I’m new to the kink world but curious about stepping into a more dominant role. I’m not here to posture as something I’m not — I’m here to learn, explore, and grow into what feels authentic. I value communication, respect, and safety as much as play. Outside of kink, I love art, books, plants/nature at large— so I tend to bring creativity and care into whatever I do.
What I’m Exploring:
D/s dynamics, especially what it means to lead with both firmness and empathy.
Light bondage and restraint (with lots of safety talk!)
Tease, anticipation, and psychological play
Learning what really makes a partner feel seen and cared for in the role of submission
What I Value:
Clear boundaries and enthusiastic consent
Open communication before, during, and after play
Partners who know what excites them, or who are also curious and figuring it out
What I’m Not Into:
***, ***, hard ***.
Looking For:
Submissive-leaning people who are patient with someone finding their dominant voice. Someone playful, adventurous, and honest about their limits. Ideally, someone who enjoys teaching as much as exploring.
updated 10/22- Currently not looking for anything but conversation. 😊
I'm very new to the whole dom/sub lifestyle. But its something I've been interested in for a long time. From a lot of what I gathered I'm more on the brat side of things. I like to push boundaries and rile people up. Recently out of a long-term relationship so I'm not looking for one of those. Right now I'm just looking for friends and trying to learn more about myself in the process. When I am finally ready, I'll be more or less looking for a dom with patience willing to teach me and guide me when I'm ready to take that step. As of right now, I'm not sure I'm quite ready. I've got some me things to work on first. Other than that, I'm super friendly and willing to chat with most people.
I’m new to the kink world but curious about stepping into a more dominant role. I’m not here to posture as something I’m not — I’m here to learn, explore, and grow into what feels authentic. I value communication, respect, and safety as much as play. Outside of kink, I love art, books, plants/nature at large— so I tend to bring creativity and care into whatever I do.
What I’m Exploring:
D/s dynamics, especially what it means to lead with both firmness and empathy.
Light bondage and restraint (with lots of safety talk!)
Tease, anticipation, and psychological play
Learning what really makes a partner feel seen and cared for in the role of submission
What I Value:
Clear boundaries and enthusiastic consent
Open communication before, during, and after play
Partners who know what excites them, or who are also curious and figuring it out
What I’m Not Into:
***, ***, hard ***.
Looking For:
Submissive-leaning people who are patient with someone finding their dominant voice. Someone playful, adventurous, and honest about their limits. Ideally, someone who enjoys teaching as much as exploring.
updated 10/22- Currently not looking for anything but conversation. 😊
I'm very new to the whole dom/sub lifestyle. But its something I've been interested in for a long time. From a lot of what I gathered I'm more on the brat side of things. I like to push boundaries and rile people up. Recently out of a long-term relationship so I'm not looking for one of those. Right now I'm just looking for friends and trying to learn more about myself in the process. When I am finally ready, I'll be more or less looking for a dom with patience willing to teach me and guide me when I'm ready to take that step. As of right now, I'm not sure I'm quite ready. I've got some me things to work on first. Other than that, I'm super friendly and willing to chat with most people.
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