BDSM Dexter

My wife would like to find a female to sext me share me with her and watch me make this female squirm in LBL area.

I am seeking a dominant playmate: woman, trans, couple, or man that will help me learn how to act with proper etiquette while helping me experience different aspects of bdsm until I figure out exactly what I like and don't like, find my boundaries, and give me what I need to fulfill my submissive desires.