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Hey there Thank you for stopping by my profile. My name is Cherry. i am 34 year old female. Face photos kept private only due to professional boundaries i am happily married. i am not seeking any play partners or play. My only play partner is my husband.
Female (34) Southampton, Hampshire
Am a woman with sense of responsibility. Loving,caring,and with a sense of humor,Some one that shares her opinions,interests and believes. I just need the man after my heart.
Female (36) Southampton, Hampshire
Looking for a Bull to join me and my cuck, these are to be one offs and not long term arrangements. Messages are welcome and will be shared with him as I want him to be turned on by them, we will not exchange numbers or last names.
Female (43) Southampton, Hampshire
I am a very demanding Queen. Be prepared to obey and worship, I will train you wether you have experience or not **DO NOT APPROACH IF YOU ARE A DOM *** AGAIN ANYONE MESSAGING WITH DOMINANT IN THEIR PROFILE WILL BE BLOCKED STRAIGHT AWAY
Female (32) Southampton, Hampshire
I’m here to make freinds and hopefully find some people to go to events with, and to possibly meet a long term, monogamous partner :relaxed: Please message me if you live in or frequent the southern end of the uk and would like to be freinds!! 9_9 I am not interested in casual sex or play, polyamory or anything transactional such as selling nudes or sugaring! Please approach me accordingly and with respect. I will not accept freind requests unless we’ve spoken! Outside of kink I enjoy gaming (mostly destiny and soulsborne!) alternative fashion and makeup, thrifting, coffee, reading and writing, cats (I have 2!) , and magic: the gathering. I am neurodivergent (adhd and autism) ✨ certified milf ✨ If you want to shoot your shot, please do so respectfully. You need to be a *very* soft daddy dom, (emotionally speaking only :whipping: ) loving, kind, nurturing, understanding, monogamous, affectionate, have kinks and interests that align with my own, have time and energy for a serious relationship with a very soft person who requires a fair bit of attention, be 10-20 ish years older than me, and at least a lil bit thick/chubby please! 9_9 I am totally open to long distance but you would likely need to do or finance most of the travelling! Thank you for reading 9_9 Please please do not try and launch immediately into sexual conversation with me, if you aren’t interested in getting to know someone as a person before getting into the kink stuff I am not for you. I will not reply !! I will also not reply if I think you haven’t read my profile! Physically I am a little shorter than average, kinda curvy and squishy, I dress very alternative (and revealing oops) and I have a lot of facial piercings and a mullet, in case any of that’s not for you! :relaxed: Emotionally and sexually I am very loving, affectionate, devoted, giving, obedient and eager to please for the RIGHT man only :gift_heart: bratty behaviour very unlikely :gift_heart: I am STRICTLYYY monogamous. If you are in a relationship, playing platonically, having any type of sex, play or feelings for another person currently I am not for you. I am only interested in sex and play alongside developing a serious and commited EXCLUSIVE relationship.
Female (28) Southampton, Hampshire
I am not a Domme plus size single sub not new to kink lifestyle but only been on the public scene for 2 years. not looking for an online long distance relationship. trust, communication and respect are hugely important to me. I am looking for somone who is looking for the possibility of long term, I would like a partner in my further exploration of kink, I have lots of friends I play with but something is missing, I would like to find my Dom and partner. I am not poly. I am not looking for an online relationship, I am looking to meet in person. I am not looking to Domme anyone
Female (31) Southampton, Hampshire
so here’s a little about me. I’ve been into the kink scene for around 12 years, both as a dominant and submissive. I have a wide range of things I like and dislikes. in my vanilla world I work in healthcare so reason for not sharing pictures until I know someone and have several crafty hobbies. so if u wanna chat more feel free to message
Female (35) Southampton, Hampshire
Looking for a respectful Dom/s relationship. I am a natural submissive but that doesn't mean I am naive or desperate. I enjoy the power play between Dom/s and the intimacy that the dynamic brings. I expect respect and gentleness outside of play. Whilst I am relatively new to this scene (3 years) I am clear on my wants and desires. If you think being a Dom is just an act of controlling me sexually to fulfill your own needs then you don't understand the dynamic so I would respectfully request you don't contact me. Stay safe everyone x **Desires and Fantasies** Consensual non Consensual play. Bondage, orgasm control, sensory deprivation and who knows where else this could go!
Female (54) Southampton, Hampshire
Amateur Horticulturist Bibliophile Music lover Occasional gamer I'm looking for an experienced Master/Sadist to help guide and further train me. Someone who has traditional values and an understanding of polarity. I will vet appropriately before any play. I'm not looking for a hook-up. Please don't waste my time if you are emotionally unavailable or hiding this app from your partner.
Female (43) Southampton, Hampshire
I am looking for a dom/ sub relationship , where I am the sub, I am happy to take care of my dom in any way, but I will not be a door mat, I have left my previous relationship because I am not happy in a poly relationship
Female (54) Southampton, Hampshire
I am a pro domme at Scarlet Chambers. Subs, if you wish to see my domme side then you may message to arrange a booking but I will not be indulging in your online fantasies so only message if you are serious. Happy to talk and exchange experiences and advice Fet life page - Miss_atmosfear
Female (30) Southampton, Hampshire
Please do fucked up crazy things to me Very gay, Very kinky I’m very chill and up to try whatever ur into i love older women
Female (18) Southampton, Hampshire
hi I’m Megan but meggie is my nickname I’m a little come talk if you like x
Female (23) Southampton, Hampshire
looking for people to potentially have some fun with, new to this so will need help learning
Female (20) Southampton, Hampshire
I’m in a CNM partnership and looking for new doms in my life. Bratty sub, for the most part. Part time princess. I’m looking for a steady and regular Dom who has some experience. Please only message if you are actually interested in meeting up/taster dates IRL. I don’t like ONS and don’t need a sneaky link. ideally I am looking for someone that makes me feel safe enough to explore fantasies like CNC and primal. Someone who is able to protect me from everyone but themselves, so to speak. ??I like a little struggle with my kink, so doms who enjoy a fight are VERY FUCKING WELCOME. ALSO if you want to fulfill my Ghostface fantasy or just chase me around the woods, HMU. I tried to make this clear in my photos but I am not a small girl- I’m a UK size 18 and want to be up front about it. I’m case it matters, here are my big 4. 100% Degradee 97% Submissive 83% Brat 71% Primal (Prey)
Female (36) Southampton, Hampshire
hi, I’m a little bit shy when it comes to all this. I’m just looking for a caregiver so I can be in little space more often, but also someone that’s willing to put up with my bratty side :) I’m still working out my little age it’s like around 3-5 kinda depends on what mood I’m in and if I’m struggle to regress as I find it hard to do alone. im also willing to meet other people through this and make some friends would be really nice :) Also I have tattoos so if you don’t like them then here’s the warning ;)
Female (20) Southampton, Hampshire
Hey everyone, I'm new to Fet so go easy on me lol I'm looking for a long-term relationship/dynamic Must be experienced in the lifestyle or at least be educated in bdsm.... All applicants will be fully vetted Have respect and manners when approaching me and remembering consent is key! If you are interested in a talk then please be honest, respectful and show you have education in the lifestyle. I want someone who is confident, caring and is willing to protect and keep me safe. Age is important must be no older that 24 years old and willing to take it slow and start the correct way in arranging a social meet in public to begin with. snap: miss.k1aa please DM me if you have added me on snap so I can add back I'm an adhd curvy gremlin that gets stoned like it's an olympic sport and I am one stubborn mf so take me on I dare you also would definitely smash you at sonic racing anyways wanna smoke? alsooooooo kinda not looking for anything serious at the moment as I just wanna chill and get to know someone before rushing into a relationship anyways with all that said n done i also don't know how to take compliments so if I seem a lil odd when I reply then I'm sorry lmao
Female (18) Southampton, Hampshire
Hi! I am submissive by nature but not naive. I’m looking for someone that has time and patience to help me explore or explore with me. I don’t have anything special to say to lure you in but feel free to ask me anything, I’m shy and nervous but I am also open and honest. I’ve only had bad luck in seeking so far, some people that have just upped and disappeared with no rhyme or reason, I find that hurtful and unnecessary, it only takes a second to say goodbye. No Scat, Feet, Feeding, one offs! Oh and I am divorced and have children (20 and 13), let’s stop you from wasting your time :) **Desires and Fantasies** I am looking for a Dom that understands the mental as well as the physical. I have a very active imagination and I want someone that can play with this. Physically I am willing to try most things, very interested in bondage, sensory, orgasm (forced/denied), spanking. I’m just looking for someone/s to belong with/to, been searching for a 2+ years now on and off. I will not call you by an honorific before it has been earned. I am submissive, but I am not your submissive until you have earned my submission. If these are things that you are looking for then kindly move along. I may not be experienced but I am researched, to protect myself and others. Ideally my end game is to be collared by someone that has earned my submission. Thank you for taking the time to read this, you’re better than the other 95% have a great day.
Female (39) Southampton, Hampshire
hi I'm lis I can't think of what to write here I'm a very curvy plus size lady, have a quirky sense of self and humour. I enjoy reading, crafting and video games.
Female (42) Southampton, Hampshire

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Am a woman with sense of responsibility. Loving,caring,and with a sense of humor,Some one that shares her opinions,interests and believes. I just need the man after my heart.
Female (36) Southampton, Hampshire
I’m here to make freinds and hopefully find some people to go to events with, and to possibly meet a long term, monogamous partner :relaxed: Please message me if you live in or frequent the southern end of the uk and would like to be freinds!! 9_9 I am not interested in casual sex or play, polyamory or anything transactional such as selling nudes or sugaring! Please approach me accordingly and with respect. I will not accept freind requests unless we’ve spoken! Outside of kink I enjoy gaming (mostly destiny and soulsborne!) alternative fashion and makeup, thrifting, coffee, reading and writing, cats (I have 2!) , and magic: the gathering. I am neurodivergent (adhd and autism) ✨ certified milf ✨ If you want to shoot your shot, please do so respectfully. You need to be a *very* soft daddy dom, (emotionally speaking only :whipping: ) loving, kind, nurturing, understanding, monogamous, affectionate, have kinks and interests that align with my own, have time and energy for a serious relationship with a very soft person who requires a fair bit of attention, be 10-20 ish years older than me, and at least a lil bit thick/chubby please! 9_9 I am totally open to long distance but you would likely need to do or finance most of the travelling! Thank you for reading 9_9 Please please do not try and launch immediately into sexual conversation with me, if you aren’t interested in getting to know someone as a person before getting into the kink stuff I am not for you. I will not reply !! I will also not reply if I think you haven’t read my profile! Physically I am a little shorter than average, kinda curvy and squishy, I dress very alternative (and revealing oops) and I have a lot of facial piercings and a mullet, in case any of that’s not for you! :relaxed: Emotionally and sexually I am very loving, affectionate, devoted, giving, obedient and eager to please for the RIGHT man only :gift_heart: bratty behaviour very unlikely :gift_heart: I am STRICTLYYY monogamous. If you are in a relationship, playing platonically, having any type of sex, play or feelings for another person currently I am not for you. I am only interested in sex and play alongside developing a serious and commited EXCLUSIVE relationship.
Female (28) Southampton, Hampshire
so here’s a little about me. I’ve been into the kink scene for around 12 years, both as a dominant and submissive. I have a wide range of things I like and dislikes. in my vanilla world I work in healthcare so reason for not sharing pictures until I know someone and have several crafty hobbies. so if u wanna chat more feel free to message
Female (35) Southampton, Hampshire
Looking for a Bull to join me and my cuck, these are to be one offs and not long term arrangements. Messages are welcome and will be shared with him as I want him to be turned on by them, we will not exchange numbers or last names.
Female (43) Southampton, Hampshire
I am a very demanding Queen. Be prepared to obey and worship, I will train you wether you have experience or not **DO NOT APPROACH IF YOU ARE A DOM *** AGAIN ANYONE MESSAGING WITH DOMINANT IN THEIR PROFILE WILL BE BLOCKED STRAIGHT AWAY
Female (32) Southampton, Hampshire
I am not a Domme plus size single sub not new to kink lifestyle but only been on the public scene for 2 years. not looking for an online long distance relationship. trust, communication and respect are hugely important to me. I am looking for somone who is looking for the possibility of long term, I would like a partner in my further exploration of kink, I have lots of friends I play with but something is missing, I would like to find my Dom and partner. I am not poly. I am not looking for an online relationship, I am looking to meet in person. I am not looking to Domme anyone
Female (31) Southampton, Hampshire
Amateur Horticulturist Bibliophile Music lover Occasional gamer I'm looking for an experienced Master/Sadist to help guide and further train me. Someone who has traditional values and an understanding of polarity. I will vet appropriately before any play. I'm not looking for a hook-up. Please don't waste my time if you are emotionally unavailable or hiding this app from your partner.
Female (43) Southampton, Hampshire
Hey there Thank you for stopping by my profile. My name is Cherry. i am 34 year old female. Face photos kept private only due to professional boundaries i am happily married. i am not seeking any play partners or play. My only play partner is my husband.
Female (34) Southampton, Hampshire
Looking for a respectful Dom/s relationship. I am a natural submissive but that doesn't mean I am naive or desperate. I enjoy the power play between Dom/s and the intimacy that the dynamic brings. I expect respect and gentleness outside of play. Whilst I am relatively new to this scene (3 years) I am clear on my wants and desires. If you think being a Dom is just an act of controlling me sexually to fulfill your own needs then you don't understand the dynamic so I would respectfully request you don't contact me. Stay safe everyone x **Desires and Fantasies** Consensual non Consensual play. Bondage, orgasm control, sensory deprivation and who knows where else this could go!
Female (54) Southampton, Hampshire
I am looking for a dom/ sub relationship , where I am the sub, I am happy to take care of my dom in any way, but I will not be a door mat, I have left my previous relationship because I am not happy in a poly relationship
Female (54) Southampton, Hampshire
Please do fucked up crazy things to me Very gay, Very kinky I’m very chill and up to try whatever ur into i love older women
Female (18) Southampton, Hampshire
hi I’m Megan but meggie is my nickname I’m a little come talk if you like x
Female (23) Southampton, Hampshire
I am a pro domme at Scarlet Chambers. Subs, if you wish to see my domme side then you may message to arrange a booking but I will not be indulging in your online fantasies so only message if you are serious. Happy to talk and exchange experiences and advice Fet life page - Miss_atmosfear
Female (30) Southampton, Hampshire
hi I'm lis I can't think of what to write here I'm a very curvy plus size lady, have a quirky sense of self and humour. I enjoy reading, crafting and video games.
Female (42) Southampton, Hampshire
Hey everyone, I'm new to Fet so go easy on me lol I'm looking for a long-term relationship/dynamic Must be experienced in the lifestyle or at least be educated in bdsm.... All applicants will be fully vetted Have respect and manners when approaching me and remembering consent is key! If you are interested in a talk then please be honest, respectful and show you have education in the lifestyle. I want someone who is confident, caring and is willing to protect and keep me safe. Age is important must be no older that 24 years old and willing to take it slow and start the correct way in arranging a social meet in public to begin with. snap: miss.k1aa please DM me if you have added me on snap so I can add back I'm an adhd curvy gremlin that gets stoned like it's an olympic sport and I am one stubborn mf so take me on I dare you also would definitely smash you at sonic racing anyways wanna smoke? alsooooooo kinda not looking for anything serious at the moment as I just wanna chill and get to know someone before rushing into a relationship anyways with all that said n done i also don't know how to take compliments so if I seem a lil odd when I reply then I'm sorry lmao
Female (18) Southampton, Hampshire
I’m in a CNM partnership and looking for new doms in my life. Bratty sub, for the most part. Part time princess. I’m looking for a steady and regular Dom who has some experience. Please only message if you are actually interested in meeting up/taster dates IRL. I don’t like ONS and don’t need a sneaky link. ideally I am looking for someone that makes me feel safe enough to explore fantasies like CNC and primal. Someone who is able to protect me from everyone but themselves, so to speak. ??I like a little struggle with my kink, so doms who enjoy a fight are VERY FUCKING WELCOME. ALSO if you want to fulfill my Ghostface fantasy or just chase me around the woods, HMU. I tried to make this clear in my photos but I am not a small girl- I’m a UK size 18 and want to be up front about it. I’m case it matters, here are my big 4. 100% Degradee 97% Submissive 83% Brat 71% Primal (Prey)
Female (36) Southampton, Hampshire
looking for people to potentially have some fun with, new to this so will need help learning
Female (20) Southampton, Hampshire
hi, I’m a little bit shy when it comes to all this. I’m just looking for a caregiver so I can be in little space more often, but also someone that’s willing to put up with my bratty side :) I’m still working out my little age it’s like around 3-5 kinda depends on what mood I’m in and if I’m struggle to regress as I find it hard to do alone. im also willing to meet other people through this and make some friends would be really nice :) Also I have tattoos so if you don’t like them then here’s the warning ;)
Female (20) Southampton, Hampshire
Hi! I am submissive by nature but not naive. I’m looking for someone that has time and patience to help me explore or explore with me. I don’t have anything special to say to lure you in but feel free to ask me anything, I’m shy and nervous but I am also open and honest. I’ve only had bad luck in seeking so far, some people that have just upped and disappeared with no rhyme or reason, I find that hurtful and unnecessary, it only takes a second to say goodbye. No Scat, Feet, Feeding, one offs! Oh and I am divorced and have children (20 and 13), let’s stop you from wasting your time :) **Desires and Fantasies** I am looking for a Dom that understands the mental as well as the physical. I have a very active imagination and I want someone that can play with this. Physically I am willing to try most things, very interested in bondage, sensory, orgasm (forced/denied), spanking. I’m just looking for someone/s to belong with/to, been searching for a 2+ years now on and off. I will not call you by an honorific before it has been earned. I am submissive, but I am not your submissive until you have earned my submission. If these are things that you are looking for then kindly move along. I may not be experienced but I am researched, to protect myself and others. Ideally my end game is to be collared by someone that has earned my submission. Thank you for taking the time to read this, you’re better than the other 95% have a great day.
Female (39) Southampton, Hampshire

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Pro-Dom/me Session18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA, Augusta one hour ago

I love spending time together reading bedtime stories by going over the words and pictures in the book while you suck on your binkie or on a big boy bottle. I love sounding the words out with you while I rub my fingers through your hair and give you a kiss on your forehead for every word that you are able to get right
I love putting your swim diaper on you and going into the pool at the motel or in the lake and ocean in the summer. I love helping you slowly get into the water by holding your little hand or keeping you up on my hip while I help you get adjusted to the cold. Mommy keeps you safe in her arms as we walk around the water and jump into the waves together and hold each other chest to chest or at arms length while I let you kick ur legs in the water. We can go under the water together and I'll tell you to hold your nose or blow big bubbles while we take a dip on 1,2,3.
I love changing your stinky diapers at night when you are fast asleep in my arms. I love the googly eyed look you give me as I shuffle you on your back with your blankke to keep you warm and unclasp your onesie. I love the confused look you give me as mommy tells you that you wet your diaper and gives you a big forehead kiss. I take off your stinky diaper after cleaning you and then I put your new diaper on and put diaper cream, A&D on your plug before I put it inside of you and powder all over you before getting you all snuggled up with your stuffy, mommys boobie and my arms wrapped all around you.
I love going shopping together and picking out your new favorite toy. I love going through all the new and bright colored things in the store and shopping for your favorite finger food snack or juice that mommy will put in your bottle. I love carrying around your diaper bag in the store and letting everyone know what a big boy you are for helping mommy pick out a new tooth brush or some bubble bath. When in the store you can't let go of mommy's hand! Or mommy will spank you right in the store in front of everyone! When you go to the bathroom in your diaper I will watch for you to squirm and waddle before putting my hands down your pants and checking to see if you went number 1or 2. I'll bring you to the changing table in the bathroom and I will put your legs up and watch you look off into the distance with your binkie in your mouth while mommy changes your diaper and gets you nice and clean.
I love playing with ur plug or your bottom binkie before giving you a enema to clean you out. I love making you hold that mean nasty enema in your tummy for as long as you can, watching your face turn red and hearing you beg mommy to let you go. I love watching the look of relief on your face when mommy let's you go and then changing your messy diaper before giving you a bubble bath with WAY to many bubbles that the tub is almost overflowing. I love scrubbing your feet and washing your hair and then washing all the soap off of you. I then love drying you off and putting lotion on your body while I give you tons of kisses, lots and lots of kiss all over your body that you start to giggle uncontrollably. I then love turning you over and opening up your bottom to give you lots on kisses there. Watching your body pace back and forth against my mouth as you thank me for all the love that I give you. So so so much love. I then love putting your plug in and your diaper on and giving you some boobie or a bottle while I hold you on top of me or rock you back and forth in my arms and tell you what a good baby you are.
I love it when you are bad and you throw your toys all over the place and mommy yells NO! Stop it! NOW and you look at mommy with a pouty face and scream NO! I then take you into my arms by your hand and take your onesie off and pull your diaper down and spank you. You cry and cry and I ask you how many times you think you deserved to be spanked for being a bad boy and you scream NONE! I then spank you again and ask the same question. You say that mommy is mean and tell me 5. I spank you five more times and you start to cry. I put you into time out and wait for you to stop crying and look over at mommy to apologize. I let you out of timeout and tell you that mommy is sorry for hurting you but that you need to be a good boy and not destroy your toys when you are mad or frustrated. I hold you and you tell me how much you love mommy.
I love going on a adventure to somewhere like six flags and watching your eyes light up when you see all the people walking by you, the roller coasters going up into the air on the tracks, the smell of the sweet fried dough and sunscreen that mommy put on you to make sure you didn't burn, the noises of the games all around you and the people screaming. You get overwhelmed for a second but mommy reminds you that she is there to protect you and that if you leave her side for even a second you will be punished. You shake your head quickly because not only do you not want to be punished in front of everyone but you know how much you need your mommy. We spend the day going on ride together, going in the water park where mommy has you go into the women's locker room so she can change you into your swim diaper and eating so many yummy foods. Mommy doesn't let you eat before going on rides because she knows that your tummy will hurt. Mommy checks your diaper in front of everyone and then takes you to change your diaper throughout the day. By the time we are leaving you have a new stuffie and a new sweatshirt to remember our beautiful day together.

I can keep going and going and going. Car seats, outside changing, trips to new places, birthday parties, shoe shopping, eating at restaurants, learning new things academically together..so so much more.

Mommy loves you so much baby boy

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