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I am married, poly and open. I am a Dom/switch. Takes a special fella to help me get in to sub space, generally Dom.
Male (40) Des Moines, Iowa
I'm mostly a brat. I consider myself a "beta male". I'm not an alpha but a lot of people mistake me for one because of my confidence and decisiveness. Need someone who will put me in my place. I like dominant guys who can get very rough in the bedroom. Physical strength is a turn on. Manhandle me. I like guys who are very dominant in general. But know when to shut it off. Respect me. Provide aftercare. Spoil and pamper me.
Male (31) Coralville, Iowa
I am an adventurous soul with a contagious zest for life. With a passion for exploring new cultures and cities. I love spontaneous adventures and trying out new experiences.
Male (22) Des Moines, Iowa

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I am married, poly and open. I am a Dom/switch. Takes a special fella to help me get in to sub space, generally Dom.
Male (40) Des Moines, Iowa
I am an adventurous soul with a contagious zest for life. With a passion for exploring new cultures and cities. I love spontaneous adventures and trying out new experiences.
Male (22) Des Moines, Iowa
I'm mostly a brat. I consider myself a "beta male". I'm not an alpha but a lot of people mistake me for one because of my confidence and decisiveness. Need someone who will put me in my place. I like dominant guys who can get very rough in the bedroom. Physical strength is a turn on. Manhandle me. I like guys who are very dominant in general. But know when to shut it off. Respect me. Provide aftercare. Spoil and pamper me.
Male (31) Coralville, Iowa

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NSA18 to 35 years ● 245km around USA, Watertown 43 minutes ago

Long term monogamy only

I'll be blunt as to not waste anyone's time.

I've been active in the kink lifestyle since 2004 as Daddy, Master, and Sadist. I take great pride in taking my role as a dominant seriously. It means not just the rough play but the dark obsessive love and possessive protectiveness a good girl is entitled to when taken.

Basically, I want to be a proper Daddy to you. I want to have all the kinky fun, sure, but before it all I want to adore you, nurture you, and keep you safe.

I'm child-free and 420 friendly. None of those will change. I am also silly, have a deeply depraved sense of humor, intelligent, old fashioned in a lot of ways, and extremely affectionate. My top two love languages are physical touch and words of affirmation.

My ideal girl will be extremely clingy, have a dark sense of humor, and a slim to average build. I have a weakness for age gaps, the goth/alt vibe, nerds, and intelligence.

My kink list is so long at this point it's easier to ask my limits. They are scat, vomit, ***s, and sharing. As I said, monogamous.

I am not limiting my search for my Forever to just locally. If you're seeking something long term, ideally lifelong, and are willing to relocate after time and travel, feel free to message me. I'll have more contact info on my profile.

Last but certainly not least, I am not willing to be your Sugar Daddy. I abhor useless things. Needing a SD just tells me you're incapable of making it in life on your own and that's really not attractive to me.

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