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MistressEvaLordes
MistressEvaLordes
Hello, I am Mistress Eva. I am a blonde BBW goddess who loves to be served and pleased. I have been in the lifestyle for over Twenty years. I am currently seeking to find an attractive local personal sub. I am located in Durham, North Carolina in the US. (Not UK.) I am seeking a masculine male, but I am also very interested in finding a bi-sexual female sub as well. I prefer ladies I hope to find someone special for a long-term relationship. I am also excited about making new kinky friends. These traits I seek in my submissives. - Very Submissive - Healthy physically, mentally, and spiritually. - No STDS. - Share similar BDSM/ Fetish interests. - Single, divorced, or widowed. - Trustworthy. - Well-groomed. - Intelligent with common sense. - A good communicator. - Understand their needs and limits. - Attentive to my needs and wants. - Loyal and devoted. - Has ample time to serve me. - Financially stable. - Generous and love spoiling their Queen. - Has Transportation. - Skilled in cooking and cleaning. - Has vanilla hobbies and interests. - Likes cats. I have two. - Enjoys action, Sci-fi, and horror movies. - Loves Sushi! It's not a requirement, but it helps your odds! Send me a detailed introduction if you feel we would make a great match.
Female (43) Durham, North Carolina
queentattedandlocd
q****************d
AA BBW Unicorn, 42DD, thick waist, shoulder length locs and lots of tats. I'm a whole vibe! I'm down for: 1. Kissing 2. Deep tongue kissing 3. Sloppy head 4. Ball sucking 5. Deep throating 6. You eating my a$$ 7. You eating my cooch 8. Cumming on my body 9. Cumming on my face 10. Cumming in my mouth 11. Breast sex 12. Anal sex 13. Pussy to mouth 14. Dirty texting 15. Dirty Talking 16. Sexting 17. Group sex 18. 3sums 19. BDSM 20. Sending nudes **If your profile presents as a COUPLE, BE A COUPLE... if you a single guy, present THAT... lying is a sure fire way to be denied** You must be able to host (ACTUALLY HOST... not in your car, a park or any other non-bed location) or get a hotel. Be drama, drug and disease free.... FREE! Don't be a selfish lover....I want to be pleasured too! Men don't think you just gonna get sucked off without sucking back! Women not into pillow princesses.... you need to suck back too boo!
Female (48) Durham, North Carolina
lyssaart
l******t
If you aren’t local to me (within 100mi), sorry, but I am not interested. I am also not interested if you are over five years younger than me or 10 years older than me. I won’t reply. . . Alt nerd that loves Ren Faires, rainy days, animals, music, and random acts of kindness. Hanging out with me is like hanging out with a partially socialized honey badger. Chaotic Neutral. Bit of a brat . . Just out of a 14 year relationship so I’m not looking for anything serious. Keep it casual. Looking for a friend first that can hold a conversation and pique my interest. I am Demi, nothing’s happening without a connection. . .
Female (32) Durham, North Carolina
VioletMoonWhispers
V****************s
I’m a big white lady, 54 who is looking for her dominant man. I’m looking for long term not a hook up. I also don’t play til I build trust with someone. if you are not at least 43 years or older I’m not for you. I’m not going to submit to anyone younger than that I’m sorry that’s a hard pass. I’m not a switch either I don’t like dominating. I’m single, no kids. I like spanking, flogging, bondage. I also like daddy play as well as primal play or rough sex. I would like to try “free use” days or weekends with my person only. I’m not a 24/7 submissive. I’m way too independent for that, maybe a designated amount of time. There is more I’d like to experience, just asked me about it.
Female (54) Durham, North Carolina
ParanormalSmutWriter
P******************r
Not currently taking applications from men, I don't have the patience or the time. Curvy and flirty. Tiktok filters have let me know that my eyes are more gray than green. Tattooed. Definitely planning to get more tattoos. Pagan, and very liberal. Politics are personal, and I will not be with conservatives. Period. Not a sub. Not a little. Not interested in being dominated. Not interested in someone 10 + years younger/older than me. That means you must be at least 36 but under 56 to ride this ride. Would prefer someone within 50 miles of me. Please don't start the convo with sex or kink. At the very bare minimum say hello first. My blocking thumb is ever at the ready. My biggest kink is people that read. (Audiobooks are reading) **Cis males are on my nerves. Not accepting applications from them currently. If this offends you, it's about you. Have the day you deserve.**
Female (47) Durham, North Carolina
SonyaSexyStuff
S************f
Short and simple....I am looking for meaningful connections/relationships while having a good time with you, whether that ends up being short or long term.
Female (35) Durham, North Carolina
LolaBunny24-7
L***********7
Looking for kinky dates to explore things I’ve never been comfortable asking for before. I love CNC role play, gentle nipple play and nipple orgasms, and creaming all over the place. DMs open here to locals only but you can also watch/message me on OF @LolaBunny24.7 (open access)
Female (36) Durham, North Carolina
8675309nc
8*******c
Y'all, I'm going to be honest. I like tall, dark men. I appreciate the others reaching out but it's just not for me, and yes I'm sure, yes I've tried.
Female (37) Durham, North Carolina
PolyEntrepreneurMama
P******************a
Imagine a home that feels loving and peaceful. Maybe I'm baking cookies. Maybe it's Christmas time. I'm looking for all those warm & fuzzies. :) But here's the hard part - I'm polyamorous. My ideal situation would be to have a primary partner, someone I can build a life with. Then, the freedom to build a meaningful relationship with a second person if I desired & we agreed. Tough ask huh? This is the best way to create meaningful connections for myself. If you understand and accept this idea, I’d be delighted to meet you. ? If not, no message necessary. I know this is not for everyone. Ohhhhh, and I have a fetish for muscles. ?? Lindsay.821982
Female (41) Durham, North Carolina
Rafbluegirl
R*********l
I'm a queer female looking for other queer females or nonbinary Afab humans. It is my preference in my sexuality. So cis men need not apply. You must be older than 35 to even spark my interest. I am not nor will ever be your sugar momma. Why is queer dating so hard? let's have a conversation, meet up and see if we have chemistry for friendships and maybe more. I am new to kink, be gentle ? ?
Female (44) Durham, North Carolina

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MistressEvaLordes
MistressEvaLordes
Hello, I am Mistress Eva. I am a blonde BBW goddess who loves to be served and pleased. I have been in the lifestyle for over Twenty years. I am currently seeking to find an attractive local personal sub. I am located in Durham, North Carolina in the US. (Not UK.) I am seeking a masculine male, but I am also very interested in finding a bi-sexual female sub as well. I prefer ladies I hope to find someone special for a long-term relationship. I am also excited about making new kinky friends. These traits I seek in my submissives. - Very Submissive - Healthy physically, mentally, and spiritually. - No STDS. - Share similar BDSM/ Fetish interests. - Single, divorced, or widowed. - Trustworthy. - Well-groomed. - Intelligent with common sense. - A good communicator. - Understand their needs and limits. - Attentive to my needs and wants. - Loyal and devoted. - Has ample time to serve me. - Financially stable. - Generous and love spoiling their Queen. - Has Transportation. - Skilled in cooking and cleaning. - Has vanilla hobbies and interests. - Likes cats. I have two. - Enjoys action, Sci-fi, and horror movies. - Loves Sushi! It's not a requirement, but it helps your odds! Send me a detailed introduction if you feel we would make a great match.
Female (43) Durham, North Carolina
lyssaart
l******t
If you aren’t local to me (within 100mi), sorry, but I am not interested. I am also not interested if you are over five years younger than me or 10 years older than me. I won’t reply. . . Alt nerd that loves Ren Faires, rainy days, animals, music, and random acts of kindness. Hanging out with me is like hanging out with a partially socialized honey badger. Chaotic Neutral. Bit of a brat . . Just out of a 14 year relationship so I’m not looking for anything serious. Keep it casual. Looking for a friend first that can hold a conversation and pique my interest. I am Demi, nothing’s happening without a connection. . .
Female (32) Durham, North Carolina
SonyaSexyStuff
S************f
Short and simple....I am looking for meaningful connections/relationships while having a good time with you, whether that ends up being short or long term.
Female (35) Durham, North Carolina
VioletMoonWhispers
V****************s
I’m a big white lady, 54 who is looking for her dominant man. I’m looking for long term not a hook up. I also don’t play til I build trust with someone. if you are not at least 43 years or older I’m not for you. I’m not going to submit to anyone younger than that I’m sorry that’s a hard pass. I’m not a switch either I don’t like dominating. I’m single, no kids. I like spanking, flogging, bondage. I also like daddy play as well as primal play or rough sex. I would like to try “free use” days or weekends with my person only. I’m not a 24/7 submissive. I’m way too independent for that, maybe a designated amount of time. There is more I’d like to experience, just asked me about it.
Female (54) Durham, North Carolina
8675309nc
8*******c
Y'all, I'm going to be honest. I like tall, dark men. I appreciate the others reaching out but it's just not for me, and yes I'm sure, yes I've tried.
Female (37) Durham, North Carolina
LolaBunny24-7
L***********7
Looking for kinky dates to explore things I’ve never been comfortable asking for before. I love CNC role play, gentle nipple play and nipple orgasms, and creaming all over the place. DMs open here to locals only but you can also watch/message me on OF @LolaBunny24.7 (open access)
Female (36) Durham, North Carolina
PolyEntrepreneurMama
P******************a
Imagine a home that feels loving and peaceful. Maybe I'm baking cookies. Maybe it's Christmas time. I'm looking for all those warm & fuzzies. :) But here's the hard part - I'm polyamorous. My ideal situation would be to have a primary partner, someone I can build a life with. Then, the freedom to build a meaningful relationship with a second person if I desired & we agreed. Tough ask huh? This is the best way to create meaningful connections for myself. If you understand and accept this idea, I’d be delighted to meet you. ? If not, no message necessary. I know this is not for everyone. Ohhhhh, and I have a fetish for muscles. ?? Lindsay.821982
Female (41) Durham, North Carolina
Rafbluegirl
R*********l
I'm a queer female looking for other queer females or nonbinary Afab humans. It is my preference in my sexuality. So cis men need not apply. You must be older than 35 to even spark my interest. I am not nor will ever be your sugar momma. Why is queer dating so hard? let's have a conversation, meet up and see if we have chemistry for friendships and maybe more. I am new to kink, be gentle ? ?
Female (44) Durham, North Carolina
queentattedandlocd
q****************d
AA BBW Unicorn, 42DD, thick waist, shoulder length locs and lots of tats. I'm a whole vibe! I'm down for: 1. Kissing 2. Deep tongue kissing 3. Sloppy head 4. Ball sucking 5. Deep throating 6. You eating my a$$ 7. You eating my cooch 8. Cumming on my body 9. Cumming on my face 10. Cumming in my mouth 11. Breast sex 12. Anal sex 13. Pussy to mouth 14. Dirty texting 15. Dirty Talking 16. Sexting 17. Group sex 18. 3sums 19. BDSM 20. Sending nudes **If your profile presents as a COUPLE, BE A COUPLE... if you a single guy, present THAT... lying is a sure fire way to be denied** You must be able to host (ACTUALLY HOST... not in your car, a park or any other non-bed location) or get a hotel. Be drama, drug and disease free.... FREE! Don't be a selfish lover....I want to be pleasured too! Men don't think you just gonna get sucked off without sucking back! Women not into pillow princesses.... you need to suck back too boo!
Female (48) Durham, North Carolina
ParanormalSmutWriter
P******************r
Not currently taking applications from men, I don't have the patience or the time. Curvy and flirty. Tiktok filters have let me know that my eyes are more gray than green. Tattooed. Definitely planning to get more tattoos. Pagan, and very liberal. Politics are personal, and I will not be with conservatives. Period. Not a sub. Not a little. Not interested in being dominated. Not interested in someone 10 + years younger/older than me. That means you must be at least 36 but under 56 to ride this ride. Would prefer someone within 50 miles of me. Please don't start the convo with sex or kink. At the very bare minimum say hello first. My blocking thumb is ever at the ready. My biggest kink is people that read. (Audiobooks are reading) **Cis males are on my nerves. Not accepting applications from them currently. If this offends you, it's about you. Have the day you deserve.**
Female (47) Durham, North Carolina

New personal ads in Durham

bratislava572039
Paypig

Hello! I’m 24 years old BBW blonde princess from Slovakia. Im looking for my obedient finsub! Im kind of soft domme, but also I can be hard if its need when you are not good boy and dont know where is your place! 🤬 I would like something long term, but Im open to short term too. Send tribute and lets go out of this app!
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around Slovakia, Bratislava ● one hour ago
BrattykayDaddykay
Looks can be deceiving

I have no experience in an actual BDSM relationship but I have general knowledge regarding every aspect. I want to be d into submission this is for my guys only. I want to submission for my ladies or overload them with compliments. If you read this and had questions like hey I don't fit anywhere still talking to my ladies guys sorry I am always up for a challenge I love to show how dominant I actually am.
Kinky Date ● 18 to 35 years ● 5km around USA, Largo ● 3 hours ago
anlmbrt
Chat

Dm me daddy and tell me how ypu wpuld fuck me
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA, Sterling ● 5 hours ago
richmond568497
Dog lover

Fun, caring, east going, and loving
Kinky Date ● 18 to 50 years ● 135km around USA, Richmond ● 6 hours ago
Th3newgirl31
It’s been 3 years… I think I’m ready…

I want someone who can ease me in. I know I like certain things, but I’m definitely too embarrassed to say.

Dom/Master
Some *** is pleasure
Take my breath away
Kinky Date ● 35 to 45 years ● 45km around USA, Auburn ● 23 minutes ago
Bravehunta001
Wanna dance with me

Music is a part of my soul. Immerse yourself in the captivating rhythm of music with me, where every beat and melody becomes a conduit for shared emotions and unspoken connections. Let's create a playlist of our own, where each song represents a cherished memory and fuels the passion that defines our unique love story. I love reading and connecting to the stories or heroes, feel deep the sense of words.
Kinky Date ● 45 to 99 years USA, Colorado Springs ● 7 hours ago
hide-a-way735016
Just my lifestyle 😺

honest, truthful, obedient and understanding slave to own and collar
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA, Hide A Way ● 8 hours ago
littleflowerr
I'm looking for a daddy and mommy I'm a little

I'm a little I'm looking for a daddy and mommy for cuddles and take care of me 🥺🥺
BDSM Play Partner ● 22 to 34 years ● 500km around Costa Rica, Guadalupe ● 8 hours ago
surfer84ca
What's up ladies

Masc/stud lesbian here and I'm bored af right now. Hmu lesbian, bi, or bi curious, I don't care. Just don't be boring
Kinky Date ● 26 to 42 years ● 500km around USA, Santa Rosa ● 8 hours ago
lemonbun666
Traveling Slut takes Denver

I'm a sub-leaning switch who is going to be headed to Downtown Denver the weekend of June, 16th. I was wondering if anyone would be down to meet up for some kinky play. I'd prefer meeting up with a dom, but that also depends on our chemistry.
Kinky Date ● 21 to 35 years ● 25km around USA, Denver ● 15.06.2024 - 18.06.2024
los-angeles306809
Selling content.

5 pics 4 20.00
5 videos 40.00
Personal videos 20each. 2 mins length
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA, Los Angeles ● 11 hours ago
Megu444
Looking to explore fetishes more

I’m looking for preferably a girl or even couple because I’m bisexual but lean towards girls more. I’m Japanese and would like to meet someone dominant to enslave me and shares me fetishes. I would like to explore.
Kinky Date ● 18 to 45 years USA, Tampa ● 11 hours ago
las-vegas198004
helper

i’d like to meet someone that is willing to help me out with a little bit of *** at times not a lot, I also want someone I can talk to & go to abt my problems .. & i’ll even be there to listen to yours 😉
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA, Las Vegas ● 11 hours ago
deletedaccount7373
NEARBY ONLY

I am NOT looking for anything sexual. Please respect that. I am looking for someone that is experienced in DDLG and domestic discipline. A guy who’s stern and strict and has serious rules and consequences. I need somebody who is able to host and drive and hangout TONIGHT. My Snapchat is kmoffatt97124
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 27 years ● 100km around USA, Elizabethton ● 11 hours ago
Hayley1984
Hey

Anyone
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around UK, Southampton ● 18.05.2024 - 20.05.2024
PuppetSpitt
Looking for an owner

Hi im into petplay im a cute little fox who sometimes age res for some reason my pictures wont load but my profile is verified id love to talk and have someone i have a lot in common with and that we have mutal attraction with each other <3
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA, Knoxville ● 18.05.2024 - 28.05.2024
Mayby
🥰 Looking for a match! 😜

Heyy! I’m looking for someone who’d want to go do something fun tonight and maybe head back to someone’s place after and get spicy. Something fun like a date then see where the night takes us!
Kinky Date ● 18 to 30 years ● 165km around USA, Fort Myers ● 13 hours ago
charlotte815799
Looking for sub/slave/paypig

Want to spoil me? Do you take orders well? Do you like to relinquish control? Let me drain you. I'm a bratty, spoiled hot young and (newer) femdomme/findomme looking for a sub/slave/paypig.
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years ● 475km around USA, Charlotte ● 13 hours ago
Kitten_22
Tie me up and make me scream 🥵

Femme Dom looking for some online fun and possibly in person too :)
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 30 years ● 500km around USA, Midlothian ● 14 hours ago
aliathat
Switch fun

Maybe more who knows~
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA, Hatton ● 14 hours ago
drillarybanks
Curious DOM Female

Looking to dominate a male and make him moan and squeal like a girl.
Kinky Date ● 25 to 40 years ● 25km around USA, Plainfield ● 15 hours ago
EdensFlowers
Hi, Looking for a Caregiver or Daddy <3

My name is Eden, I'm a submissive little who enjoys being spoiled and taken care of! I mainly prefer non sexual littlespace, but I do enjoy the strictness/punishments aspect... I'm looking for someone who I can feel comfortable talking to and not just have sex with! enjoy good music, food, gardening, cuddles! If any of that intereste you HMU ❤️
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 27 years ● 205km around USA, Hartford ● 16 hours ago
Tess1015
Bored

Anyone wanting to chat? I'm bored and would love to talk to someone interesting
Kinky Date ● 25 to 29 years ● 25km around USA, Dallas ● 16 hours ago

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