Ideally someone experienced in severe corporal punishment. Someone that doesn’t stop at tears, and is amused and aroused by the fact I might be sobbing and whimpering!
I would love this person to be so authoritative that bladder control is assumed from the first meeting. I want to be so nervous of the potential *** that if I’m told to hold a bursting bladder in public that’s what I’ll do.
At the end of our ‘dates’ I’d love nothing more than to be physically unable to sit down for my bruised bum, in wet jeans that I humiliated in, reduced to a crying mess and covered in spit and drool from using my mouth to say thank you.