Female (32) Costa Mesa, California
💋 Bratty. Submissive. Sacred. Spoiled. 🕯️ A rope bunny with a worship kink and a sharp tongue. I love being unraveled—mentally, emotionally, and with rope. I will test you, tease you, challenge you… but only because I’m seeking someone strong enough to hold space when I finally let go. My submission isn’t free. It’s earned through safety, consistency, and presence. I don’t play with boys who think dominance is about control without care. I’m looking for a man—someone grounded, honest, and self-aware enough to see me as more than a body to conquer. I need a connection to feel that spark. No spark, no flame. I’m learning that attraction for me starts in the mind, grows in the heart, and only then lights up the body. If you can’t hold a real conversation, hold a boundary, or hold yourself accountable… I’m not for you. Yes, I’ve had boys who treated me like shit crawl back, begging for a taste they never deserved. But I’m not interested in crumbs from men who don’t know how to feed a feast. If you recognize the difference between possessing a woman and cherishing her, we might just have something worth exploring. I crave intimacy that’s more than physical. I want to be seen, respected, and taken care of in every sense—not just used, not just touched. Worship me like I’m the altar you’ve been praying to. I’ll kneel for the right one. ✨ Vulnerability. Respect. Consistency. Depth. If you don’t come with those, don’t come at all.
Female (34) Costa Mesa, California
Hello. What am I supposed to say here? I’m a brat. 😈 Also I’m getting my masters in Genetics so I prefer intelligent/ dominant people. 🖤 into CNC/ Free use.
Female (32) Costa Mesa, California
Hello ☺️ I am searching for someone who can generally do long term and close by. I do in fact require a social meeting beforehand to see if we vibe or not. Making time to talk with me, meet up, or face chat so I know you’re not a hot bot, makes a heck of a difference. Do NOT try and assert your dominance over me in the first message. As of right now you are nothing more than a person as am I and I expect to be treated with respect unless discussed otherwise if we continue to chat. Love POC. I am pansexual however, this app doesn’t have the option so I put Bi. Size Queen. girth is more important than length but for those asking, I guess average 5in and up is where I like to settle. please do not slut shame. this is my honest goal so I can find what I am looking for. it’s my life and I plan to have pleasurable experiences. ask me more I’ll let you know if you’re not my type or if I don’t want to continue a conversation anymore. also, verify yourself or no-go. any cops, toxic masculinity, sexist, racist, trum***s, ever said “all lives/blue lives matter” may do themselves the favor and fuck off.
Female (32) Costa Mesa, California

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Beneath your feet lies a threshold. Nothing beyond is owed or rushed. Entry is gained by steadiness, emotional depth, and the ability to lead with intention and stewardship.

Move slowly. Listen deeply. Treat boundaries as sacred, or turn back.

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Her service is meticulous and personal.
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