Hi there, this is difficult to write as I’m trying to encompass what I’m looking for and a bit about myself so you can know if we would be compatible without revealing too much. So… this is my attempt!
While I’m still fairly inexperienced in the lifestyle, I’m not looking for a mentor or someone to train me from the ground up. I’m here because I know what I want, to submit, to serve, to belong, and I’m seeking someone who can meet me where I am and build something meaningful, without rushing or micromanaging. I want to grow into the dynamic with someone who sees me as a whole submissive, not a blank slate.
I love the feeling of quiet, constant submission, the kind that’s always present in the background, even during soft or playful moments. I’m not interested in high-intensity 24/7 slave dynamics, but I am drawn to rules, rituals, and structure. I want to feel owned, accountable, and guided, not dehumanized or overwhelmed.
I come from a more conservative background and tend to be shy and reserved, especially at first. I prefer smaller, more intimate spaces where I can be myself. I’m affectionate, thoughtful, and deeply obedient once I feel safe and emotionally connected.
About me outside of kink:
I love crafting (especially sewing), cooking, and exploring new restaurants or quirky little shops. I’m active, I run and hike regularly, and I also enjoy music, ***s, birdwatching, horror movies, and the occasional video game. I’m also quietly fascinated by law and structure, which is probably part of why I’m so drawn to D/s. I live with a family of all men, but in a very large home so I have a ton of space. I’m not in Lexington, but close enough. I’m trying to preserve my privacy in a small town.
I’m conventionally attractive. Brunette with blue eyes, freckles, and pale skin. I’m thin but not flat. I have one piercing (my ears are stretched) and no tattoos. Verification is no problem once there's a bit of comfort and rapport.
What I’m looking for:
- Someone 25 and up
- Someone emotionally intelligent, calm, and communicative
- Someone comfortable taking the lead in conversation, life, and kink
- Someone who wants real structure and ownership, with room for lightness too
- Someone open to online/meeting up or long-distance, with the potential for something deeper over time. I do not want to laser focus on a specific future occurring, instead I want to let this dynamic naturally blossom into what WE want it to be.
- Nobody involved in anything ENM
If this sounds like your kind of dynamic, feel free to message me. If it helps, I would like to know about you outside of kink, what drew you to me, any questions you have, and how you want to proceed. No sexual messages, thank you!
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