Find kinky women in Iowa

If you’re looking for a quick release, one-time roleplay, or a “forever Domme,” I’m not the one for you. Similarly, if you’re exclusively seeking a monogamous long-term relationship, we might not align. I’m looking for something meaningful but balanced something in between the extremes. I’m a 22[My profile says otherwise because I made a mistake and I haven’t figured a way to change it] year-old Mommy Domme from California . I have a soft but confident personality and prioritize my partner’s happiness above all else. When I’m not exploring power dynamics, I enjoy: • Playing video games (and would love to play with you!) • Listening to all kinds of music • Watching horror and thriller movies I’m naturally dominant, and exploring my sexuality has always been fascinating. While physical pleasure is important, I’m far more captivated by the mental aspects teasing, challenging, and forming a deep, intimate connection. I enjoy the process of building trust, playing with boundaries, and creating something beautiful together. My preferences are versatile and adaptive, ranging from soft and nurturing to primal, degrading, or experimental. What I enjoy most depends on the moment, the person, and the connection we share.
Female (30) Des Moines, Iowa
34f in an enm marriage for the past 9 years. pansexual female switch! I am honest and dont believe in wasting time as a form of respect, life is to short to be lead along so if you feel the same leave a chat. let's see how naturally progress in attraction, talent, and ability to read body language.
Female (34) Granger, Iowa
new so dont be too forward... as if men even read profiles show me you have... long distance/online only is kinda a no go for me.... some one willing to build the trust and can carry that energy into normal interactions
Female (28) Ankeny, Iowa
fun loving very light harded person really good at listening looking for a hard dom at times but also a daddy dom who will baby me and as well as a relationship
Female (19) Council Bluffs, Iowa
I'm 54 in a poly relationship and I'm a submissive/slave looking for my other person. I'm very passionate and love being touched and caressed and massage. I'm not looking for games.
Female (54) Altoona, Iowa
You want to taste me. You want to hear what I sound like when I ride your face, grinding, dripping, and messy. You want my hand in your hair, holding you there, until your cock's leaking from the pressure alone. You want to feel how wet I get when I tell you, "Don't stop. I said don't fucking stop." — But, you haven't earned that yet. Win me over in my inbox. -xoxo
Female (28) Waterloo, Iowa
I can't show my face, for work purposes. but will send pics once we get to chatting. I am looking for monogamy, only.
Female (38) Dubuque, Iowa
Looking for sadist for regular sessions. I’m open to most kinks, my favorites are bondage, toys, ***, and being used
Female (44) Norwalk, Iowa
I'm 31 years old with 2 associates in Healthcare and working on my bachelor's for coding and billing. I am very organized in life when it counts. love to cook but cleaning the kitchen I struggle with but otherwise I keep a clean house. single mother of 5 kids who will not be photographed or part of any conversations. I am a sub who loves to push the rules and limits just for fun and to get a rise out of you. My sense of humor is slighy twisted. [ Mike wishowski and I have to keep an eye out for each other] I reference Disney movies a whole bunch because I've seen them all due to my kids.
Female (31) Davenport, Iowa
I am married to a wonderful husband. We enjoy kink together and are curious about swinging along with the rest of our light kink. Hard Limits- ***, *** play, bodily fluids except cum, ass to mouth, Tickling anything that could cause bodily *** besides what is in my lists of what I would like to do.... must wear a condom PSA MY ACCOUNT AND PICS ARE NOT TO BE SHARED WITH ANY OTHER SITE OR PERSON OUTSIDE OF THIS SITE. I WILL TAKE ACTION AGAINST ANYONE WHO DOES SAID ACTION. NOW THAT BEING SAID LETS GET KINKY!
Female (34) Clinton, Iowa
looking for something new in life not sure what it might be just yet... shy and quiet until I open up to you. polyamorous with a nesting partner and a bf. just a bi girl looking for other bi girls to hang out with,date,join in the bedroom with my bf.. who knows maybe we'll all fall in love... lol that's the dream anyway... open to other couples as we also love to play together I am very happy with the men in my life, so please stop asking.
Female (32) Hawarden, Iowa
hey everyone I'm a single 35 yr old women, that's wanting to explore my wild side I have and experience some kinkiness I have thoughts of..
Female (37) Clinton, Iowa
Looking for a woman to have some fun with me, If you into couples also my husband would love for you to join us in some fun times. Dm me if you're interested
Female (21) Marion, Iowa
I'm an independent minded woman with a wild side looking for a MAN to match my attitude. I'm not looking for a power exchange as much as someone who's been in the lifestyle and knows about the different protocols and ideas comfortable with going to events as playing in private.
Female (57) Mason City, Iowa
I'm looking for a connection that's mutually beneficial and built on respect, trust, and clear communication. I value generosity, kindness, and someone who knows how to make me feel appreciated. What l'm not looking for is drama, games, or anything that feels one-sided —I believe both people should bring something to the table.
Female (23) Dubuque, Iowa
I am a submissive , I am broken ... if you want me to explain further just ask.. I have a wheelchair, I have dentures. I'm a single mom.... I won't choose you over them.. About Me: I’m the kind of submissive who follows rules… but might tease you while doing it. I love the dance between power and trust, and I’m most drawn to someone who can guide with confidence but doesn’t take themselves too seriously. I’m here for connection, chemistry, and someone who makes me feel safe enough to let go. I’m a mix of sweetness, smart remarks, and soft surrender when it feels right. What I Like: • Light protocol and playful control • Teasing, tension, and anticipation • Clear communication • Laughing during scenes (yes, really) • Praise, affection, and thoughtful touches • A Dom who listens—and maybe smirks Seeking: Someone playful but present. You can take the lead, but you don’t have to growl about it. You respect limits, enjoy connection, and know that submission can be both deep… and fun. Limits: ***, ***, urine, *** involvement, ***,
Female (40) Marengo, Iowa
a blond who loves to change it up mommy of one 12-26-24 fur mommy taken not looking for a dating relationship who doesnt love fun 420 friendly
Female (24) Cedar Rapids, Iowa
hi i am a 22 years old sub and in a relationship with my dom, I am looking to add another dom but you have too be 100% ok with not being the only dom, and please be serious. I am looking for both virtual and in person, I would like for both my doms to get along with eachother and sometimes and dom me at the same time from time to time, if youd like to talk to me please message my dom, Waterloo356905, for permission, and if permission is given we can talk there I am a switch I am a little, little age being anywhere between 3-5
Female (22) Washburn, Iowa
Here to hang out with y'all. Hopefully people of similar mindset. I love oral sex therefore my profile pic. Only interested in men. I am not bisexual in the least. Not interested in 3sums, 4sums, ect.
Female (55) Washburn, Iowa
single mom , wanting to meet a man who is into the same things I am too and no ashamed to show it
Female (39) Waterloo, Iowa
Wine and dine and you just might get dessert 🐈 My dream date is a Tattoo date😍 NOT looking for anything serious atm I do spicys so if that bothers you please dont add or add back
Female (21) Des Moines, Iowa
INFJ, naturally curious,intentionally slow. Sub-leaning, very highly selective by design, no formal experience and looking forward to learn with the right man- grounded, capable, consistent, a natural born leader, whose power and confidence comes from competence and desire for growth... I value maturity, discernment, depth, and self-awareness over s***d. Consent, trust, and clarity are foundational—not optional. Ambition paired with restraint is deeply attractive. Not here for chaos, ego, or rushed dynamics. Quality over quantity - Always. Slow burns welcome. No cyber play or photo exchanges. Real-life connection only. No off-platform contact before meeting. If you reach out, lead with intention—not performance. If you didn’t read this, I’ll notice. And I’ll pass. A handsome face or strong body may catch my eye—but a disciplined, strategic mind earns access. PS If you're just curious to ask for a face pic, I don't share them... I'm sure there's plenty of ladies with pics here.
Female (42) Des Moines, Iowa
Alright.Alroght Alright. now dont everyone hit me up all at once , there is plenty of me to go around . im looking for a man or a couple for the benefits side of FWB. COUPLES ARE SOOO MUCH FUN, BUT PLEASE ,I DO NOT WANT TO BE YOUR FIRST 3 SOME. ..I CAN POSSIBLY BE HALF OF A COUPLE FROM TIME TO TIME.I WOULD LOVE TO HAVE A FRIEND TO GO TO EVENTS WITH, SOMEONE MUCH MORE EXPERIENCED THAN MYSELF.
Female (49) Delaware, Iowa
Owned **Sir told me he owns me now, so I need a collar and a leash. He says being owned is what I was made for. **I am an educated, successful and independent proud feminist. I said no one could give me what I wanted, that I would NOT be tamed, that I didnt need any man to take care of me; I was wrong. I didn't know I was wrong until Sir came along and enlightened me. He restrained my chaos and declared that I now belong to him. **Sometimes I get sassy or act out and Sir says if I'm going to act like a spoiled brat, he's going to treat me like one. So he makes me stand in the corner while while I await my punishment. **Sir makes me strip for daily inspections and beg to be used and degraded. He knows I'll whine and cry from embarrassment and he's always prepared to correct me, but then, with care, he wipes away my tears. **Sir learned my secrets and said they're a gift owed to men so he likes to share me. He doesn't trust others because he is too protective, so he only shares me with his closest friends. Afterward, I must write down all the ways they used me and Sir files them away for reasons unknown. **Sir says he doesn't like to see me stumble, that he will take care of me and never hurt me. He provides a steady hand to lead me so I bow my head and acquiesce, pledging my loyalty and reverence. **Sir told me he owns me now, so I need a collar and a leash. He says being owned is what I was made for. **Seeking like-minded, feminist, submissive, female friends. All other messages and friend requests need to be approved by Sir, if I do not respond, it is due to not receiving approval**
Female (45) Des Moines, Iowa

New members in Iowa

a blond who loves to change it up mommy of one 12-26-24 fur mommy taken not looking for a dating relationship who doesnt love fun 420 friendly
Female (24) Cedar Rapids, Iowa
If you’re looking for a quick release, one-time roleplay, or a “forever Domme,” I’m not the one for you. Similarly, if you’re exclusively seeking a monogamous long-term relationship, we might not align. I’m looking for something meaningful but balanced something in between the extremes. I’m a 22[My profile says otherwise because I made a mistake and I haven’t figured a way to change it] year-old Mommy Domme from California . I have a soft but confident personality and prioritize my partner’s happiness above all else. When I’m not exploring power dynamics, I enjoy: • Playing video games (and would love to play with you!) • Listening to all kinds of music • Watching horror and thriller movies I’m naturally dominant, and exploring my sexuality has always been fascinating. While physical pleasure is important, I’m far more captivated by the mental aspects teasing, challenging, and forming a deep, intimate connection. I enjoy the process of building trust, playing with boundaries, and creating something beautiful together. My preferences are versatile and adaptive, ranging from soft and nurturing to primal, degrading, or experimental. What I enjoy most depends on the moment, the person, and the connection we share.
Female (30) Des Moines, Iowa
I can't show my face, for work purposes. but will send pics once we get to chatting. I am looking for monogamy, only.
Female (38) Dubuque, Iowa
fun loving very light harded person really good at listening looking for a hard dom at times but also a daddy dom who will baby me and as well as a relationship
Female (19) Council Bluffs, Iowa
You want to taste me. You want to hear what I sound like when I ride your face, grinding, dripping, and messy. You want my hand in your hair, holding you there, until your cock's leaking from the pressure alone. You want to feel how wet I get when I tell you, "Don't stop. I said don't fucking stop." — But, you haven't earned that yet. Win me over in my inbox. -xoxo
Female (28) Waterloo, Iowa
34f in an enm marriage for the past 9 years. pansexual female switch! I am honest and dont believe in wasting time as a form of respect, life is to short to be lead along so if you feel the same leave a chat. let's see how naturally progress in attraction, talent, and ability to read body language.
Female (34) Granger, Iowa
Looking for sadist for regular sessions. I’m open to most kinks, my favorites are bondage, toys, ***, and being used
Female (44) Norwalk, Iowa
I'm looking for a connection that's mutually beneficial and built on respect, trust, and clear communication. I value generosity, kindness, and someone who knows how to make me feel appreciated. What l'm not looking for is drama, games, or anything that feels one-sided —I believe both people should bring something to the table.
Female (23) Dubuque, Iowa
I am a submissive , I am broken ... if you want me to explain further just ask.. I have a wheelchair, I have dentures. I'm a single mom.... I won't choose you over them.. About Me: I’m the kind of submissive who follows rules… but might tease you while doing it. I love the dance between power and trust, and I’m most drawn to someone who can guide with confidence but doesn’t take themselves too seriously. I’m here for connection, chemistry, and someone who makes me feel safe enough to let go. I’m a mix of sweetness, smart remarks, and soft surrender when it feels right. What I Like: • Light protocol and playful control • Teasing, tension, and anticipation • Clear communication • Laughing during scenes (yes, really) • Praise, affection, and thoughtful touches • A Dom who listens—and maybe smirks Seeking: Someone playful but present. You can take the lead, but you don’t have to growl about it. You respect limits, enjoy connection, and know that submission can be both deep… and fun. Limits: ***, ***, urine, *** involvement, ***,
Female (40) Marengo, Iowa
I am married to a wonderful husband. We enjoy kink together and are curious about swinging along with the rest of our light kink. Hard Limits- ***, *** play, bodily fluids except cum, ass to mouth, Tickling anything that could cause bodily *** besides what is in my lists of what I would like to do.... must wear a condom PSA MY ACCOUNT AND PICS ARE NOT TO BE SHARED WITH ANY OTHER SITE OR PERSON OUTSIDE OF THIS SITE. I WILL TAKE ACTION AGAINST ANYONE WHO DOES SAID ACTION. NOW THAT BEING SAID LETS GET KINKY!
Female (34) Clinton, Iowa
Looking for a woman to have some fun with me, If you into couples also my husband would love for you to join us in some fun times. Dm me if you're interested
Female (21) Marion, Iowa
hi i am a 22 years old sub and in a relationship with my dom, I am looking to add another dom but you have too be 100% ok with not being the only dom, and please be serious. I am looking for both virtual and in person, I would like for both my doms to get along with eachother and sometimes and dom me at the same time from time to time, if youd like to talk to me please message my dom, Waterloo356905, for permission, and if permission is given we can talk there I am a switch I am a little, little age being anywhere between 3-5
Female (22) Washburn, Iowa
hey everyone I'm a single 35 yr old women, that's wanting to explore my wild side I have and experience some kinkiness I have thoughts of..
Female (37) Clinton, Iowa
looking for something new in life not sure what it might be just yet... shy and quiet until I open up to you. polyamorous with a nesting partner and a bf. just a bi girl looking for other bi girls to hang out with,date,join in the bedroom with my bf.. who knows maybe we'll all fall in love... lol that's the dream anyway... open to other couples as we also love to play together I am very happy with the men in my life, so please stop asking.
Female (32) Hawarden, Iowa
I'm 31 years old with 2 associates in Healthcare and working on my bachelor's for coding and billing. I am very organized in life when it counts. love to cook but cleaning the kitchen I struggle with but otherwise I keep a clean house. single mother of 5 kids who will not be photographed or part of any conversations. I am a sub who loves to push the rules and limits just for fun and to get a rise out of you. My sense of humor is slighy twisted. [ Mike wishowski and I have to keep an eye out for each other] I reference Disney movies a whole bunch because I've seen them all due to my kids.
Female (31) Davenport, Iowa
new so dont be too forward... as if men even read profiles show me you have... long distance/online only is kinda a no go for me.... some one willing to build the trust and can carry that energy into normal interactions
Female (28) Ankeny, Iowa
I'm 54 in a poly relationship and I'm a submissive/slave looking for my other person. I'm very passionate and love being touched and caressed and massage. I'm not looking for games.
Female (54) Altoona, Iowa
I'm an independent minded woman with a wild side looking for a MAN to match my attitude. I'm not looking for a power exchange as much as someone who's been in the lifestyle and knows about the different protocols and ideas comfortable with going to events as playing in private.
Female (57) Mason City, Iowa
Here to hang out with y'all. Hopefully people of similar mindset. I love oral sex therefore my profile pic. Only interested in men. I am not bisexual in the least. Not interested in 3sums, 4sums, ect.
Female (55) Washburn, Iowa
I live for the rush of things, I'll try just about anything. Communication is key goes both ways I'm still new to this world but I know who I am and what I like so far.... let's test my limits! HARD LIMITS..... KEEP YOUR STUFF THAT BELONG IN THE TOILET IN THERE...
Female (32) Mason City, Iowa
I am a fun energetic person who loves to have a good time but will hurt your feelings if you cross me. I am an Aries. I work hard but like to play harder. I won’t deny being spoiled but love to give as well. If you tell me no I probably won’t listen. I like to spend *** like it grows on trees so if you want to shake your tree at me I’ll give you something to shake at😘
Female (28) Blencoe, Iowa
I am a BBW, Mother, Unsane, genuine, brutally honest, Nerd/Geek 100%, Witchy, Halloween Vibes, Horror Fan, Artsy, Creative, Optimistic to a fualt and Very Kismatic -My partner in crime is Vidar84 period- ~My relationship and kiddos come first always. ~No I will not join any thrupples so please do not ask! -Looking for a NSA fun with a woman for my partner and I. Help me full fill his fantasy and maybe some of yours!
Female (41) Cedar Rapids, Iowa
Hey! My husband and I are ENM and looking for a fun, adventurous F, M or a couple to join us and make some new friends along the way. We play together but are open to 1-1 as well We’re here to make genuine connections and see where things go. If we vibe, let’s see what happens!
Female (27) Reinbeck, Iowa
Wine and dine and you just might get dessert 🐈 My dream date is a Tattoo date😍 NOT looking for anything serious atm I do spicys so if that bothers you please dont add or add back
Female (21) Des Moines, Iowa

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