Find kinky women in San Antonio

Hello There! First and foremost, welcome! Now that we got the pleasantries out of the way, here’s a little bit about me. My name is Jax, and we recently moved from Miami, Florida to San Antonio, Texas. I have many different hobbies like video games, different types of music, I’m a huge bookworm and Harry Potter/Disney fanatic, a friend to all animals, love to cook, and I have a green thumb. Orchids are some of my favorite plants to grow along with perennials. I’ve always said that I would be the happiest living on a farm or in the forest ;) I’m happily married to a wonderful man and we are 100% committed to our relationship but we do play with others since I allow him to have a pet of his own and I’m looking for something more in the friends with benefits side since we started in a new city. We're both healthy and have no STDs at all. I am plus size but curvier with pale skin and nerd glasses. I’m Demisexual and had several bad encounters previously that trust is a must. To me, building a friendship is the most important thing and being Demisexual means that I must be emotionally connected and feel safe with someone to feel attraction to that person and enjoy the kink or sexual part of kinks. I always make it a point to have both of our needs met because this lifestyle is mutual benefit while keeping things safe and I'm open to trying many things while having open honesty from my friends/partners. Communication and honesty are important in any friendship/relationship and I expect honesty upfront. My current dynamics are with a Daddy Dom who I play with online only but he must approve anyone that is playing with me and a chastity dynamic with my caged slave who I control every aspect for him in the bedroom. These experiences that I'm doing and hope to continue doing are more for myself but I share them with my husband/daddy dom through picture or video as I keep open communication on everything for safety reasons. If you prefer to only keep things between us, there are some things that are a must but will be discussed if we connect well. As well, I do whore out my husband as a foot slut so if you wish to have a free foot rub, feel free to reach out ;) he's very interested in getting his reflexology tested. And if you made it this far, well done! One last thing to add, I'm currently looking for a Bull or Stud that is ok with Bi-Sexual acts and being filmed (face covering is A-Ok for us, we don't want to show face). It won't happen right away for the play cuckold session I want to do but I like to build up a communication and friendship of possible with the person for continued play. I'm on Discord and Telegram if you want to chat! == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Switch 98% Rigger 96% Voyeur 93% Dominant 87% Brat tamer 84% Exhibitionist 80% Submissive 78% Sadist 76% Owner 75% Experimentalist 72% Degrader 68% Rope bunny 68% Non-monogamist 61% Masochist 51% Master/Mistress 45% Vanilla 39% Primal (Hunter) 35% Brat 35% Primal (Prey) 22% Pet 17% Slave 0% Ageplayer 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Degradee 0% Boy/Girl
Female (34) San Antonio, Texas
I have been told by many people that I'm fairly different than most they meet in the lifestyle. I'm not sure why that is. To me, I am just me. Maybe its my intensity... or maybe its just the fact that what I'm ultimately looking for isn't just bedroom fun. Don't get me wrong. Play and sex are awesome, but in order to be completely fulfilled in a relationship, I want it to be authority-based, and I want the authority. I consider myself to be an open minded and honest Mistress, I suppose after a long time exploring the lifestyle I have come to realize no one is perfect and I am here to learn from all the wonderful people in this community. I like to make my partner feel comfortable, but I am also capable of helping them move past their boundaries. I am intense in kinky activities it's what makes me happy and this includes anal play, bondage, nipple clamps and torture, breath play Canes, fisting, floggers, forced orgasms, golden shower, Orgasm control and denial, Paddles, throat fucking, whips and of course vaginal intercourse and much more. It's no secret that I enjoy pushing past limits, expressing myself and making those that are recognized feel safe and secure in the fact that I would care for them.
Female (36) San Antonio, Texas
I’m a trustworthy single female on the seemingly impossible quest of finding the ideal soulmate. Although I haven’t found him yet, but I’m convinced he's out there! The last few years were spent working but now it’s time to relax and enjoy the pleasures life has to offer. I try to maintain a healthy lifestyle by working out a few times a week and attempt to eat healthy although I like my junk food…. just not too often.hahaha I enjoy going out for nice dinners but also like being with that special someone, spending the afternoon preparing a meal for a romantic evening at home.
Female (40) San Antonio, Texas
I am an adventurer and I don't like to sit in one place for a long time, love to explore. Not long ago I was working in a boring office. I love to laugh and joke. You will never be bored with me. I am very faithful no matter what if it's friendship, relationship or family.
Female (53) San Antonio, Texas
I am honest woman. I am a very good and caring person. I am not seeing anyone at the moment so we can always keep in touch and through that it will help us get to know more about each other if you still remain interested...All I want is someone to be my soul mate and to spend the rest of my life with that's why I put my profile on the dating site because I do not like meeting people at the bars.
Female (54) San Antonio, Texas
A kind person who loves life as it is, I choose a positive outlook on things, I love laughter and I believe in the signs of fate. I have a good sense of humor, easy character, I can and love not only to hear, but also to listen. I appreciate sincerity, fidelity and kindness in people.
Female (63) San Antonio, Texas
A sincere, kind and honest soul does not want to be lonely. I am a good housewife, have a sense of humor and an easy-going character. My mind is open and I wish to meet the same partner here.
Female (35) San Antonio, Texas
I am a Primal Prey kitten looking for her Primal Predator. However, I am also a brat, and a middle. Sadly, I was away for a bit due to the end of Daddy and I's dynamic. I apologize and am now back.
Female (42) San Antonio, Texas
I have been vanilla all my life then I met a guy who enjoyed phone sex, mutual masturbation spanking and choking. I have wanted to explore more ever since. I don’t like hook ups because I need to feel a connection and need to be mentally stimulated. But when I am comfortable with a partner I enjoy submitting and can be a little bratty at times. I want a sensual play partner who doesn’t mind teaching me the ropes.
Female (54) San Antonio, Texas
Hello , it is a pleasure to meet y'all here. Very new to this and I hope to find someone who is open minded and willing to give this a go . Try and explore all new places as we share lots of memories together
Female (36) San Antonio, Texas
I’m a little looking for a caregiver I like playing outside and swimming I enjoy music and drawing I’m a bit shy sometimes I’m scared of thunder storms I don’t like to listen and have a attitude all the time I like stuffed animals and my sippy cup and blankie for bed i also like shopping ? stop being weird i don’t want no inappropriate stuff looking for my daddy
Female (20) San Antonio, Texas
21 yrs old NOT 19 Anyone want to tie me up, fuck and pleasure me? Please don’t message me if you live far away. I love being eaten out, fingered, and vibrators. Continuous communication and boundaries is sexy! If you message me please tell me what you are looking for! I have a big praise kink❤️ MUST have proof of STD testing and I give head only with a condom on Role playing on text is fun so message me if you want to do that: Tell me what you want to do to me I don’t send nudes Kinky turn ons include: blind folds, all types of gags, being called a good girl, talking me through it, praise, sucking/biting/ licking nipples, and bondage of course If you like to be rough then we aren’t compatible. Please only message me for hooking up if you like bondage when hooking up. Ideally looking for someone experienced in shibari or other tying techniques and rigging! mention the color orange in your DM and I will know you got to the bottom of my description!
Female (19) San Antonio, Texas
Just a babygirl looking for some sub friends
Female (31) San Antonio, Texas
I am new here so please be gentle?. I am about 3 years out of a 20 year very vanilla marriage and exploring my options. Not looking for one night stands or marriage but would like a longer term enjoyable relationship. I have a very high drive and am very submissive.
Female (38) San Antonio, Texas
A bit swtchy... enough to make everything a little more fun and spicy. I'll try anything at least three 3x. Just to be sure. I'm not looking for any one thing in particular. I'm open to whatever the wind blows my way. If there's genuine connection, chemistry, attraction & like interests.. well, the possibilities are endless. The sexiest part of me is my mind, and I'm very much seeking the same. Nothing turns me on more than someone who can turn me on with their words, their innuendo, their intricate choice of word and tone. And I thoroughly enjoy watching when there are no words left, just a mouth hungry for sex, and teeth turned fangs.
Female (42) San Antonio, Texas
so idk tbh I'm just going with flow see what happens and live out fantasies
Female (24) San Antonio, Texas
If you are 18-21 yrs DO NOT MSG or LIKE ME. only people 23 + can msg & like me. No I dont want cyber fun. NO PICTURE EXCHANGE. which follows cyber fun. people in my area/local only please. I want people in my area please otherwise I wont respond if you are a submissive Man, or trans No disrespect… No judgement… I DONT WANT YOU. I want a DOM straight man to handle me. I am into cnc, I love feeling helpless & bound, im a chubby plus size woman who is a brat and will sometimes like to be punished. I wouldnt mind being tortured and made to force orgasm. I find it so hot when daddy tells me “shut up & take it” in my ear. tie me up, torture me & have your way with me. Im wiling to try a threesome with 2 male, No females as I am straight. looking for a daddy dom to tell me im theirs and to tell me how they would handle a brat like me who hardly listens. I have toys of my own. Im into videogames, hello kitty/sanrio, arcade games, plushies/stuffed animals, I love pets like dogs, I collect Disney items,funkos & Pokemon Cards & play pokemon go. I am into wwe, harry potter, DISNEY, starwars etc I wouldnt mind having a sd, but thats up to you please be nice & dont demand things from me. dont be clingy and constantly msging me If I dont respond.
Female (24) San Antonio, Texas
Thicker stoner chick 23F looking to have fun, Im very interested in playing with couples, with or without my boyfriend. I love to add to the fun and to just have a good time with some like-minded people
Female (23) San Antonio, Texas
Not actively meeting just looking for guys who would want to be in a bang. couples cause he likes to swing. Master loves filling his slave with cocks and cum he's in charge of everything and there's no pilot in the cockpit right now so.. just jeopardy music right now.
Female (34) San Antonio, Texas
I have a more shy personality, but interested in fwb / casual interactions. I do adore sharing photos though. Not opposed if you want a friend or someone to talk to, just let me know :)
Female (19) San Antonio, Texas
I am a brand new little I haven’t even worn or wet my first diaper. I am looking for someone to help me learn about being a little amongst other things.
Female (28) San Antonio, Texas
I don’t really know what I’m looking for.. maybe something casual. I like to have fun. kinda want to find someone who’s a bit older than me. 24-35 maybe
Female (24) San Antonio, Texas
I’m a princess. Bratty/sub in bed I hold high standards. You must be handsome and experienced in what you do, fun and laid back, also drama free. I’m strictly looking to make friends, whatever happens from there happens. I prefer someone with a higher financial status than me ?
Female (23) San Antonio, Texas

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I am an adventurer and I don't like to sit in one place for a long time, love to explore. Not long ago I was working in a boring office. I love to laugh and joke. You will never be bored with me. I am very faithful no matter what if it's friendship, relationship or family.
Female (53) San Antonio, Texas
I’m a trustworthy single female on the seemingly impossible quest of finding the ideal soulmate. Although I haven’t found him yet, but I’m convinced he's out there! The last few years were spent working but now it’s time to relax and enjoy the pleasures life has to offer. I try to maintain a healthy lifestyle by working out a few times a week and attempt to eat healthy although I like my junk food…. just not too often.hahaha I enjoy going out for nice dinners but also like being with that special someone, spending the afternoon preparing a meal for a romantic evening at home.
Female (40) San Antonio, Texas
Hello , it is a pleasure to meet y'all here. Very new to this and I hope to find someone who is open minded and willing to give this a go . Try and explore all new places as we share lots of memories together
Female (36) San Antonio, Texas
A sincere, kind and honest soul does not want to be lonely. I am a good housewife, have a sense of humor and an easy-going character. My mind is open and I wish to meet the same partner here.
Female (35) San Antonio, Texas
I have been told by many people that I'm fairly different than most they meet in the lifestyle. I'm not sure why that is. To me, I am just me. Maybe its my intensity... or maybe its just the fact that what I'm ultimately looking for isn't just bedroom fun. Don't get me wrong. Play and sex are awesome, but in order to be completely fulfilled in a relationship, I want it to be authority-based, and I want the authority. I consider myself to be an open minded and honest Mistress, I suppose after a long time exploring the lifestyle I have come to realize no one is perfect and I am here to learn from all the wonderful people in this community. I like to make my partner feel comfortable, but I am also capable of helping them move past their boundaries. I am intense in kinky activities it's what makes me happy and this includes anal play, bondage, nipple clamps and torture, breath play Canes, fisting, floggers, forced orgasms, golden shower, Orgasm control and denial, Paddles, throat fucking, whips and of course vaginal intercourse and much more. It's no secret that I enjoy pushing past limits, expressing myself and making those that are recognized feel safe and secure in the fact that I would care for them.
Female (36) San Antonio, Texas
Hello There! First and foremost, welcome! Now that we got the pleasantries out of the way, here’s a little bit about me. My name is Jax, and we recently moved from Miami, Florida to San Antonio, Texas. I have many different hobbies like video games, different types of music, I’m a huge bookworm and Harry Potter/Disney fanatic, a friend to all animals, love to cook, and I have a green thumb. Orchids are some of my favorite plants to grow along with perennials. I’ve always said that I would be the happiest living on a farm or in the forest ;) I’m happily married to a wonderful man and we are 100% committed to our relationship but we do play with others since I allow him to have a pet of his own and I’m looking for something more in the friends with benefits side since we started in a new city. We're both healthy and have no STDs at all. I am plus size but curvier with pale skin and nerd glasses. I’m Demisexual and had several bad encounters previously that trust is a must. To me, building a friendship is the most important thing and being Demisexual means that I must be emotionally connected and feel safe with someone to feel attraction to that person and enjoy the kink or sexual part of kinks. I always make it a point to have both of our needs met because this lifestyle is mutual benefit while keeping things safe and I'm open to trying many things while having open honesty from my friends/partners. Communication and honesty are important in any friendship/relationship and I expect honesty upfront. My current dynamics are with a Daddy Dom who I play with online only but he must approve anyone that is playing with me and a chastity dynamic with my caged slave who I control every aspect for him in the bedroom. These experiences that I'm doing and hope to continue doing are more for myself but I share them with my husband/daddy dom through picture or video as I keep open communication on everything for safety reasons. If you prefer to only keep things between us, there are some things that are a must but will be discussed if we connect well. As well, I do whore out my husband as a foot slut so if you wish to have a free foot rub, feel free to reach out ;) he's very interested in getting his reflexology tested. And if you made it this far, well done! One last thing to add, I'm currently looking for a Bull or Stud that is ok with Bi-Sexual acts and being filmed (face covering is A-Ok for us, we don't want to show face). It won't happen right away for the play cuckold session I want to do but I like to build up a communication and friendship of possible with the person for continued play. I'm on Discord and Telegram if you want to chat! == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Switch 98% Rigger 96% Voyeur 93% Dominant 87% Brat tamer 84% Exhibitionist 80% Submissive 78% Sadist 76% Owner 75% Experimentalist 72% Degrader 68% Rope bunny 68% Non-monogamist 61% Masochist 51% Master/Mistress 45% Vanilla 39% Primal (Hunter) 35% Brat 35% Primal (Prey) 22% Pet 17% Slave 0% Ageplayer 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Degradee 0% Boy/Girl
Female (34) San Antonio, Texas
I am honest woman. I am a very good and caring person. I am not seeing anyone at the moment so we can always keep in touch and through that it will help us get to know more about each other if you still remain interested...All I want is someone to be my soul mate and to spend the rest of my life with that's why I put my profile on the dating site because I do not like meeting people at the bars.
Female (54) San Antonio, Texas
A kind person who loves life as it is, I choose a positive outlook on things, I love laughter and I believe in the signs of fate. I have a good sense of humor, easy character, I can and love not only to hear, but also to listen. I appreciate sincerity, fidelity and kindness in people.
Female (63) San Antonio, Texas
I have been vanilla all my life then I met a guy who enjoyed phone sex, mutual masturbation spanking and choking. I have wanted to explore more ever since. I don’t like hook ups because I need to feel a connection and need to be mentally stimulated. But when I am comfortable with a partner I enjoy submitting and can be a little bratty at times. I want a sensual play partner who doesn’t mind teaching me the ropes.
Female (54) San Antonio, Texas
I am a Primal Prey kitten looking for her Primal Predator. However, I am also a brat, and a middle. Sadly, I was away for a bit due to the end of Daddy and I's dynamic. I apologize and am now back.
Female (42) San Antonio, Texas
I am a brand new little I haven’t even worn or wet my first diaper. I am looking for someone to help me learn about being a little amongst other things.
Female (28) San Antonio, Texas
I am new here so please be gentle?. I am about 3 years out of a 20 year very vanilla marriage and exploring my options. Not looking for one night stands or marriage but would like a longer term enjoyable relationship. I have a very high drive and am very submissive.
Female (38) San Antonio, Texas
Hi there. I’m not super sure where to start, so here I go. I am an inspiring author and avid reader of sapphic romance, which often includes a heavy dose of smut. I’m divorced with two kids. I don’t watch much TV, but I absolutely love music, audiobooks, and podcasts, and I enjoy making playlists. I'm not looking for a FWB. No shame if that's your thing, but the only benefit you get from my friendship is my quick wit and compassion. That's not to say I'm not looking for something more than friendship. If we click, I am cool pursuing a relationship. However, I need an emotional connection and safety before my brain goes sexual. So keep in mind that it may take me a while to get there. When I trust you, I'll be your biggest supporter and a total golden retriever, but until you earn some trust, I'm more like an alley cat with an uncertain human. I’m a pretty open book, but I am shit and offering information about myself unless it’s pertinent to the conversation. (It’s a trauma response I’m working on, so if you want to know about me, you may have to ask.) As a person, I'm silly and occasionally deep, and I try not to take things too seriously. I'm very nurturing and easygoing, and I enjoy supporting those I care for, whether it's listening to an info dump or doing an activity together. And would also appreciate someone who’s willing to do those things for me in return, because making me feel heard and like you want to get to know me makes me feel safe. As a Domme, I do my best to communicate my expectations clearly. I will never expect perfection, only that you do your best, and if things need to be modified, so be it. If you are looking for someone to Domme you right out of the gate, I’m not the girl for you. I need a foundation of trust, and I need to know you are a person before I feel comfortable in the Domme role. Because showing my dominant side is a major vulnerability for me, as such I need to feel like I have earned your respect (and vice versa). After all, if I don’t know you, how can I meet your submissive needs? That's not to say I don't want to be challenged, I do. I only want the challenging nature to come from a place of compassion and respect. I fall into the soft Domme camp, meaning I am more likely to offer a carrot than a stick. As a result, I am just as happy with a brat to wrangle, a princess to spoil, or a pet to train. That doesn't mean I am a push over, I also enjoy giving and getting pain as the occasion calls for it. In casual conversation, I’m not an overly sexual person. However, for the right person, I can go from totally wholesome to a filthy animal with one well-placed word or phrase. Put simply, I do not want a D/s relationship right out of the gate. I want to earn your trust and submission just like you will earn my trust and dominance because, most importantly, I want a partner. Someone who will challenge me and hold my feet to the fire but also someone to talk to and support me. If you can, I will return all of that in spades.
Female (33) San Antonio, Texas
Doing a lot of exploring right now. Would love the chance to explore my submissive side a bit more. Bi, poly female who’s new to being in the world of kink but I have friends in the community. I discovered my submissive side a little over a year ago but haven’t had many chances to explore it. If you reach out and we click, please just be patient and be willing to take things slow. I’m still learning a lot and want to be able to enjoy each new experience. I would love to find an experienced (preferably soft and/or pleasure) Dom/me who understands my needs and will help me to experience new things safely.
Female (33) San Antonio, Texas
A bit swtchy... enough to make everything a little more fun and spicy. I'll try anything at least three 3x. Just to be sure. I'm not looking for any one thing in particular. I'm open to whatever the wind blows my way. If there's genuine connection, chemistry, attraction & like interests.. well, the possibilities are endless. The sexiest part of me is my mind, and I'm very much seeking the same. Nothing turns me on more than someone who can turn me on with their words, their innuendo, their intricate choice of word and tone. And I thoroughly enjoy watching when there are no words left, just a mouth hungry for sex, and teeth turned fangs.
Female (42) San Antonio, Texas
Not actively meeting just looking for guys who would want to be in a bang. couples cause he likes to swing. Master loves filling his slave with cocks and cum he's in charge of everything and there's no pilot in the cockpit right now so.. just jeopardy music right now.
Female (34) San Antonio, Texas
Very new to the lifestyle . I’m just learning a lot about myself right now through this . I know I identify with submissive , little and brat . I’m very loving , I hate not belonging to just one someone . I’m learning that I have a praise kink but I love the dominance and strictness of a Dom , a little degradation but that just comes along with being strict with punishment to keep me chasing and needing but the praise and love from a Dom will definitely have me hooked . I’m just learning about myself and the lifestyle , this is my first BDSM app Lol I had a very brief long distance connection with someone that has ended and yearning for it again has led me here to better understand . I’m open minded - which is a must to better understand myself and what I like and don’t like . New to the app , new to the lifestyle , come find me , Daddy , your little girl needs you
Female (31) San Antonio, Texas
Just a babygirl looking for some sub friends
Female (31) San Antonio, Texas
I don’t really know what I’m looking for.. maybe something casual. I like to have fun. kinda want to find someone who’s a bit older than me. 24-35 maybe
Female (24) San Antonio, Texas
Im looking for something long term. want a caregiver/daddy. but want to get to know the person first. questions for me you can ask. I hate doing these description things.
Female (36) San Antonio, Texas
so idk tbh I'm just going with flow see what happens and live out fantasies
Female (24) San Antonio, Texas
I can be your darling, devil and everything in between. Looking to making connections where we're able to explore and discover new levels of passion, pleasure and maybe even pain.
Female (29) San Antonio, Texas
ENM I’m open to group and solo play, but I definitely prefer group play. I’m very adventurous and there’s very few things I wouldn’t try. I’m a brat but I already have a daddy ?
Female (29) San Antonio, Texas
I have a more shy personality, but interested in fwb / casual interactions. I do adore sharing photos though. Not opposed if you want a friend or someone to talk to, just let me know :)
Female (19) San Antonio, Texas

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