I define myself as a switch, sensualist, sapiosexual, slight masochist. I like kissing, fingering, teasing, nipple play, toys, anal, bondage, sensation play. On my fuckit list are impact play, wax play, and ***d orgasms. Curious about fisting. Not into ***, ***, ***, ***/***.
I'm single, straight, and monogamous. I'm not interested in group sex or men who are cheating on a partner. I'm 420-friendly but don't use often myself. I'm on vanilla dating sites, too, which is its own version of hell when you're kinky.
I've been single for over 10 years after a 25-year marriage. I have two kids over 18, living at home. I'm educated and liberal. I'm a 5'5" BBW with a bad back/hip and walk with a cane. I'm limited in walking, stairs, and acrobatic sex but can still give and receive pleasure. I'm liberal yet individualistic. I believe in treating all people respectfully. Fun lately is Netflix, ***ting, reading, and car karoake. I like comedy, music.
Even if it's just sex, I have to have a mental as well as physical connection for it to be good.
Ideally, I'd like a relationship but I'm open to play/fwb with the right person. I'm downriver.