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Hi I'm looking for a mistress, that will allow me to be her loving sub, I like to please and love to be told I have been a good boy, I want to follow the rules and tasks she sets I dont mind if this is sexual or just a mundane task that makes her happy or means she has one less thing to do around the house.

I like a bit of but no , I have some in person experience of being a sub, I have been online for more than two years with one Dom starting with texts then on to cam. I then moved to in person with a different Dom and we met three times but she is unable to continue. So now I'm looking again, I am only looking for in person meetings and preferably around east midlands of England, but I am willing to travel If we have a good connection. If this is something what interests you say hi so we can talk more and see if we click and hopefully I will find my wonderful mistress and she her willing sub. I will be open and honest from the start i do have a long term partner of over 20 years and she understands and agrees to what i'm doing, I can explain a bit more when we chat. Please note I'm not interested I people that will sell there service to me, I want a friend, someone when we are not playing I can have a conversation with maybe go for a meal with or go for drinks.