Only messege if from the UK
NO SUBS/NO SWITCHES- pls don't like if you are not 100% dom. I will never like a sub/switch, it just fills my searches with irrelevant roles and prevents me finding what I really want.
Im only looking for Ltr, as I'm quite clingy. So no hookups.
Strictly monogamous, I don't do exceptions
What I need from a dom:
- loyalty
- awareness of body language and emotions
- a soft side and aggressive side
- supportive in my personal life
- a good communicator
- good (dark) sense of humour
**Desires and Fantasies**
cnc, masks, choking. This is just a select few
I had another profile one of which is inactive-here's what I had written on there:
Me as a sub-
I have 4 years of online experience and god am I bored of it
I know the ins and outs in terms of attitude, positions, and respect. All the emotional stuff, but I'm lacking the physical role.
I'm a naturally born sub, so no I don't have sexual trauma ty...
I've been told I have the traits of a little, this info is probably more useful to you than me, as I've never researched or partaken in ddlg/mdlg
My strengths-
I know myself very well, inside and out. This means I know what i want, and what I need to improve. I'm mature, and have great emotional intelligence, something that's integral to a healthy Dynamic.
My weaknesses-
I can struggle with communication, sometimes I feel uncomfortable or scared. I am a lot better at it now!
Often I'm misunderstood, I'm quite difficult to read as I deeply internalise my thoughts and feelings. However, I can come across quite blunt as I don't know how to 'sugar coat'.
I struggle a lot with trust. it just takes me a little longer than others
D/s-
Just to clarify, I am not here to mess around. You'll be wasting your time to think you will get something out of me quickly, I'm strong minded and very stubborn in my personal morals.
Do not mistake me for a brat, I am not!! Being confident in my skills and opinions doesn't make me bratty or rude, I am just well rounded in D/s, I know what i want ✨
I don't tolerate red flags. pushy, overruling assumption makers...eeee no thanks.
Big nono's-
- If your first message is in regard to my appearance or something sexual, then ciao.
-I''m not asking about the size of your cock, so don't ask for my cup size...
-No switches, I'm bi I can't keep swapping teams on everything
-if your horny, I do not care. I do not want to know
-I don't care about your pleasure unless I'm your sub. Don't expect me to do anything for you until there's an agreement
- assumption makers. The doms who say "I know you are/have/will".
-Gasligjters...this one's for you. "it's not my first language" doesn't excuse you of being inappropriate. Throwing words around like "disobedience" when I'm not your sub is concerning. "I'm not good enough for anyone", maybe reconsider why that is instead of making it somsone else's problem.
-no NSA