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Don't msg me if you're under 40, sorry I don't want young men
Female (45) Marion, Illinois
I'm a taller alt gamer girl who loves to have nerdy banter! I'm super into music, instruments, singing, and the like, always love a good laugh and making others laugh, but I also love to be a part of a good kink, whether it's yours or my fantasy (or both ?)! Feel free to hit me up! I love doing cyber things and LOVE flirtation! hope to reciprocate! ?
Female (23) Crest Hill, Illinois
Do you also think that without love life seems incomplete? Are you looking for a reliable companion who knows how to surround a man with comfort? Congratulations, you found me and you were not mistaken. I am confident, serious (but nonetheless with a sense of humor), quite ready to have my own family.
Female (48) Schaumburg, Illinois
28, fun and carefree. just trying to find a dom that’s kinky but a weirdo and a LTR with that.
Female (28) Schaumburg, Illinois
I am very VERY Dominant in my everyday personal life, I’m not really into pain but if you’re into pain, I will punish you and you will enjoy the pain (that’s if you’re into pain) I do have my Kink Fantasies you would find exciting and be willing to try The list of kinky activities I like to engage in most are Feminization/Sissification (That’s if you’re a sissy) Bondage servitude body worship Sensory Play blindfolds CBT Hanging Fucking machine Bathroom/Toilet training Orgasm control foot fetish Role play Massage Seduction branding Body painting Collaring canning Corseting puppy play Rubber both sex and Kink Toys Cage Prison training food Serving ear plug ice and hot wax Light to moderate discipline, light spankings, Edging, Nipple Play, toy play, strapon play, pegging, rope play any many more. It’s up to you about your limits, Tell me your limits and the ones you’re not into out of the kink fantasies i listed, I will except the ones you’re not into, I won’t do it to you
Female (35) Chicago, Illinois
hey everyone I'm a single 35 yr old women, that's wanting to explore my wild side I have and experience some kinkiness I have thoughts of..
Female (36) Sheridan, Illinois
Hello there, I am new on here but why I am here is that i am seeking pleasures that are intellectually and physically stimulating. Looking for fun and communication. I am honest and authentic, sensitive, submissive and I am a good learner. I Would love to make friends as we get to know each other then we can get sexual for long. I am quite adept at giving the most sensual and relaxing massages and body worshipping. I have been told I am quite good with my oral skills Due to my submissive instincts I enjoy when I trust who I about to get sexual with. I am able to maintain boundaries while still being playful and have fun, I am not nosy and I mind my business. Love classic & psychedelic rock, jazz, metal, movies photography, singing, cooking and karaoke. Love deep engaging conversations and lover of all forms of art.
Female (26) Chicago, Illinois
It is strange how my body reacts to my Master, his touch , the way he looks at me and the sound of his voice: I’ve tried to be extra bratty and be mad and with hold sex when we were going to have a session. well that went out the window when I walked in his house and he grabbed me by the neck. My mind and body gave in instantly.( not fair) When I hear his voice it always makes my nipples hard, as if they have a mind of their own and want to say hi to their Master. I’ve not had a connection with any one in this way before. It’s new and exciting, yet a bit frustrating cuz I can’t brat and get away with it lol.
Female (39) Joliet, Illinois
Looking for some NSA fun. Kinky and ready to mingle!! Local to downtown Chicago area only. Who wants me to come sit on their face?
Female (33) Chicago, Illinois
Hi! I'm still on the new side to bdsm, but I pride myself on being a fast learner and I have enjoyed what I've experienced thus far. I am looking to be a cyber slave. I have a busy lifestyle, but love devoting time to this! Some of my kinks: Objectification Misogyny Sensory deprivation Pain Bondage Degradation Domestic servitude And more
Female (31) Chicago, Illinois
Well I'm new here looking to meet new people and see it from there since nobody is perfect i think we should get to know more about each other an build something together
Female (45) Illinois City, Illinois
text me if you fit the description and wanna know more. (dramatic people are not allowed) vibrators and sex toys turn me on. FWB + LTR + (if we click) currently on a break from kink
Female (20) Chicago, Illinois
you must be taller and bigger than me. I am 5'4 195 lb. I need someone that can handle me. Submissive 5'4 Alpha Female. I am NOT a switch, I am not interested in anything other than being the perfect sub and being perfectly adored. spend time on me. that's all I need. == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Brat 100% Masochist 100% Rope bunny 100% Submissive 87% Slave 62% Primal (Prey) 60% Experimentalist 46% Vanilla 36% Voyeur 19% Degradee 17% Exhibitionist 16% Pet 0% Ageplayer 0% Boy/Girl 0% Non-monogamist 0% Switch
Female (38) Bull Valley, Illinois
Just a regular woman who enjoys showing herself off for her husband. It turns him on knowing guys are looking and liking my pics. Tell me about it - he does like to hear what you would do to me. We do post our full videos and pics online - ask me about it if you want. I am never wanting any other cocks in my life. Nobody will 'own' me and nobody will ever control me. I am submissive to my hubs because of 30 years of trust built up. I met my husband when I was 12. He was a family friend. It was love at first site. That love has grown every second of every day to this very sentence. We finally got together 6 years ago. Married 2 years ago and it's been the best thing that has ever happened to me. I still get butterflies when I think of him. He can still make me wet by just touching my arm. I am not going to fuck you - ever, but you can watch me get fucked by my hubs if you want. I post my pics here because it turns my husband on me showing off for him. He likes to hear about the reactions I get. We discuss it over a glass of wine or five when he is done with work. I don't do it for attention. I was a bartender for 20 years - I hate attention. I do it for him.
Female (46) Chicago, Illinois
I’m a [dominant/submissive/switch] with a passion for exploring the dynamic and intricate world of BDSM. With a strong appreciation for [specific kinks or interests], I value trust, communication, and mutual respect in all my interactions. I believe that the foundation of any good relationship, especially within the BDSM community, is built on openness and honesty. Interests: • Bondage (ropes, cuffs, etc.) • Impact play (floggers, paddles) • Role-playing scenarios • Sensation play (wax, ice, etc.) • Power exchange dynamics Looking For: I’m seeking a [dominant/submissive/switch] partner who shares my enthusiasm for BDSM. Someone who values clear communication, consent, and is willing to explore new boundaries and experiences together. Whether you’re experienced or new to the lifestyle, I’m excited to connect and build a dynamic that is both thrilling and safe.
Female (28) Chicago, Illinois
Strong and confident in the real world, submissive in private.
Female (37) Aurora, Illinois
Looking for someone close to my area who knows how to have a good time for either long term, short term, night of fun. Though I'm also a sub looking for a dom. I'm also a pet possibly looking for the right master.
Female (29) Clinton, Illinois
Switch looking to explore herself. Used to dom my ex but now I’m kinda feeling like I want to be submissive again. Could use some friends as well. Be in my area, no online xx
Female (25) Chicago, Illinois
My name is Chloe, I am here seeking a new dominant. I have experience and have been owned before previously I am looking to expand on that experience and try out some new things.
Female (21) Chicago, Illinois
I’m very honest and down to earth, I enjoy good conversations and walks in the fresh air. I’m ready to get to know the right person…I’m wanting to find the right person for me. I don’t want any complications. Just a straightforward genuine person!
Female (33) Chicago, Illinois
I am a black mature female seeking a black submissive man who is interested in becoming friends with the intention of developing a vannila/D/s relationship. Interested in exploring CNC with me being the dominant. He should be between the age of 50 to 70, loves to please his woman, financially stable, loyal and loves to please. If you are not naturally submissive, please pass me by, I will know if you are real! Additionally, if you are only into texting to communicate, PLEASE PASS ME BY! That is not how I get to know a person, ie, phone conversations and eventually, meeting the person in person. Texting is good when it's convenient and it is not feasible to talk on the phone. Thank you in advance.
Female (50) Chicago, Illinois
**I am Zoey. from Beverly Hills,LA. I am 36 years old.** I'm looking for something meaningful. Its rare to find a persona willing to have meaningful conversation and get to know each other.
Female (38) Chicago, Illinois
I have a very good and kind heart. I am a responsive woman and I help for people who need it. My friends say that I have a great potential for love, tenderness and passion and they say that my future husband is very lucky to be with me.
Female (42) Calumet City, Illinois
Feed me with your mind . . . Sex/Relationship not really the first thing on my mind more be my peace don't be a headache just bit selective when comes to the right connection with the soul. Not just anyone that just enters with looking for relationship not the right taste of breakfast. The lifestyle in my eyes more of art not a fetish I bit old school respect with dignity comes in favor. D/s has all way's been love and trust with bond. The best things comes unexpected in the right time when you least expect it. You can't force a connection its has to be in the right vibration at the right time. More of a feeling a soul spark its very rare. Only one for one not in to sharing sorry to break it to you. Sensual Chaste and pure Connoisseur lass of seductive being. Old Soul Fond of vintage and art with classical things but loves the universe with sci -fi , supernatural ethics of things. Not taking any friends request. "In a mad world, only the mad are sane." - Goodreads Cheshire Cat would agree Oh Darling you deserve to be happy. -{Poetic Addict :take what you need}- Happily Taken by myself. Sensual poetic bottom. -{If I share anything on my Writing Post Its usually just humor , laughter sense of a good read don't take it personally.} I may share photos sensual art self or art what makes me sexy can’t dictate women for feeling sexy you be glad to even be part of it. I come here to express myself. Just because I make a post or write or load a photo does mean to give attention of looking , If I do anything I do it out of expression and inspiration of timeless , Classic , Present moment , or Future. . I can be kind just respect me I will do the same respect in return. If I have to put my foot down I will. If something not for you turn the page. You can follow me I don't mind but please respect thanks not here for funny business. {~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~}- D/s & 1950s lifestyle , Stepford lifestyle with the modern world in the future. Time and place for everything still having a mind still being Lass in norm living everyday life. I enjoy my freedom as this the way to be in humanity. 23 years of experience. Sensual Connoisseur lass of seductive being. Old Soul Fond of vintage and art with classical things but loves the universe with sci -fi , supernatural ethics of things. Notes of poetry & literature and education use. Our souls do not speak a human language they communicate to us through symbols , metaphors , visions , poetry , deep feeling , and everyday magic. Life is all about balance , Balance is not something you find ,It's something you create. Balance is the key to everything. What we do think say , Meeting them all requires awareness and through this awareness we can grow. Keep looking not for a person but for your passion, Your Love, Your Courage, Your goals, your Dreams., your happiness, yourself. keep looking. Explore your worth before you explore another. know your worth. Know yourself only then will you know what you need over what you want. You need yourself to become your own. Don't expect love to build a connection, allow it to flow and grow over time and let it be the best. It really starts with you focusing on yourself like when you wake up you have to do do your self a favor then the whole wide world. Nothing wrong with taking care of yourself wanting to have time alone when you're ready. {~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~}- You cannot make someone understand a message they are not ready to receive. {~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~}- Being emotionally invested before getting hooked. Showing the sweet effect the blue prints sweet words will not do. Expect the unexpected. Life is full of wonderful things just waiting to surprise you. Desperate waters are not for me. I like patience. {~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~}- Without communication there is no relationship. Without respect there is no love. Without trust there’s no reason to continue. {~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~}- Which is more important, " asked Big Panda , " the journey or the destination?" The tiny dragon replied - "The company". Middle aged 37 -50 age range secure with growth groomed clean cut pride in appearance how they carry them self. Understands the universe does ask silly question.
Female (39) Holiday Hills, Illinois

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Hello there, I am new on here but why I am here is that i am seeking pleasures that are intellectually and physically stimulating. Looking for fun and communication. I am honest and authentic, sensitive, submissive and I am a good learner. I Would love to make friends as we get to know each other then we can get sexual for long. I am quite adept at giving the most sensual and relaxing massages and body worshipping. I have been told I am quite good with my oral skills Due to my submissive instincts I enjoy when I trust who I about to get sexual with. I am able to maintain boundaries while still being playful and have fun, I am not nosy and I mind my business. Love classic & psychedelic rock, jazz, metal, movies photography, singing, cooking and karaoke. Love deep engaging conversations and lover of all forms of art.
Female (26) Chicago, Illinois
Don't msg me if you're under 40, sorry I don't want young men
Female (45) Marion, Illinois
I’m a [dominant/submissive/switch] with a passion for exploring the dynamic and intricate world of BDSM. With a strong appreciation for [specific kinks or interests], I value trust, communication, and mutual respect in all my interactions. I believe that the foundation of any good relationship, especially within the BDSM community, is built on openness and honesty. Interests: • Bondage (ropes, cuffs, etc.) • Impact play (floggers, paddles) • Role-playing scenarios • Sensation play (wax, ice, etc.) • Power exchange dynamics Looking For: I’m seeking a [dominant/submissive/switch] partner who shares my enthusiasm for BDSM. Someone who values clear communication, consent, and is willing to explore new boundaries and experiences together. Whether you’re experienced or new to the lifestyle, I’m excited to connect and build a dynamic that is both thrilling and safe.
Female (28) Chicago, Illinois
I'm a taller alt gamer girl who loves to have nerdy banter! I'm super into music, instruments, singing, and the like, always love a good laugh and making others laugh, but I also love to be a part of a good kink, whether it's yours or my fantasy (or both ?)! Feel free to hit me up! I love doing cyber things and LOVE flirtation! hope to reciprocate! ?
Female (23) Crest Hill, Illinois
Do you also think that without love life seems incomplete? Are you looking for a reliable companion who knows how to surround a man with comfort? Congratulations, you found me and you were not mistaken. I am confident, serious (but nonetheless with a sense of humor), quite ready to have my own family.
Female (48) Schaumburg, Illinois
I am very VERY Dominant in my everyday personal life, I’m not really into pain but if you’re into pain, I will punish you and you will enjoy the pain (that’s if you’re into pain) I do have my Kink Fantasies you would find exciting and be willing to try The list of kinky activities I like to engage in most are Feminization/Sissification (That’s if you’re a sissy) Bondage servitude body worship Sensory Play blindfolds CBT Hanging Fucking machine Bathroom/Toilet training Orgasm control foot fetish Role play Massage Seduction branding Body painting Collaring canning Corseting puppy play Rubber both sex and Kink Toys Cage Prison training food Serving ear plug ice and hot wax Light to moderate discipline, light spankings, Edging, Nipple Play, toy play, strapon play, pegging, rope play any many more. It’s up to you about your limits, Tell me your limits and the ones you’re not into out of the kink fantasies i listed, I will except the ones you’re not into, I won’t do it to you
Female (35) Chicago, Illinois
I’m very honest and down to earth, I enjoy good conversations and walks in the fresh air. I’m ready to get to know the right person…I’m wanting to find the right person for me. I don’t want any complications. Just a straightforward genuine person!
Female (33) Chicago, Illinois
Looking for some NSA fun. Kinky and ready to mingle!! Local to downtown Chicago area only. Who wants me to come sit on their face?
Female (33) Chicago, Illinois
My name is Chloe, I am here seeking a new dominant. I have experience and have been owned before previously I am looking to expand on that experience and try out some new things.
Female (21) Chicago, Illinois
Before you text me, I'm not here for hookup business but just relationship. Either friends relationship or long term relationship please. Thank you. SMILES MARY MORGAN
Female (35) Chicago, Illinois
**I am Zoey. from Beverly Hills,LA. I am 36 years old.** I'm looking for something meaningful. Its rare to find a persona willing to have meaningful conversation and get to know each other.
Female (38) Chicago, Illinois
My natural place in the world is to dominate you. This can be in subtle ways or overtly with my accessories and tools at hand. One thing you will know is that my energy is strong and radiant. Only approach if you are ready to kneel before a Dominatrix.
Female (26) Chicago, Illinois
Looking for a serious relationship based on trust and a good communication sex to me is important but with the right person for a life with.If interested hit me up with my username on gg
Female (43) Chicago, Illinois
Looking for someone close to my area who knows how to have a good time for either long term, short term, night of fun. Though I'm also a sub looking for a dom. I'm also a pet possibly looking for the right master.
Female (29) Clinton, Illinois
I have a very good and kind heart. I am a responsive woman and I help for people who need it. My friends say that I have a great potential for love, tenderness and passion and they say that my future husband is very lucky to be with me.
Female (42) Calumet City, Illinois
Hi I’m Lu I’m a little and a pet! I’m looking for ppl to play with WOMEN ONLY I don’t do kink stuff while in little spaces and I’m looking for someone between the ages of 19-26.
Female (19) Chicago, Illinois
hey i’m carmen, im looking for somebody with the same kinks and fetishes as me. im super into extreme stuff and roleplay and love being in fear of what is going to be done to me. im a brat, primal prey, and slave but can also be your brat tamer and mistress. lmk!
Female (18) Long Grove, Illinois
Looking for WOMEN only, men- please respect my preference. Want FWB only, I'm not looking to get romantic, just fun, no strings attached. Must love pussy play and not be boring. Not here to be your pen pal either.
Female (50) Naperville, Illinois
I want someone to trust. I want someone to completely dominate me. I want a someone I can give myself over to completely. I want to feel the ecstasy of letting go of control. I want a Daddy. I want a Master. I want pleasure and pain beyond my understanding.
Female (27) Chicago, Illinois
I'm shy at first but like being told what to do sexually I'm fun and energetic I'm just looking for something casual not a relationship at this time
Female (35) Media, Illinois
Just trying to feel the vibes as of now. I love to explore new things, and I'm always down for a vanilla activity! I will update this a bit more later.
Female (29) Chicago, Illinois
I am an intelligent, sociable, reliable woman who is here to find her love. I am a creative person, I am not afraid of obstacles and I am ready to solve any difficulties in life. I am a serious, purposeful person who is used to achieving my goals, but I also want to be a soft, caring and gentle wife. I hope that I will find a husband here, this is my main goal.
Female (42) Moline, Illinois
Hello. I am quite new to this. I am seeking a trusting Dominant partner. I want to be submissive and get into kink. Hoping to explore. Am searching for someone local, long distance and phone play isn't a goal.
Female (48) Maple Park, Illinois
Bratty service sub kitten, prey, little
Female (39) Dallas City, Illinois

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