BDSM Dating in Columbus

hey, im looking for someone i can submit to and be taken care of like a good boy. im usually a top and i am looking to find someone i can safely let go and hand the reins to. i have a husband and we are ENM. im not looking to date anyone seriously at the moment, but if something happens then it happens ¯_(ツ)_/¯

i am a transman, and id like to find a woman, femme, or nonbinary person to have some fun with