Find kinky women in San Diego

**If you want to meet, please be able to host somewhere private within San Diego county.** Hi, I'm Theresa and I'm an STD friendly, 300lb slut. I listed myself on STDcarriers (search my name on that site) because I have genital herpes, hpv & genital warts. That said, I will spread my legs for any male itching to spread his toxic seed. A few things I enjoy are: Gentle urethral play: this makes me cum very hard. Cervix play: I'd like to have my cervix stretched open enough to be penetrated by a thin dildo. Deep, hard anal: you can fuck my ass until it's raw. Needles: I'm open to having my nipples pierced.
Female (45) San Diego, California
I do as I please My personality tends to switch with the person I am interacting with I have both a dominant side, and a VERY submissive side for certain people. I like to get to know the person I am engaging with prior to indulging in our play, as it is very important to establish our roles and boundaries. Disclaimer: I Do NOT consent to my info, pics, or otherwise being used for any kind of project or otherwise, without my absolute written permission.
Female (25) San Diego, California
Looking for my Daddy (or Daddies) to be a good girl to (and an occasional brat ?) Want a 24/7 dynamic with someone I can wholly give myself to and build an amazing and beautiful connection with. I want to be owned and cherished, bruised and praised, spanked and cuddled ? Pretty big masochist. Haven't found my limit yet, and am looking for someone that can outstand me with impact play and others. I've never given before, all my partners get tired before I reach my limit ? I'd like to find that limit and push it, see just how far I can take it. Very interested in torture play. Would love for someone to push me to the max of what I can take and send me to a dissociative state or sub space (haven't gotten there yet) and love after care of course. Beat me until I can't take it anymore, and then love me and cuddle me and tell me how well I took it ? Ideally? I'd love to have two Daddies to cherish and love up on me. Whether that is by joining a couple or building up a thruple, doesn't matter. I like to be active in the community, go to munches, dungeons, and events. Looking for someone that wants to be part of the community with me. And always looking for subs. Would live to have a little boy of my own. New-ish to the world of kink, trying to continue to explore and meet people in the community. I've done quite a bit of exploring so far, but always looking for more. Outside of the bedroom, I am a college student- probably will be forever ? My hobbies include reading, writing, drawing/painting. I've been playing around with film photography and want to learn how to develop them. I love to hike, but haven't gotten to do it in years. I have two cats, love driving manual cars, and love all things Gothic or atmospheric. Very big advocate of mental health and am particularly fascinated by the intersection of kink and psychology. Anything else, feel free to ask me ? I'm really bad about getting on here, and never seem to get notifications. Feel free to message me and I'll eventually get back to you, anything else, I probably won't, so if you want to talk, send me a message. Looking to meet people, make friends, be a part of the community. If we seem to click, let's get coffee or something and see if we click in person. I like taking things slow, not going to randomly get a hotel room with someone I've never met ? sorry, not sorry ?‍♀️ Soft limits: knife play, brat play/taming, bathroom control, blood play. Hard limits: anything to do with scat or vomit. Anything extremely painful or disfiguring. Owner/slave. Breeding, watersports, humiliation/degradation. Face slapping. Piercing play. Everything else is pretty much fair game. Got something specific in mind? Ask me. Things I particularly enjoy are bondage/suspension, E-stim, poly, impact play, anal play, double penetration, wax play, temperature play, and sensory play/deprivation. Interested in trying out my soft limits, they tend to fluctuate, as do my hard limits, lol. Updated my test March 2023 == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Masochist 96% Rope bunny 94% Brat 87% Submissive 86% Boy/Girl 78% Switch 78% Experimentalist 74% Primal (Prey) 72% Non-monogamist 71% Ageplayer 69% Brat tamer 67% Rigger 63% Exhibitionist 63% Dominant 62% Sadist 59% Voyeur 41% Primal (Hunter) 32% Slave 32% Vanilla 27% Pet 27% Daddy/Mommy 21% Degradee 21% Master/Mistress 20% Degrader 20% Owner Ideally would love to find a couple of Daddies to be a little girl to. Wanna make my fantasy come true? Also open for a Daddy as my primary. Don't mind an open relationship and playing with others, but I want to be someone's Good Girl (and occasional Brat ?) open to Mommies too ? want to be owned and cherished, bruised and praised, spanked and cuddled ? And always looking for subs. New to the world of kink, trying to explore and meet people in the community. Outside of the bedroom, I am a college student- probably will be forever ?? My hobbies include reading, writing, drawing/painting. I've been playing around with film photography and want to learn how to develop them. I love to hike, but haven't gotten to do it in years. I have two cats, love driving manual cars, and love all things Gothic or atmospheric. Anything else, feel free to ask me ?? I'm really bad about getting on here, and never seem to get notifications. Feel free to message me and I'll eventually get back to you, anything else, I probably won't, so if you want to talk, send me a message. Looking to meet people, make friends, be a part of the community. If we seem to click, let's get coffee or something and see if we click in person. I like taking things slow, not going to randomly get a hotel room with someone I've never met ? sorry, not sorry ? == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Masochist 96% Rope bunny 94% Brat 87% Submissive 86% Boy/Girl 78% Switch 78% Experimentalist 74% Primal (Prey) 72% Non-monogamist 71% Ageplayer 69% Brat tamer 67% Rigger 63% Exhibitionist 63% Dominant 62% Sadist 59% Voyeur 41% Primal (Hunter) 32% Slave 32% Vanilla 27% Pet 27% Daddy/Mommy 21% Degradee 21% Master/Mistress 20% Degrader 20% Owner
Female (28) San Diego, California
I’m a sub looking for an irl dom. My fetishes are cockwarming, finger sucking, oral fixation, free use, praise, choking, bondage, and more
Female (18) San Diego, California
Single 30 year old woman looking for an older man for a long term relationship. I am very submissive and kinky and want an older man who wants to at some point have a relationship with a submissive live in girlfriend/slave/wife. 24/7 lifestyle is what I am looking for. I am willing to travel if I meet the right person who wants the same thing and has similar kinks.
Female (30) San Diego, California
lovable brat pillow princess living doll ?? pet little ❤️ I want to be spoiled ??? 5”8 180 curves black Only responding to Daddy’s that send gifts kayla00788 ($app)
Female (34) San Diego, California
Your fantasies make me so horny, like getting of while reading them. Really into Hardcore, humiliation, degradation, name-calling and CNC. Need to be someone's painslut. Can also change languages to German if that is more comfortable for you.
Female (24) San Diego, California
Thank you for looking at my profile. I am a mature lady and I like to fight for my dreams. Now I am here to look for my love and I want to end my single life with the right person, I don't have time for games, I want to be with someone who will transform my life and give a spark of joy to yours. I love to have fun in a healthy way, any plan no matter how simple, I will enjoy it
Female (34) San Diego, California
About me....I'm that mistress who understands that Erotic intelligence stretches far beyond a repertoire of sexual techniques. It is an intelligence that celebrates curiosity and play, the power of the imagination and our infinite fascination with what is hidden and mysterious. Its the mental mindfuck, the slight humiliation, it's how intensely erotic it is to be Owned by an intelligent and creative owner. How would you describe yourself ? I am looking for a submissive man that wants to experience more of the things that stimulate his mind as well as his body where getting inside his head makes him tingle all over knowing that his buttons are being pressed from the inside but the effect is what he is feeling on the outside making him fantasies more and more willing than ever. One where she simply lets go of his preconceived ideas on what a good slave should be and not be judged for the taboo things that his parents and society warned him that he shouldn’t indulge in like his love of cock being used and made to cum repeatedly.. If this is you then get back to me and lets discover just how far you can go into the dark side..
Female (35) San Diego, California
just looking for my next adventure !! **Desires and Fantasies** honestly.. I’ve been chasing that high I got from the first time I was tossed around, held down and told what to do, the first time I was truly dominated.. I guess I can only feel it the rougher it gets, care to help?
Female (23) San Diego, California
New here and looking for something fun and casual but open to more if we click 420 friendly snap-howrsemw
Female (25) San Diego, California
Introverted fat submissive hoping to find an equitable, genuine, sharing partnership (friends or otherwise) where I can be myself. In short: Cerebral attraction is more important to me than physical. I'm old enough to know what I don't want. Demi. I drink but not much and not often. Down and dirty desires: Very much into kink, praise, light BDSM (maybe more), voyeurism, masks, primal/breeding (role-play only), natural body hair, sapiosexuality, body positivity. If you think we'd get along, feel free to say hello.
Female (40) San Diego, California
Who I am Hi, I’m Ari, and if you’ve been looking for someone who desires a genuine connection, is introverted and shy but witty and sassy when she gets comfortable, and sweet with the right amount of kink, then look no further. ♥ I’m a very caring and empathetic person who works in social services (specializing in Gerontology) so I balance out my demanding career with a sprinkling of playfulness, dark humor, and sass. What I'm looking for I’m looking for a long term relationship with a heavy dose of chemistry both inside and outside the bedroom. Ideally, I’d love someone protective and attentive who knows how to utilize those traits in the bedroom in a way that allows my submissive side to flourish under his care. I’m open to a DD/lg or D/s dynamic that relies on open and plentiful communication. Who I'm looking for I’d like to find someone who would be the perfect German Shepherd to match my Golden Retriever Energy. He should be both dominant and masculine but secretly sweet for and on me when he’s not being disrespectful (respectfully, of course). =P You should be • 5’7 or over to match my 5’4 • A strong admirer of plus-size bodies • Intelligent and write in complete sentences • Be genuine and not waste my time • Be in between 30-50 • Consider yourself morally sound • Local to SoCal - preferably San Diego • Have somewhere you can host as I cannot currently Before your DM me: • Please have a bio photo or one to send me after you message • Please send a personalized message and add in your fave emoji in the subject line • Please know what you want - don’t waste my time Vanilla me • I’m a big reader and like to balance psychology books with a healthy side of smut. • I LOVE baseball especially at Petco park. • I’m a dog mom and a love taking my little one out for walks. • My parents are musicians so I inherited the gene and I’m a classically trained singer. • Ideal dates might include something fun and competitive like axe throwing, bowling, or batting cages. • I have multiple girl groups and we love going out to speakeasies together like Raised by Wolves and Grass Skirt. • Love boardgames and have a monthly boardgames night with friends.
Female (30) San Diego, California
I work in a field that I have to be ON and in control most of the time. I have great anticipation and am very empathetic. I tend to be a healer, I am fairly healthy and athletic. I tend to be a strong sub and I’m looking for Dom’s that can take control and bring my energies into the more feminine role. I am getting back into play, as I have been out of it, not practicing for a few years. For ropes, definitely a bottom (for now) I am looking for my D.. SSC (always), RACK, PRICK…. I’m straight/heteroflexible, I love POSITIVE people. I won’t discuss religion or politics, unless it turns YOU on. I RESPECT all opinions and expect the same. I am looking for strong connections, event friends, and more. I don’t like to be called a whore or have mean degradation. I’m looking for deeper intimacy, sensuality, pleasure. I am very sex positive, though I’m not looking to just have sex, if it leads there, then we NEGOTIATED it. I don’t want ONS, if that is all YOU want, thanks for stopping by. I’m here to explore, learn, appreciate the energies we exchange. **IF YOU DON’T LIKE SOMETHING I HAVE SAID, 2 options politely interact, NO NAME CALLING OR INSULTS… OR, KEEP SCROLLING**
Female (53) San Diego, California
I create custom ASMR, Audio, and Fetish Art - linked in my twitter bio - go give it a listen and let my voice guide you into the spaces where fantasy and realities intertwine queer, solo poly, domme + switch with few, pansexual, saucy. I work in energetic, sexual, and intimacy healing as my day things. night things are up to you, let’s connect, see how we vibe, + play. **Desires and Fantasies** tell me yours, I bet they’re one of mine
Female (39) San Diego, California
Im looking for a female to get freaky with. Im single for the first time in a very long time. Im not in any hurry to change that.
Female (46) San Diego, California
This is my new profile my other profile I can not chat so I’m doing a new profile. I’m trying to add my husband but can not figure out what I’m doing LOL. Hi kinky sluts, I’m a happily married women. My husband is ok with me getting back into my kinky side. He is not into dominatrix he will play If I have a female sub. I do NOT have sex with my male subs, but if they’re good boys I do allow them to release. I love to reward and punish my subs. I seriously enjoy spanking?. I like sissy’s, brats, naughty, sassy, innocent, babies etc. come play with me! Desire: To have so many slaves and pets worshiping me that I can’t keep them straight I’m dropping them like flys I dumped two today ? (UPDATE: I’m a little pissed right now I have several pets you will not hurt me if don’t want to be my pet but please DO NOT waste my time asking for pics of my pussy, video chats, money, scat anything gross and I don’t care how good you think you can talk I am NOT a sub I will NOT submit to you. I am not a switch I’m not interested in being one. If I scare you after you ask to see pics or ask to be humiliated just tell me that I scared you don’t be a pussy and block me?. If you add me on any of the sites without asking don’t get pissed when I question you. If you’re a dude posing as a girl come on now I’m not stupid. If you just friend request without chatting with me I won’t block you but I won’t accept friend request either. If you just friend request because you want to see my pics so you can get off not happening look at the ones that are visible to everyone. If you’re a Dom don’t try to dom me because I won’t do that to you. I may look at your pics or even leave a comment if the pic is sexy but I will not ask you to be my pet/toy you have to approach me. ) Follow me on IG IG Stefferpoo418 IG mxdkinkycpl IG mycutetoes1969 Ask before you add me Kik Stefferpoo telegram Stefferpoo418 SC Stefferpoo418 [THIS IS A LEGAL NOTICE/WARNING] I do not give any person or institution permission (express or implied) to use or reproduce for any purpose including study; any information, materials and or photographs in any form both current or future contained in this profile on this web site or any associated sites. To: Sydney University and all other institutions and individuals using this site or its associated sites for projects - You do not have permission from us to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of our privacy and will be subject to legal action. Thank you.
Female (55) San Diego, California
Hi! I’m K! I’m looking for opportunities for spanking/impact play with an experienced spanko. I am open to online play with men or women. I’m also interested in in person play with women only (but could make an exception for an older Dominant man only interested in spanking without other elements.) My additional kinks are humiliation (without extreme degradation like name calling) and exhibitionism. i am looking for opportunities to be submissive currently, although I am a switch. I will share more pictures when we match! I’m new here, so I’m still trying to get a feel for everything.
Female (29) San Diego, California
I am looking for some one to make my life more fun ?........I am looking for some one to bind and gag me and ram a dick ? up my ass like I am getting raped lol ? ?. ask me questions if you want to know more
Female (21) San Diego, California
i'm looking for safe and ethical hookups/fwbs with people who possess critical thinking skills and people who are at least double-vaxxed and willing to get STD tests. (i am double-vaxxed, 4x boosted, and recently STD tested). i'm not very experienced but i'd like to be. i prefer stone tops or pleasure doms. i just don't want to be in control. i love everything marvel, especially moon knight and spiderman. don't message me if you're "not political." free palestine, sudan, congo, etc.
Female (22) San Diego, California
Hi! I’m looking for FwB but I know sometimes connections are meant for just B, and sometimes just F and those are great too. (: If you’re around, let’s do something fun!! Peace and love ✌️❤️ Size queen
Female (21) San Diego, California
I live in San Diego in the area of Clairemont about a mile and a half from Mission Bay and I’m looking for somebody to go to swinging events and vacations with! I have ran 72 marathons (26.2 miles) so far and I’m planning to do at least 100.
Female (58) San Diego, California
Bratty switch wanting a dom/sub who lets me play by my rules but also loves to test my limits. Love orgy’s and multitude of toys. Tie me up like one of your french girls and make me tremble. Willing to give good head (i’m a barber) ✂️ scissor me silly.
Female (27) San Diego, California
I’m very outspoken. I’m American made with Mexican parts ! Mexican American Gal. ? I’m well mannered, observant , bubbly & I’m funny asf! I love to cook for friends and family… I widowed in Mexico so starting to date isn’t easy… but hey ? there’s a start for everything !! I’m a cool mofo but don’t get it effed up either . I will cuss yo a** out if I have to! please be gentle with me like a bomb not like a flower. I don’t tolerate disrespect as nobody should but hey some won’t say nothing but I will, JADA! ?
Female (30) San Diego, California

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**If you want to meet, please be able to host somewhere private within San Diego county.** Hi, I'm Theresa and I'm an STD friendly, 300lb slut. I listed myself on STDcarriers (search my name on that site) because I have genital herpes, hpv & genital warts. That said, I will spread my legs for any male itching to spread his toxic seed. A few things I enjoy are: Gentle urethral play: this makes me cum very hard. Cervix play: I'd like to have my cervix stretched open enough to be penetrated by a thin dildo. Deep, hard anal: you can fuck my ass until it's raw. Needles: I'm open to having my nipples pierced.
Female (45) San Diego, California
I’m a sub looking for an irl dom. My fetishes are cockwarming, finger sucking, oral fixation, free use, praise, choking, bondage, and more
Female (18) San Diego, California
Thank you for looking at my profile. I am a mature lady and I like to fight for my dreams. Now I am here to look for my love and I want to end my single life with the right person, I don't have time for games, I want to be with someone who will transform my life and give a spark of joy to yours. I love to have fun in a healthy way, any plan no matter how simple, I will enjoy it
Female (34) San Diego, California
Single 30 year old woman looking for an older man for a long term relationship. I am very submissive and kinky and want an older man who wants to at some point have a relationship with a submissive live in girlfriend/slave/wife. 24/7 lifestyle is what I am looking for. I am willing to travel if I meet the right person who wants the same thing and has similar kinks.
Female (30) San Diego, California
I do as I please My personality tends to switch with the person I am interacting with I have both a dominant side, and a VERY submissive side for certain people. I like to get to know the person I am engaging with prior to indulging in our play, as it is very important to establish our roles and boundaries. Disclaimer: I Do NOT consent to my info, pics, or otherwise being used for any kind of project or otherwise, without my absolute written permission.
Female (25) San Diego, California
Your fantasies make me so horny, like getting of while reading them. Really into Hardcore, humiliation, degradation, name-calling and CNC. Need to be someone's painslut. Can also change languages to German if that is more comfortable for you.
Female (24) San Diego, California
Looking for my Daddy (or Daddies) to be a good girl to (and an occasional brat ?) Want a 24/7 dynamic with someone I can wholly give myself to and build an amazing and beautiful connection with. I want to be owned and cherished, bruised and praised, spanked and cuddled ? Pretty big masochist. Haven't found my limit yet, and am looking for someone that can outstand me with impact play and others. I've never given before, all my partners get tired before I reach my limit ? I'd like to find that limit and push it, see just how far I can take it. Very interested in torture play. Would love for someone to push me to the max of what I can take and send me to a dissociative state or sub space (haven't gotten there yet) and love after care of course. Beat me until I can't take it anymore, and then love me and cuddle me and tell me how well I took it ? Ideally? I'd love to have two Daddies to cherish and love up on me. Whether that is by joining a couple or building up a thruple, doesn't matter. I like to be active in the community, go to munches, dungeons, and events. Looking for someone that wants to be part of the community with me. And always looking for subs. Would live to have a little boy of my own. New-ish to the world of kink, trying to continue to explore and meet people in the community. I've done quite a bit of exploring so far, but always looking for more. Outside of the bedroom, I am a college student- probably will be forever ? My hobbies include reading, writing, drawing/painting. I've been playing around with film photography and want to learn how to develop them. I love to hike, but haven't gotten to do it in years. I have two cats, love driving manual cars, and love all things Gothic or atmospheric. Very big advocate of mental health and am particularly fascinated by the intersection of kink and psychology. Anything else, feel free to ask me ? I'm really bad about getting on here, and never seem to get notifications. Feel free to message me and I'll eventually get back to you, anything else, I probably won't, so if you want to talk, send me a message. Looking to meet people, make friends, be a part of the community. If we seem to click, let's get coffee or something and see if we click in person. I like taking things slow, not going to randomly get a hotel room with someone I've never met ? sorry, not sorry ?‍♀️ Soft limits: knife play, brat play/taming, bathroom control, blood play. Hard limits: anything to do with scat or vomit. Anything extremely painful or disfiguring. Owner/slave. Breeding, watersports, humiliation/degradation. Face slapping. Piercing play. Everything else is pretty much fair game. Got something specific in mind? Ask me. Things I particularly enjoy are bondage/suspension, E-stim, poly, impact play, anal play, double penetration, wax play, temperature play, and sensory play/deprivation. Interested in trying out my soft limits, they tend to fluctuate, as do my hard limits, lol. Updated my test March 2023 == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Masochist 96% Rope bunny 94% Brat 87% Submissive 86% Boy/Girl 78% Switch 78% Experimentalist 74% Primal (Prey) 72% Non-monogamist 71% Ageplayer 69% Brat tamer 67% Rigger 63% Exhibitionist 63% Dominant 62% Sadist 59% Voyeur 41% Primal (Hunter) 32% Slave 32% Vanilla 27% Pet 27% Daddy/Mommy 21% Degradee 21% Master/Mistress 20% Degrader 20% Owner Ideally would love to find a couple of Daddies to be a little girl to. Wanna make my fantasy come true? Also open for a Daddy as my primary. Don't mind an open relationship and playing with others, but I want to be someone's Good Girl (and occasional Brat ?) open to Mommies too ? want to be owned and cherished, bruised and praised, spanked and cuddled ? And always looking for subs. New to the world of kink, trying to explore and meet people in the community. Outside of the bedroom, I am a college student- probably will be forever ?? My hobbies include reading, writing, drawing/painting. I've been playing around with film photography and want to learn how to develop them. I love to hike, but haven't gotten to do it in years. I have two cats, love driving manual cars, and love all things Gothic or atmospheric. Anything else, feel free to ask me ?? I'm really bad about getting on here, and never seem to get notifications. Feel free to message me and I'll eventually get back to you, anything else, I probably won't, so if you want to talk, send me a message. Looking to meet people, make friends, be a part of the community. If we seem to click, let's get coffee or something and see if we click in person. I like taking things slow, not going to randomly get a hotel room with someone I've never met ? sorry, not sorry ? == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Masochist 96% Rope bunny 94% Brat 87% Submissive 86% Boy/Girl 78% Switch 78% Experimentalist 74% Primal (Prey) 72% Non-monogamist 71% Ageplayer 69% Brat tamer 67% Rigger 63% Exhibitionist 63% Dominant 62% Sadist 59% Voyeur 41% Primal (Hunter) 32% Slave 32% Vanilla 27% Pet 27% Daddy/Mommy 21% Degradee 21% Master/Mistress 20% Degrader 20% Owner
Female (28) San Diego, California
lovable brat pillow princess living doll ?? pet little ❤️ I want to be spoiled ??? 5”8 180 curves black Only responding to Daddy’s that send gifts kayla00788 ($app)
Female (34) San Diego, California
About me....I'm that mistress who understands that Erotic intelligence stretches far beyond a repertoire of sexual techniques. It is an intelligence that celebrates curiosity and play, the power of the imagination and our infinite fascination with what is hidden and mysterious. Its the mental mindfuck, the slight humiliation, it's how intensely erotic it is to be Owned by an intelligent and creative owner. How would you describe yourself ? I am looking for a submissive man that wants to experience more of the things that stimulate his mind as well as his body where getting inside his head makes him tingle all over knowing that his buttons are being pressed from the inside but the effect is what he is feeling on the outside making him fantasies more and more willing than ever. One where she simply lets go of his preconceived ideas on what a good slave should be and not be judged for the taboo things that his parents and society warned him that he shouldn’t indulge in like his love of cock being used and made to cum repeatedly.. If this is you then get back to me and lets discover just how far you can go into the dark side..
Female (35) San Diego, California
As a findomme I’m looking for guys to do financial domination with and see if we vibe. I sort of fell into this stuff but I find it absolutely intoxicating xx
Female (32) San Diego, California
i'm looking for safe and ethical hookups/fwbs with people who possess critical thinking skills and people who are at least double-vaxxed and willing to get STD tests. (i am double-vaxxed, 4x boosted, and recently STD tested). i'm not very experienced but i'd like to be. i prefer stone tops or pleasure doms. i just don't want to be in control. i love everything marvel, especially moon knight and spiderman. don't message me if you're "not political." free palestine, sudan, congo, etc.
Female (22) San Diego, California
Who I am Hi, I’m Ari, and if you’ve been looking for someone who desires a genuine connection, is introverted and shy but witty and sassy when she gets comfortable, and sweet with the right amount of kink, then look no further. ♥ I’m a very caring and empathetic person who works in social services (specializing in Gerontology) so I balance out my demanding career with a sprinkling of playfulness, dark humor, and sass. What I'm looking for I’m looking for a long term relationship with a heavy dose of chemistry both inside and outside the bedroom. Ideally, I’d love someone protective and attentive who knows how to utilize those traits in the bedroom in a way that allows my submissive side to flourish under his care. I’m open to a DD/lg or D/s dynamic that relies on open and plentiful communication. Who I'm looking for I’d like to find someone who would be the perfect German Shepherd to match my Golden Retriever Energy. He should be both dominant and masculine but secretly sweet for and on me when he’s not being disrespectful (respectfully, of course). =P You should be • 5’7 or over to match my 5’4 • A strong admirer of plus-size bodies • Intelligent and write in complete sentences • Be genuine and not waste my time • Be in between 30-50 • Consider yourself morally sound • Local to SoCal - preferably San Diego • Have somewhere you can host as I cannot currently Before your DM me: • Please have a bio photo or one to send me after you message • Please send a personalized message and add in your fave emoji in the subject line • Please know what you want - don’t waste my time Vanilla me • I’m a big reader and like to balance psychology books with a healthy side of smut. • I LOVE baseball especially at Petco park. • I’m a dog mom and a love taking my little one out for walks. • My parents are musicians so I inherited the gene and I’m a classically trained singer. • Ideal dates might include something fun and competitive like axe throwing, bowling, or batting cages. • I have multiple girl groups and we love going out to speakeasies together like Raised by Wolves and Grass Skirt. • Love boardgames and have a monthly boardgames night with friends.
Female (30) San Diego, California
Hi! I’m K! I’m looking for opportunities for spanking/impact play with an experienced spanko. I am open to online play with men or women. I’m also interested in in person play with women only (but could make an exception for an older Dominant man only interested in spanking without other elements.) My additional kinks are humiliation (without extreme degradation like name calling) and exhibitionism. i am looking for opportunities to be submissive currently, although I am a switch. I will share more pictures when we match! I’m new here, so I’m still trying to get a feel for everything.
Female (29) San Diego, California
New here and looking for something fun and casual but open to more if we click 420 friendly snap-howrsemw
Female (25) San Diego, California
Im looking for a female to get freaky with. Im single for the first time in a very long time. Im not in any hurry to change that.
Female (46) San Diego, California
I am looking for some one to make my life more fun ?........I am looking for some one to bind and gag me and ram a dick ? up my ass like I am getting raped lol ? ?. ask me questions if you want to know more
Female (21) San Diego, California
So the tldr of this is I'm just a woman trying to make friends, maybe find something more. To those who actually read descriptions, hey! I like you already. I'm an alternative woman with a love for RPGs, rock music, rollerblading, the ocean and gently smothering good little ones in affection. I'm a gentle dom, so expect that. I also want to make some friends with similar kink interests, so if you're here as a Dom don't be afraid to say hello! I could ramble for a few more paragraphs here, or I can do that when some lovely people decide to message me, so don't be shy! I'm sure we'll have plenty to talk about.
Female (21) San Diego, California
I live in San Diego in the area of Clairemont about a mile and a half from Mission Bay and I’m looking for somebody to go to swinging events and vacations with! I have ran 72 marathons (26.2 miles) so far and I’m planning to do at least 100.
Female (58) San Diego, California
Introverted fat submissive hoping to find an equitable, genuine, sharing partnership (friends or otherwise) where I can be myself. In short: Cerebral attraction is more important to me than physical. I'm old enough to know what I don't want. Demi. I drink but not much and not often. Down and dirty desires: Very much into kink, praise, light BDSM (maybe more), voyeurism, masks, primal/breeding (role-play only), natural body hair, sapiosexuality, body positivity. If you think we'd get along, feel free to say hello.
Female (40) San Diego, California
Bratty switch wanting a dom/sub who lets me play by my rules but also loves to test my limits. Love orgy’s and multitude of toys. Tie me up like one of your french girls and make me tremble. Willing to give good head (i’m a barber) ✂️ scissor me silly.
Female (27) San Diego, California
I’m very outspoken. I’m American made with Mexican parts ! Mexican American Gal. ? I’m well mannered, observant , bubbly & I’m funny asf! I love to cook for friends and family… I widowed in Mexico so starting to date isn’t easy… but hey ? there’s a start for everything !! I’m a cool mofo but don’t get it effed up either . I will cuss yo a** out if I have to! please be gentle with me like a bomb not like a flower. I don’t tolerate disrespect as nobody should but hey some won’t say nothing but I will, JADA! ?
Female (30) San Diego, California
Sex and kink positive, lifestyle domme, LGBTQ+ ally, demi-sexual, mental health advocate, vaccinated, puts away her shopping cart. Don't use honorifics on your intro message. I'm testing the water right now, not looking for anything serious. Looking for people to talk to and go out on casual dates, hookups are not the goal but they may happen. Definitely not looking for FWB. Likes cartoons/anime, comics, video games (mostly cozy games), spooky things (bones, bats, and gothy things), animals (send me your cat and dog pics), and food!
Female (30) San Diego, California
Looking to further explore the kink/bdsm world in a casual, fun way (currently in an open relationship). Would prefer to get to know each other a little first via lunch, drinks, coffee, etc.
Female (26) San Diego, California
Looking for Daddy/pleasure doms who can treat me like a princess fuck doll. 100%% submissive/pillow princess! Looking for someone to take control.
Female (25) San Diego, California

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