I’m looking for a childfree man who lives with purpose, is grounded in mountain life, values depth and integrity, and embodies conscious masculine energy. A steady, intentional, quietly powerful man who knows presence is the sexiest thing he brings to the table.
I just moved back to the Colorado mountains June 1st, after 32 years away. I wake up to hummingbirds at the window, sunlight warming my skin, the scent of roasting pine needles, and wind whispering through pine and aspen trees. This land is part of my soul. I’m finally home and ready to put down my roots with a partner.
💜 Who I Am
I'm grounded, intuitive, growth-minded, caring and a little bit nerdy - in the best way. I’ve spent years doing deep work - healing, integrating, growing - and I’m still on the path. Every relationship is a mirror and a chance to evolve. I’m clear on what I’m calling in. And just as clear on what no longer has space: ambiguity, avoidance, or performative masculinity.
I'm the kind of woman who thrives in mountain stillness, but also lights up around meaningful conversation and shared laughter. I love panoramic views, deep dives (into both ideas and emotions), and anything that feels intentionally created.
I’m childfree by choice, a Splenic Projector and a lifelong purple addict. Also a Neurospicy ISTJ, crystal collector, and a tech entrepreneur with 20+ years’ experience.
💜 I love...
✨ Mountain drives exploring with deep conversations or in comfortable silence.
✨ Coffee in the morning, 40 Winks loose leaf tea before bed, and occasionally end the day with a Mediterranean Gin & Tonic.
✨ Cozy nights snuggling on the couch getting me introduced to the must-watch movies I’ve missed.
✨ Hiking and slowly checking off the “typical Colorado stuff” like fishing, prospecting, and eventually climbing a 14er.
✨ Technology, entrepreneurship and organizing things.
✨ Playing Bar Darts - I have my own set of purple soft-tip darts and would love to find a local spot again - bonus points if it becomes a fun first date.
💜 What I’m Attracted To
✨ A man who’s also done his inner work and stays committed to growth - who sees relationship as a space for truth, tenderness, and transformation.
✨ Rooted in Colorado and love it like I do.
✨ Groomed with care - clean-cut or intentionally styled.
✨ Nerds/Geeks into table top games and D&D.
✨ Coders, developers, or other web designers.
✨ Entrepreneurs who have their own business.
✨ Embodied masculinity: grounded BDE, not grandstanding.✨ Self-aware and reflective - moves through life with presence and attunement.
✨ Steady in his emotions, sharp in his mind - doesn’t weaponize feelings or retreat into silence.
✨ Close to my height - makes hugging easier.
If you carry yourself with quiet integrity, can laugh and tear up at the right moments, and understand that intimacy is nurtured all day long - we might genuinely click.
💜 I highly desire...
✨ Someone who feels their life is complete without ***.
✨ Someone ready for a long term committed monogamous relationship, leading to marriage.
✨ Someone who doesn't smoke or need 420 daily.
✨ Someone proactive about the effects of aging, especially testosterone decline.
✨ Someone who has a high libido that, even after the new-relationship energy wears off, still wants to be intimate 2-3 times a week and is open to exploring tantra and keeping the spark alive.
✨ DOM but only after trust earned.
✨ Will video chat within 48 hours of matching.
And three delicate desires:
✨ On the larger 🍆 side (7"x5.5"+), because due to things beyond my control, I'm a SizeQueen.
✨ Has HSV2 or open to the risk with clarity and care
✨ Someone intact - I value it for both advocacy and pleasure, but not required.
💜 Politics
I know a relationship can work across political lines, but I’ve also lived through the friction that happens when values are too far apart. Politically, I lean moderate-right and vote Republican - but what matters more to me is emotional regulation and respect for nuance. We’ve become so reactive that people stop listening at the first buzzword. I care more about how you handle disagreement than which party you vote for.
💜 Final Thought
I want something real. With a man who owns his shadows, leads with depth, and walks beside me - not ahead or behind.
Still here, feeling more curious than cautious? That’s your nudge. Let’s explore what we could build together. If this resonates with you, say so and send me a PM 💌 with what stood out. I’d love to hear from someone who truly gets it.
