i'm a very versatile dom. i enjoy both bdsm and being a pleasure dom, so if you like both, i can deliver!😈

ultimately i would like to meet someone who would be interested in being collared. i once owned someone, but that relationship fell apart. they were my first and only, so i learned everything i know from them (and my own research). if you're looking for a pro, then i'm probably not a good fit. you could consider me a confident learner, tho, so someone who has dibbled and dabbled or doesn't have years of experience might find me approachable. or someone experienced willing to teach me more would also be nice.🙂

i am not looking for a 24/7 situation, as that would be impossible for me (i have a spouse and kids at home). i am polyamorous/non-monogamous, and intend to stay that way. but i do want someone who wants to be owned, to be taken care of, to be punished when they're being bad, hehe (brats to the front plz!). i'm also cool with age and pet play. and while i do have multiple relationships, i want to only own one special person as my sub. i am a nurturer by nature, so i am full of TLC for my sub, especially after-care.🖤

i want to be able to put someone in subspace fairly regularly. so you'd need to live close to me (an hour or so is about the max distance) and be able to do the majority of the hosting (because fam, duh). and be willing to schedule some sessions several times a month. also cool with doing some distant sessions and eventually add remote toys to our video chats. (would also like toys to use on in person dates that i can control).😁

D/s is a very deep and rich relationship for me, and i miss it so much!! 😭 i would like someone who wants to reach those same depths. trust, communication, and clear boundaries are absolutely necessary for both of us.👍

also note that i am 100% a switch (lol my kink test is so accurate), and i'm cool with switchy ppl as well, but prefer to have two separate dynamic relationships to satisfy my switchiness. (you'll probably run across a sub ad from me too, so that's why.)😅

BDSM/Fetish Family18 to 40 years ● 240km around USA Smyrna

Who I’m dying to meet

One extraordinary woman, 40–55, who feels the exact same electric pull I do and understands that some fires only burn hotter when they’re hidden in absolute darkness.

You’re:

  • Married or single; doesn’t matter, as long as you’re capable of total, airtight discretion
  • Local to Middle Tennessee (Franklin, Brentwood, Nashville, Cool Springs, or within 30 quiet minutes)
  • Curvy, soft, responsive, with lips that beg to be suckled for hours and breasts that heave when you’re breathless
  • Patient enough to endure slow, ruthless worship and greedy enough to sob when you’re denied my manhood until I decide you’ve earned it
  • Addicted to the kind of deep, sloppy, spit-drenched kissing that leaves chins glistening and sheets ruined
  • Craving slow, bare, relentless thrusting that ends with you flooded and trembling, followed by long, skin-fused cuddling where every aftershock is milked by gentle rolls of hips and soft bites
  • Able to meet weekday afternoons in cash-paid hotel suites, then vanish like we never existed

    If you’ve ever locked your car in the Kroger parking lot and felt your thighs clench at the thought of a silver-haired stranger who will hold you so tight you forget your own name, while his wife sits home oblivious…

    Send me the words
    “I keep secrets too”
    and tell me what your lips taste like right now.

    I’ll handle everything else.
    She will never know.
    No one will ever know.
    Except us, every single time we disappear into that room. 💦

Kinky Date40 to 61 years ● 40km around USA Franklin

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