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goodboy1981
g*********1
Big man. Big heart. Bigger personality. I’m a South Bend/Michiana mix of confidence, humor, and lived experience — the type who’s been through some things, learned from all of them, and came out sturdier than I look. I’m on a health and self-improvement journey right now: getting stronger, dropping weight, building better habits, and learning to actually like the body I’m living in. No shame, no pretending — just progress. My style leans toward alpha-with-a-smirk: calm, grounded, quietly commanding… with a soft butch streak and a mischievous side that shows up when it wants to. I’m not shy, and I don’t shrink myself to fit someone else’s comfort level. Kink-wise: I’m a switch with a playful pup streak, into connection, chemistry, gear, latex, and people who know how to communicate like adults. I don’t do drama, mind games, or fantasies without consent and conversation. Respect first — fun second — everything else after. What I appreciate in people: • emotional maturity • humor that isn’t afraid to be weird • gentle dominance or responsive submission • people who are grounded but still curious • authenticity — no masks unless they’re literal What I bring: • honesty • loyalty • an unapologetic presence • a quick wit • and a body that’s a work in progress but absolutely worth the effort
Male (44) South Bend, Indiana
Spark1985
S*******5
Pretty new to exploring this side of sex. I have done a few things in the past. I am open to exploring a bit more and learning along the way. if you want to chat and get to know me feel free to message :) strike up a conversation. I'm pretty open here as long as you are a dude. Trust is super important for me when it comes to sexual things. if you've read this far awesome. Feel free to message me. Disclaimer only into biological men, however I respect all people
Male (40) South Bend, Indiana

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goodboy1981
g*********1
Big man. Big heart. Bigger personality. I’m a South Bend/Michiana mix of confidence, humor, and lived experience — the type who’s been through some things, learned from all of them, and came out sturdier than I look. I’m on a health and self-improvement journey right now: getting stronger, dropping weight, building better habits, and learning to actually like the body I’m living in. No shame, no pretending — just progress. My style leans toward alpha-with-a-smirk: calm, grounded, quietly commanding… with a soft butch streak and a mischievous side that shows up when it wants to. I’m not shy, and I don’t shrink myself to fit someone else’s comfort level. Kink-wise: I’m a switch with a playful pup streak, into connection, chemistry, gear, latex, and people who know how to communicate like adults. I don’t do drama, mind games, or fantasies without consent and conversation. Respect first — fun second — everything else after. What I appreciate in people: • emotional maturity • humor that isn’t afraid to be weird • gentle dominance or responsive submission • people who are grounded but still curious • authenticity — no masks unless they’re literal What I bring: • honesty • loyalty • an unapologetic presence • a quick wit • and a body that’s a work in progress but absolutely worth the effort
Male (44) South Bend, Indiana
Spark1985
S*******5
Pretty new to exploring this side of sex. I have done a few things in the past. I am open to exploring a bit more and learning along the way. if you want to chat and get to know me feel free to message :) strike up a conversation. I'm pretty open here as long as you are a dude. Trust is super important for me when it comes to sexual things. if you've read this far awesome. Feel free to message me. Disclaimer only into biological men, however I respect all people
Male (40) South Bend, Indiana

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