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I'm a cheerful woman with a good sense of humor, thoughtful, reliable, and outgoing. I love spending time with my family and friends. I love sunsets, and even better with a glass of wine. I love having my pets around.
Female (46) Columbia, South Carolina
I'm a 51 year old bisexual female seeking sexy decent men and women for sexting and pic exchange. I love to be sexually creative. I love when a man or a woman licks and plays with my nipples and my belly button I llove to take my clothes off I love anal sex and anal play. I enjoy porn and sex toys. Must be discreet.
Female (52) Columbia, South Carolina
Newly single. Not a friend's collector. I will take you rushing as a red flag. The anticipatuon and build up of a get to know you process is half the fun!
Female (36) Columbia, South Carolina
I’m a natural switch sensual, confident, and deeply aware of power. I love the slow burn of control: the way attention lingers, the way tension builds, the way intention changes everything. I can relax into being guided, receptive and eager to please, or I can take charge with calm authority, setting the tone and expecting it to be met. I enjoy trust, consent, and the kind of chemistry that feels electric before anything even happens. Soft lips, steady eye contact, and a presence that knows exactly when to yield and when to take what’s wanted.💚
Female (35) Columbia, South Carolina
Hi! I’m a married, 38-year-old bisexual woman in an ENM relationship. My husband is not involved in my connections with women in any capacity — he won’t see your pics, read messages, or participate, and I expect that same respect in return. I’m specifically looking for a female FWB dynamic — something that includes affection, laughter, intimacy, and a bit of girlhood magic… we just also really enjoy fucking each other 🤷‍♀️ I tend to click best with other ENM married women since we usually understand the balance and boundaries, but I’m absolutely open to single girlies too. Bonus points if you’re local to the Columbia area and open to in-person fun 😊 If this sounds like your vibe, slide into my DMs — I’d love to chat 😘
Female (38) Columbia, South Carolina
a Dom looking for a obedient pet 24-33 to entertain me for a short term fun I’m not into couples i rather be by myself I’m a responsible and respectful dom im not very soft at all i do get rough when i feel like it so much my energy or keep it moving please and thank you something locally i don’t do long distance or cyber fun
Female (32) Columbia, South Carolina
Navigating life with a sense of adventure and humor! I’m happily married/in an open marriage and open to making new friends and connections. I enjoy exploring new places, sharing great meals, and engaging in lively conversations. Seeking genuine connections. Let's share stories and experiences! -Bonus points if you can get along with my husband. -Looking for a relationship! It can be just friends but I’m hoping for more! ❤️
If you're going to immediately jump into something sexual, please find someone else. We are all obviously here for the same thing, but I have no interest in men who don't want to talk to me like a real person. Kinky doesn't mean horny 24/7. I want intelligence and wit. someone who can hold a real conversation. I'm here to explore and chat for now. I'm currently recovering from surgery and just wanting to talk, get to know people and see if I find someone who fits what I am looking for and vice versa. I promise I'm not as cranky as this comes off lol so let's talk and see if we hate each other!
im 28 years old im a mom for 4 kids im happily married to my high-school sweetheart I don't have one style im very unique and quirky and country af I do cuss so be warned and im new to the swingers lifestyle but will only talk that route if I truly trust you mostly looking for friends I have Snapchat you can add me but message me first not going to pay for this so if your interested message me ALSO IF THE DIXIE FLAG OFFENDS YOU THEN MOVE ON #HeritageNotHate
I’m Vee, a 5’3 BBW. Yes the age is accurate. I enjoy Dom/Sub, Brat Tamer/Brat, BDSM, Choking, Plus size Lovers, Role Play. I’m seeking LTR with kink. I’m a grown woman with fetishes, please know how to approach me. Don’t be shy, I don’t bite without consent.
Female (50) Columbia, South Carolina
interested most in DDLG and would love someone to pamper and spoil me also just curious about kink life and the lives of other DDLG couples anything I'd do would have to be online for now
Female (19) Columbia, South Carolina
I’m loyal, loving, sweet and a big *** of a two year old brother I also in high school and I have a life too so please don’t rush me. I just want to be loved and treated like a princess. also I live with my parents
Female (18) Columbia, South Carolina
33, Single, MILF 💯 You want to be/stay relevant...actions > sweet nothings!!! 💯 💥 Concisely detailed wants of me and what to expect from you! 💥 ⚠️ Must occupy an emotional, physical, financial, and/or mental place in my life! ⚠️ ✅️ Honesty > Feelings ✅️ ⭐️ Knowledge = Understanding ⭐️ 🧠 Empathy/ Emotional Support > Age 🧠
Female (34) Columbia, South Carolina
hey hey hey. 😁 Im Newish to this lifestyle, but experienced enough to know what I want- Love to read and write, I also like to cook. down for adventures, like to try new things
Female (24) Columbia, South Carolina
New to the world of BDSM, eager to explore new depths and heights! I’m all about authenticity—call me out on your bullshit and I’ll do the same. If you’re ready for some thrilling adventures and spontaneous fun, let’s dive into this wild journey together.
Female (23) Columbia, South Carolina
I’m in a relationship, but love playing with girls and have a huge cuck kink. Open to almost anything my boyfriend doesn’t need to watch. Looking for Females!
Female (22) Columbia, South Carolina
I am a confident woman with curves. I love to cook for others, cuddle, go on road trips, hike, swim, beach, mountains, lake, rivers, go out on the town, discover new restaurants, watch a good show and relax. Honestly, I am looking for a local guy to date to hopefully turn into a long-term possibly semi-open relationship. I want a guy that is a great communicator (throughout the day), responsible, romantic, is open to adventure, somewhat spontaneous. No cigs, please. Vape and 420 ok sometimes. Please be within 25 mins of Columbia, SC. Please have a valid driver's license, a car, a good living situation and a job.
Female (39) Columbia, South Carolina
I live in Columbia me and my man are looking for a third to be in either a threesome or actual relationship. I’m 20 while he is 23. We like bdsm and would like I switch I want a domme while he wants another submissive. But also wouldn’t mind vanilla. Some things to know about me is I’m a major K-pop fan and dark romance. My bias is Lee taemin from SHINee and my man likes sleep token. I like cats and dogs and want to have a cat sooner or later. I like going out and I like cooking asian food. my type is Asian and Hispanics
Female (20) Columbia, South Carolina
Sagittarius 🏹 ....just in here browsing and networking .....prefer spending time with Black Men Only, nothing serious .....friendship.
Female (40) Columbia, South Carolina
I've been exploring the kink world some the last couple of years. Would love to find a fetish friendly man to potentially build something with. Also open to exploring with women and couples.
Female (39) Columbia, South Carolina
Well hello 🙋🏾‍♀️ beautiful people. I am jazmine. I am 32 yes young, I love the colors yellow and red. I reside in NC and have 5 ***s and two brothers. Im totally like cute short and a Lil blond💁🏼‍♀️ lol. Im honestly say asf and am currently trying the guy thing...uummm🙄😬😵‍💫🥴🤔...not going to well 😒😑😳☠️🙅🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️ soooo ...let's just go with the flow. 😁😉🤩😜😋🤪. Trust me...there's a lot your going to, and ARE going to love about Lil ol me!! 🥰😇😍😘😻💋💛💜❤️💯💯💫💥🏾🤤🙂‍↔️
Female (32) Columbia, South Carolina
Coming out of a messy marriage. I want fun and strings eventually. Im a nerd, and will always be. I’m a lover, curious, spend a lot of time in the gym. Find me.
Female (32) Columbia, South Carolina
OF: Alicia.waters very new to the BDSM/kinky world and wanting to experience all of it. no boundaries 😌 use me, *** me, then take care of me after. I need to be ate off the BONE. where have all the eaters gone??
Female (26) Columbia, South Carolina
Spoil Me Right and I’ll let you know what you Need! Your Princess is here. 👑 🍭 Sweet enough to melt your heart … bratty enough to laugh at you for craving me so much. I’m the kind of woman who demands excellence from anyone bold enough to be on my level. Want my attention? Prove you’re the type to prioritize it. You thrive under sugar-coated commands and crave a woman who’ll own every inch of your focus. Here’s what I’m looking for: 🔥 A man who understands spoiling isn’t optional – it’s mandatory. If you’re still reading? Good. Now… Your first task is to Slide into my DMs with exactly how you’d start pampering me. Bonus points for creativity… and even more for action.
Female (40) Columbia, South Carolina

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I'm a cheerful woman with a good sense of humor, thoughtful, reliable, and outgoing. I love spending time with my family and friends. I love sunsets, and even better with a glass of wine. I love having my pets around.
Female (46) Columbia, South Carolina
I'm a 51 year old bisexual female seeking sexy decent men and women for sexting and pic exchange. I love to be sexually creative. I love when a man or a woman licks and plays with my nipples and my belly button I llove to take my clothes off I love anal sex and anal play. I enjoy porn and sex toys. Must be discreet.
Female (52) Columbia, South Carolina
Coming out of a messy marriage. I want fun and strings eventually. Im a nerd, and will always be. I’m a lover, curious, spend a lot of time in the gym. Find me.
Female (32) Columbia, South Carolina
Hi! I’m a married, 38-year-old bisexual woman in an ENM relationship. My husband is not involved in my connections with women in any capacity — he won’t see your pics, read messages, or participate, and I expect that same respect in return. I’m specifically looking for a female FWB dynamic — something that includes affection, laughter, intimacy, and a bit of girlhood magic… we just also really enjoy fucking each other 🤷‍♀️ I tend to click best with other ENM married women since we usually understand the balance and boundaries, but I’m absolutely open to single girlies too. Bonus points if you’re local to the Columbia area and open to in-person fun 😊 If this sounds like your vibe, slide into my DMs — I’d love to chat 😘
Female (38) Columbia, South Carolina
I'm not taking this opportunity to express myself lightly. I will be taking my time and add a bit more detail and photos as the days go by. but that's only because I have not been on any social media or apps for a long time, so I'm still a little nervous about being this up front and personal with people I haven't met. now that I'm ready for the next stage in my life to explore my sexuality and push some boundaries, I want to do it with someone that can be open to leading the way and having fun with what we may experience.
Female (43) Columbia, South Carolina
Newly single. Not a friend's collector. I will take you rushing as a red flag. The anticipatuon and build up of a get to know you process is half the fun!
Female (36) Columbia, South Carolina
I am a confident woman with curves. I love to cook for others, cuddle, go on road trips, hike, swim, beach, mountains, lake, rivers, go out on the town, discover new restaurants, watch a good show and relax. Honestly, I am looking for a local guy to date to hopefully turn into a long-term possibly semi-open relationship. I want a guy that is a great communicator (throughout the day), responsible, romantic, is open to adventure, somewhat spontaneous. No cigs, please. Vape and 420 ok sometimes. Please be within 25 mins of Columbia, SC. Please have a valid driver's license, a car, a good living situation and a job.
Female (39) Columbia, South Carolina
I’m loyal, loving, sweet and a big *** of a two year old brother I also in high school and I have a life too so please don’t rush me. I just want to be loved and treated like a princess. also I live with my parents
Female (18) Columbia, South Carolina
I’m a natural switch sensual, confident, and deeply aware of power. I love the slow burn of control: the way attention lingers, the way tension builds, the way intention changes everything. I can relax into being guided, receptive and eager to please, or I can take charge with calm authority, setting the tone and expecting it to be met. I enjoy trust, consent, and the kind of chemistry that feels electric before anything even happens. Soft lips, steady eye contact, and a presence that knows exactly when to yield and when to take what’s wanted.💚
Female (35) Columbia, South Carolina
If you're going to immediately jump into something sexual, please find someone else. We are all obviously here for the same thing, but I have no interest in men who don't want to talk to me like a real person. Kinky doesn't mean horny 24/7. I want intelligence and wit. someone who can hold a real conversation. I'm here to explore and chat for now. I'm currently recovering from surgery and just wanting to talk, get to know people and see if I find someone who fits what I am looking for and vice versa. I promise I'm not as cranky as this comes off lol so let's talk and see if we hate each other!
interested most in DDLG and would love someone to pamper and spoil me also just curious about kink life and the lives of other DDLG couples anything I'd do would have to be online for now
Female (19) Columbia, South Carolina
I’m Vee, a 5’3 BBW. Yes the age is accurate. I enjoy Dom/Sub, Brat Tamer/Brat, BDSM, Choking, Plus size Lovers, Role Play. I’m seeking LTR with kink. I’m a grown woman with fetishes, please know how to approach me. Don’t be shy, I don’t bite without consent.
Female (50) Columbia, South Carolina
OF: Alicia.waters very new to the BDSM/kinky world and wanting to experience all of it. no boundaries 😌 use me, *** me, then take care of me after. I need to be ate off the BONE. where have all the eaters gone??
Female (26) Columbia, South Carolina
Sagittarius 🏹 ....just in here browsing and networking .....prefer spending time with Black Men Only, nothing serious .....friendship.
Female (40) Columbia, South Carolina
💜🧚🏾‍♀️Hi hi I’m Mya. A, subby, bratty, littlespace, lesbian hoping to meet new people and make new connections throughout the community. I’m new to the community but not new (if that makes sense). I’ve been trained before but not to my fullest extent, and would love to go deeper. welcome but keep it cute and respectful!!! DISCLAIMER* I do not consent to any unsolicited pics of you so don’t try and send them nor send me any sexual text messages as you will be IMMEDIATELY blocked! :). I am NOT interested in men!!! You can message me but keep it cute and appropriate. Have a list of likes and dislikes and haven’t tried yet below. Welcome to my small little space.🧚🏾‍♀️💜
Female (23) Columbia, South Carolina
I really enjoy connecting with people who appreciate good company, meaningful conversations, and the finer side of life. I’m drawn to generosity and genuine energy. Are you the type who enjoys spoiling?😘
Female (25) Columbia, South Carolina
Sub with a little brat/switch tendencies. Open-minded, non-judgmental and down-to-earth. Kinda new to the lifestyle. SEEKING A MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP AND SOMEONE LOCAL 😅
Female (46) Columbia, South Carolina
New to the world of BDSM, eager to explore new depths and heights! I’m all about authenticity—call me out on your bullshit and I’ll do the same. If you’re ready for some thrilling adventures and spontaneous fun, let’s dive into this wild journey together.
Female (23) Columbia, South Carolina
Well hello 🙋🏾‍♀️ beautiful people. I am jazmine. I am 32 yes young, I love the colors yellow and red. I reside in NC and have 5 ***s and two brothers. Im totally like cute short and a Lil blond💁🏼‍♀️ lol. Im honestly say asf and am currently trying the guy thing...uummm🙄😬😵‍💫🥴🤔...not going to well 😒😑😳☠️🙅🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️ soooo ...let's just go with the flow. 😁😉🤩😜😋🤪. Trust me...there's a lot your going to, and ARE going to love about Lil ol me!! 🥰😇😍😘😻💋💛💜❤️💯💯💫💥🏾🤤🙂‍↔️
Female (32) Columbia, South Carolina
I don't speak much because what you don't say speaks volumes. I am a Sensualist, a Princess, a sub. I am not a slave. I do not like ***. I want a Primal/Pleasure Dom. I am not interested in someone who read about the lifestyle and is now curious. If you are unable to care for yourself, you cannot possibly care for me. I will not entertain foolishness, so please find something safe to play with because it's not me. All subs are not the same.
Female (49) Columbia, South Carolina
im 28 years old im a mom for 4 kids im happily married to my high-school sweetheart I don't have one style im very unique and quirky and country af I do cuss so be warned and im new to the swingers lifestyle but will only talk that route if I truly trust you mostly looking for friends I have Snapchat you can add me but message me first not going to pay for this so if your interested message me ALSO IF THE DIXIE FLAG OFFENDS YOU THEN MOVE ON #HeritageNotHate
Spoil Me Right and I’ll let you know what you Need! Your Princess is here. 👑 🍭 Sweet enough to melt your heart … bratty enough to laugh at you for craving me so much. I’m the kind of woman who demands excellence from anyone bold enough to be on my level. Want my attention? Prove you’re the type to prioritize it. You thrive under sugar-coated commands and crave a woman who’ll own every inch of your focus. Here’s what I’m looking for: 🔥 A man who understands spoiling isn’t optional – it’s mandatory. If you’re still reading? Good. Now… Your first task is to Slide into my DMs with exactly how you’d start pampering me. Bonus points for creativity… and even more for action.
Female (40) Columbia, South Carolina
shy and introvert baker-writer and professional sleeper looking for a ddlg daddy Dom or just a dominant daddy I really need a daddy someone to talk to when I'm sad or just filling in space limits:anal,***,***,***,foot fetish, etc kinks:Bdsm, choking, backshots, praise mixed with degrading, hickie, and being pinned down
Female (19) Columbia, South Carolina
Navigating life with a sense of adventure and humor! I’m happily married/in an open marriage and open to making new friends and connections. I enjoy exploring new places, sharing great meals, and engaging in lively conversations. Seeking genuine connections. Let's share stories and experiences! -Bonus points if you can get along with my husband. -Looking for a relationship! It can be just friends but I’m hoping for more! ❤️

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