I'm just looking to network and explore my kinks. dms are slow. i'm usually at work. im not ignoring you.Go ahead and request my private album. I respect people just asking to see anything 😘
Before you even think about sending me a message ask yourself....1: Am I respectful and reciprocal or Do I just want free access?
I'm looking to actually meet people...in real life... if you don't think you can handle that, move on.
I can't show my face, for work purposes. but will send pics once we get to chatting. I am looking for monogamy, only.
34f in an enm marriage for the past 9 years. pansexual female switch! I am honest and dont believe in wasting time as a form of respect, life is to short to be lead along so if you feel the same leave a chat. let's see how naturally progress in attraction, talent, and ability to read body language.
I'm 54 in a poly relationship and I'm a submissive/slave looking for my other person. I'm very passionate and love being touched and caressed and massage. I'm not looking for games.
I'm an independent minded woman with a wild side looking for a MAN to match my attitude.
I'm not looking for a power exchange as much as someone who's been in the lifestyle and knows about the different protocols and ideas comfortable with going to events as playing in private.
Looking for a woman to have some fun with me,
If you into couples also my husband would love for you to join us in some fun times.
Dm me if you're interested
I'm looking for a connection that's mutually beneficial and built on respect, trust, and clear communication. I value generosity, kindness, and someone who knows how to make me feel appreciated.
What l'm not looking for is drama, games, or anything that feels one-sided —I believe both people should bring something to the table.
I am married to a wonderful husband. We enjoy kink together and are curious about swinging along with the rest of our light kink.
Hard Limits- ***, *** play, bodily fluids except cum, ass to mouth, Tickling anything that could cause bodily *** besides what is in my lists of what I would like to do.... must wear a condom
PSA MY ACCOUNT AND PICS ARE NOT TO BE SHARED WITH ANY OTHER SITE OR PERSON OUTSIDE OF THIS SITE. I WILL TAKE ACTION AGAINST ANYONE WHO DOES SAID ACTION. NOW THAT BEING SAID LETS GET KINKY!
I am a submissive , I am broken ... if you want me to explain further just ask.. I have a wheelchair, I have dentures. I'm a single mom.... I won't choose you over them..
About Me:
I’m the kind of submissive who follows rules… but might tease you while doing it. I love the dance between power and trust, and I’m most drawn to someone who can guide with confidence but doesn’t take themselves too seriously.
I’m here for connection, chemistry, and someone who makes me feel safe enough to let go. I’m a mix of sweetness, smart remarks, and soft surrender when it feels right.
What I Like:
• Light protocol and playful control
• Teasing, tension, and anticipation
• Clear communication
• Laughing during scenes (yes, really)
• Praise, affection, and thoughtful touches
• A Dom who listens—and maybe smirks
Seeking:
Someone playful but present. You can take the lead, but you don’t have to growl about it. You respect limits, enjoy connection, and know that submission can be both deep… and fun.
Limits:
***, ***, urine, *** involvement, ***,
Shyness is good when you have nothing else. But I have these qualities. Clever and wonreful! I have an active and interesting life. I fall,have a lot of problems but I stand up and go further.I like to cook, dance, read and sing (non professional)/ I dream about traveling.
hi i am a 22 years old sub and in a relationship with my dom, I am looking to add another dom but you have too be 100% ok with not being the only dom, and please be serious. I am looking for borhe virtual and in person, I would like for both my doms to get along with eachother and sometimes and dom me at the same time from time to time
I am a switch
I am a little, little age being anywhere between 3-5
Here to hang out with y'all. Hopefully people of similar mindset.
I love oral sex therefore my profile pic.
Only interested in men. I am not bisexual in the least.
Not interested in 3sums, 4sums, ect.
**The Basics**
I’m Redfeild 42year old female who is finally ready to stop wondering and start exploring. Outside of the scene. I’m a firm believer in "connection first"—I want to know who you are as a person before we ever discuss a scene.
**My Dynamics & Interests**
I am relatively new to the community, but I’ve done my homework and know what calls to me. I lean toward being a **Submissive Bottom**, as I love the feeling of letting go and trusting someone else's lead. However, I have a curious **Switch** side and am open to exploring the other side of the dynamic as I grow more comfortable.
**I’m specifically interested in:**
* **Impact Play:** I love the intensity and the "headspace" that comes with it.
* **Bondage:** There’s something about the restriction and the trust involved that really intrigues me.
* **Roleplay:** I enjoy the psychological aspect of stepping into a different persona.
---
### **What I’m Looking For**
I’m looking for a partner (or mentor figure) who is experienced, patient, and places a high premium on **SSC** and **Aftercare**.
* **The Vibe:** Someone who can be firm and authoritative in a scene but kind and attentive once the gear is put away.
* **The Goal:** I’m not looking for a "hit and run." I’d prefer to build a friendship or a consistent play partnership where we can learn each other's rhythms.
* **The First Step:** Let’s meet at a Munch or grab coffee in a public spot. I want to see if our personalities click and talk about boundaries and safety before anything else.
---
### **A Few Rules of the Road**
* **Consent is everything.** I value clear communication before, during, and after.
* **No "Dick Pics" or explicit openers.** If you can’t hold a conversation, we won’t be a good match.
* **Safety first.** I’m here for a good time, but I’m also here to be safe.
adding to this list one day at a time ✨️
interested in possibly connecting with a woman for the first time. ✨️
looking for snuggles of all sorts ✨️
no rush for sex but I love to experiment with toys ✨️
Let's grab a bite to eat ✨️
I dont have Snapchat ✨️
pics upon request ✨️
Odd ball ✨️
uncut??😍😍✨️
Iowa
I do content on OF as SpoiledandStoned 🤷🏻♀️☺️ if you want to see my face -> Insta my username and follow the link 🤭🤫
Love guys with beards and creampies/breed kinks tbh 🤤
also enjoy a good looking dilf whose a dom😅
main goal: open to a LTR with guy or girl and match levels of kinkiness and just life😋
praise kink 🤭 because im a good girl 😈
also free use, cnc, public play, and shibari is also highkey a turn on I said what I said💯🖤
if Im high I’m probably horny asf and the goodest girl when I am 😩🍃
I also love a man who can make me squirt 💦
🌸 I like being called princess, baby girl, kitten, and few others
I’m a nerdy gamer girl new to mostly everything. I am a sub looking for a monogamous relationship with a dom.
I love voice notes.
If you look and act like Gale Dekarios, you’re 100% my type.
here for fun. if we vibe, we vibe.
I am a content creator so if you are too & you is a girl 🥺,, hmu & maybe we coule collab?
(side note. would love to make some little/middle friends)
old school soul looking for an ild school soul..: I am looking for someone that will take the time to actually get to know me as an individual. Who I am what I want and need in a relationship. I am a very submissive woman and will not just give my submission away. It is something that will be earned just as I should earn the dominance. I want to build something real with someone. I am not getting any younger.
I need honesty. I need communication. I need someone within a close proximity not across seas.
Plus size female interested in finding her long term Daddy. Looking for someone who wants to honestly take the time to vet and get to know one another. I refuse to just jump right in because I know what I have to offer and what I deserve as a partner.
Hopefully I haven’t scared you off already and intrigued your mind even more.
Feel free to ask questions Its a great way to start the process but please be respectful. Disrespect will not get a response.
I am a submissive fully and I like a lot of different kinky things especially enjoy bondage and more rough play but nothing with ***. in a relationship I'm looking for someone that is going to be dominant over me but also let me have my own things because in my mom kinky life I'm very independent. I'm looking for a relationship with just one person but not against having threesomes or having someone occasionally for fun. I also love cuddling anytime and all the time.
I do a lot of reading. I read pretty much anything I definitely read a lot of smut. I love ***s. I have had my cat since I was 14 years old and he is a very important part of my life. I like both going out and staying home. I would love to go on cute little dates and maybe have a fun night after words.
if there is anything you want to know just ask me. I would love to hear from you and maybe have a good time.
PS if you have a pet and have any pictures I would love to see them.
28 little/sub/brat.
I am a mother of four only three live with me, I’m going through divorce prep! Currently crashing with my grandparents until I can get my own place! Looking for an “All about me Daddy”! Physical touch and PDA 😍 Clingy & Needy so prepare for double/triple+ messages!
I'm just looking to network and explore my kinks. dms are slow. i'm usually at work. im not ignoring you.Go ahead and request my private album. I respect people just asking to see anything 😘
Before you even think about sending me a message ask yourself....1: Am I respectful and reciprocal or Do I just want free access?
I'm looking to actually meet people...in real life... if you don't think you can handle that, move on.
I can't show my face, for work purposes. but will send pics once we get to chatting. I am looking for monogamy, only.
Shyness is good when you have nothing else. But I have these qualities. Clever and wonreful! I have an active and interesting life. I fall,have a lot of problems but I stand up and go further.I like to cook, dance, read and sing (non professional)/ I dream about traveling.
34f in an enm marriage for the past 9 years. pansexual female switch! I am honest and dont believe in wasting time as a form of respect, life is to short to be lead along so if you feel the same leave a chat. let's see how naturally progress in attraction, talent, and ability to read body language.
I'm looking for a connection that's mutually beneficial and built on respect, trust, and clear communication. I value generosity, kindness, and someone who knows how to make me feel appreciated.
What l'm not looking for is drama, games, or anything that feels one-sided —I believe both people should bring something to the table.
I am a submissive , I am broken ... if you want me to explain further just ask.. I have a wheelchair, I have dentures. I'm a single mom.... I won't choose you over them..
About Me:
I’m the kind of submissive who follows rules… but might tease you while doing it. I love the dance between power and trust, and I’m most drawn to someone who can guide with confidence but doesn’t take themselves too seriously.
I’m here for connection, chemistry, and someone who makes me feel safe enough to let go. I’m a mix of sweetness, smart remarks, and soft surrender when it feels right.
What I Like:
• Light protocol and playful control
• Teasing, tension, and anticipation
• Clear communication
• Laughing during scenes (yes, really)
• Praise, affection, and thoughtful touches
• A Dom who listens—and maybe smirks
Seeking:
Someone playful but present. You can take the lead, but you don’t have to growl about it. You respect limits, enjoy connection, and know that submission can be both deep… and fun.
Limits:
***, ***, urine, *** involvement, ***,
I am married to a wonderful husband. We enjoy kink together and are curious about swinging along with the rest of our light kink.
Hard Limits- ***, *** play, bodily fluids except cum, ass to mouth, Tickling anything that could cause bodily *** besides what is in my lists of what I would like to do.... must wear a condom
PSA MY ACCOUNT AND PICS ARE NOT TO BE SHARED WITH ANY OTHER SITE OR PERSON OUTSIDE OF THIS SITE. I WILL TAKE ACTION AGAINST ANYONE WHO DOES SAID ACTION. NOW THAT BEING SAID LETS GET KINKY!
Looking for a woman to have some fun with me,
If you into couples also my husband would love for you to join us in some fun times.
Dm me if you're interested
hi i am a 22 years old sub and in a relationship with my dom, I am looking to add another dom but you have too be 100% ok with not being the only dom, and please be serious. I am looking for borhe virtual and in person, I would like for both my doms to get along with eachother and sometimes and dom me at the same time from time to time
I am a switch
I am a little, little age being anywhere between 3-5
I'm 54 in a poly relationship and I'm a submissive/slave looking for my other person. I'm very passionate and love being touched and caressed and massage. I'm not looking for games.
I'm an independent minded woman with a wild side looking for a MAN to match my attitude.
I'm not looking for a power exchange as much as someone who's been in the lifestyle and knows about the different protocols and ideas comfortable with going to events as playing in private.
Here to hang out with y'all. Hopefully people of similar mindset.
I love oral sex therefore my profile pic.
Only interested in men. I am not bisexual in the least.
Not interested in 3sums, 4sums, ect.
Demisexual leaning, so emotional connection is important to me. Not here for hook ups/ one night stands and not wanting to be your third. I’m wanting to build a long term romantic relationship first and foremost.
28 little/sub/brat.
I am a mother of four only three live with me, I’m going through divorce prep! Currently crashing with my grandparents until I can get my own place! Looking for an “All about me Daddy”! Physical touch and PDA 😍 Clingy & Needy so prepare for double/triple+ messages!
I’m a nerdy gamer girl new to mostly everything. I am a sub looking for a monogamous relationship with a dom.
I love voice notes.
If you look and act like Gale Dekarios, you’re 100% my type.
**The Basics**
I’m Redfeild 42year old female who is finally ready to stop wondering and start exploring. Outside of the scene. I’m a firm believer in "connection first"—I want to know who you are as a person before we ever discuss a scene.
**My Dynamics & Interests**
I am relatively new to the community, but I’ve done my homework and know what calls to me. I lean toward being a **Submissive Bottom**, as I love the feeling of letting go and trusting someone else's lead. However, I have a curious **Switch** side and am open to exploring the other side of the dynamic as I grow more comfortable.
**I’m specifically interested in:**
* **Impact Play:** I love the intensity and the "headspace" that comes with it.
* **Bondage:** There’s something about the restriction and the trust involved that really intrigues me.
* **Roleplay:** I enjoy the psychological aspect of stepping into a different persona.
---
### **What I’m Looking For**
I’m looking for a partner (or mentor figure) who is experienced, patient, and places a high premium on **SSC** and **Aftercare**.
* **The Vibe:** Someone who can be firm and authoritative in a scene but kind and attentive once the gear is put away.
* **The Goal:** I’m not looking for a "hit and run." I’d prefer to build a friendship or a consistent play partnership where we can learn each other's rhythms.
* **The First Step:** Let’s meet at a Munch or grab coffee in a public spot. I want to see if our personalities click and talk about boundaries and safety before anything else.
---
### **A Few Rules of the Road**
* **Consent is everything.** I value clear communication before, during, and after.
* **No "Dick Pics" or explicit openers.** If you can’t hold a conversation, we won’t be a good match.
* **Safety first.** I’m here for a good time, but I’m also here to be safe.
The truth is none of us are easy to date deal with or please all the time. We have our vices attitudes and way of doing things that make us ~ unique. You won't like. everything about somebody it's impossible. This is life, and it isn't about finding the perfect person, there's no such thing
It isn't about living some happily ever after fairy tale. It's about finding someone you're willing to work for and who is willing to work for you. It's simple, but yet so hard to achieve
lonely wife with kinky needs that aren’t being met. looking for discreet fun with no strings attached. I’m a curvy woman that’s very comfortable in my skin. I know what I want and I’m not afraid to tell you 😘
I’m here to explore and see where we might fit.
What makes you tick?
What are your limits and interests?
Do you like exploring?
How do you view consent?
Okay with coupled people if she has autonomy and plays on her own.
Extra info since the test out here is a little limited.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Switch
95% Experimentalist
93% Brat tamer
91% Rigger
89% Dominant
85% Brat
83% Rope bunny
80% Non-monogamist (has varied with relationships with consent only)
80% Submissive
78% Primal (Hunter)
72% Masochist
68% Degrader
66% Degradee
65% Sadist
65% Master/Mistress
62% Primal (Prey)
54% Owner
47% Slave
39% Voyeur
32% Vanilla
29% Exhibitionist
22% Pet
13% Daddy/Mommy
0% Boy/Girl
0% Ageplayer
Quiet creative type. Always thinking. I love ***ting, birdwatching, and my cat. I'm looking for a woman who will love me for who I am and fulfill my fantasies.
Hello! We are a masc/fem couple looking for either a single or a couple to add into the bedroom! We are 21f and 19f and would love to get you under our sheets!
The bdsm test is from the fem the masc is a dom
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