Find kinky women in Durham

Hello, I am Mistress Eva. I am a blonde BBW goddess who loves to be served and pleased. I have been in the lifestyle for over Twenty years. I am currently seeking to find an attractive local personal sub. I am located in Durham, North Carolina in the US. (Not UK.) I am seeking a masculine male, but I am also very interested in finding a bi-sexual female sub as well. I prefer ladies I hope to find someone special for a long-term relationship. I am also excited about making new kinky friends. These traits I seek in my submissives. - Very Submissive - Healthy physically, mentally, and spiritually. - No STDS. - Share similar BDSM/ Fetish interests. - Single, divorced, or widowed. - Trustworthy. - Well-groomed. - Intelligent with common sense. - A good communicator. - Understand their needs and limits. - Attentive to my needs and wants. - Loyal and devoted. - Has ample time to serve me. - Financially stable. - Generous and love spoiling their Queen. - Has Transportation. - Skilled in cooking and cleaning. - Has vanilla hobbies and interests. - Likes cats. I have two. - Enjoys action, Sci-fi, and horror movies. - Loves Sushi! It's not a requirement, but it helps your odds! Send me a detailed introduction if you feel we would make a great match.
Female (43) Durham, North Carolina
Read my profile you cinnamon muffins —— Your friendly neighborhood raccoon 5’2/98lbs/Brat/sub Androgynous emo folks own my soul
Female (19) Durham, North Carolina
If you aren’t local to me (within 100mi), sorry, but I am not interested. I am also not interested if you are over five years younger than me or 10 years older than me. I won’t reply. . . Alt nerd that loves Ren Faires, rainy days, animals, music, and random acts of kindness. Hanging out with me is like hanging out with a partially socialized honey badger. Chaotic Neutral. Bit of a brat . . Just out of a 14 year relationship so I’m not looking for anything serious. Keep it casual. Looking for a friend first that can hold a conversation and pique my interest. I am Demi, nothing’s happening without a connection. . .
Female (32) Durham, North Carolina
I’m a big white lady, 54 who is looking for her dominant man. I’m looking for long term not a hook up. I also don’t play til I build trust with someone. if you are not at least 43 years or older I’m not for you. I’m not going to submit to anyone younger than that I’m sorry that’s a hard pass. I’m not a switch either I don’t like dominating. I’m single, no kids. I like spanking, flogging, bondage. I also like daddy play as well as primal play or rough sex. I would like to try “free use” days or weekends with my person only. I’m not a 24/7 submissive. I’m way too independent for that, maybe a designated amount of time. There is more I’d like to experience, just asked me about it.
Female (54) Durham, North Carolina
Not currently taking applications from men, I don't have the patience or the time. Curvy and flirty. Tiktok filters have let me know that my eyes are more gray than green. Tattooed. Definitely planning to get more tattoos. Pagan, and very liberal. Politics are personal, and I will not be with conservatives. Period. Not a sub. Not a little. Not interested in being dominated. Not interested in someone 10 + years younger/older than me. That means you must be at least 36 but under 56 to ride this ride. Would prefer someone within 50 miles of me. Please don't start the convo with sex or kink. At the very bare minimum say hello first. My blocking thumb is ever at the ready. My biggest kink is people that read. (Audiobooks are reading) **Cis males are on my nerves. Not accepting applications from them currently. If this offends you, it's about you. Have the day you deserve.**
Female (47) Durham, North Carolina
Short and simple....I am looking for meaningful connections/relationships while having a good time with you, whether that ends up being short or long term.
Female (35) Durham, North Carolina
Looking for kinky dates to explore things I’ve never been comfortable asking for before. I love CNC role play, gentle nipple play and nipple orgasms, and creaming all over the place. DMs open here to locals only but you can also watch/message me on OF @LolaBunny24.7 (open access)
Female (36) Durham, North Carolina
Y'all, I'm going to be honest. I like tall, dark men. I appreciate the others reaching out but it's just not for me, and yes I'm sure, yes I've tried.
Female (37) Durham, North Carolina
Imagine a home that feels loving and peaceful. Maybe I'm baking cookies. Maybe it's Christmas time. I'm looking for all those warm & fuzzies. :) But here's the hard part - I'm polyamorous. My ideal situation would be to have a primary partner, someone I can build a life with. Then, the freedom to build a meaningful relationship with a second person if I desired & we agreed. Tough ask huh? This is the best way to create meaningful connections for myself. If you understand and accept this idea, I’d be delighted to meet you. ? If not, no message necessary. I know this is not for everyone. Ohhhhh, and I have a fetish for muscles. ?? Lindsay.821982
Female (41) Durham, North Carolina

New members in Durham

Hello, I am Mistress Eva. I am a blonde BBW goddess who loves to be served and pleased. I have been in the lifestyle for over Twenty years. I am currently seeking to find an attractive local personal sub. I am located in Durham, North Carolina in the US. (Not UK.) I am seeking a masculine male, but I am also very interested in finding a bi-sexual female sub as well. I prefer ladies I hope to find someone special for a long-term relationship. I am also excited about making new kinky friends. These traits I seek in my submissives. - Very Submissive - Healthy physically, mentally, and spiritually. - No STDS. - Share similar BDSM/ Fetish interests. - Single, divorced, or widowed. - Trustworthy. - Well-groomed. - Intelligent with common sense. - A good communicator. - Understand their needs and limits. - Attentive to my needs and wants. - Loyal and devoted. - Has ample time to serve me. - Financially stable. - Generous and love spoiling their Queen. - Has Transportation. - Skilled in cooking and cleaning. - Has vanilla hobbies and interests. - Likes cats. I have two. - Enjoys action, Sci-fi, and horror movies. - Loves Sushi! It's not a requirement, but it helps your odds! Send me a detailed introduction if you feel we would make a great match.
Female (43) Durham, North Carolina
If you aren’t local to me (within 100mi), sorry, but I am not interested. I am also not interested if you are over five years younger than me or 10 years older than me. I won’t reply. . . Alt nerd that loves Ren Faires, rainy days, animals, music, and random acts of kindness. Hanging out with me is like hanging out with a partially socialized honey badger. Chaotic Neutral. Bit of a brat . . Just out of a 14 year relationship so I’m not looking for anything serious. Keep it casual. Looking for a friend first that can hold a conversation and pique my interest. I am Demi, nothing’s happening without a connection. . .
Female (32) Durham, North Carolina
Short and simple....I am looking for meaningful connections/relationships while having a good time with you, whether that ends up being short or long term.
Female (35) Durham, North Carolina
I’m a big white lady, 54 who is looking for her dominant man. I’m looking for long term not a hook up. I also don’t play til I build trust with someone. if you are not at least 43 years or older I’m not for you. I’m not going to submit to anyone younger than that I’m sorry that’s a hard pass. I’m not a switch either I don’t like dominating. I’m single, no kids. I like spanking, flogging, bondage. I also like daddy play as well as primal play or rough sex. I would like to try “free use” days or weekends with my person only. I’m not a 24/7 submissive. I’m way too independent for that, maybe a designated amount of time. There is more I’d like to experience, just asked me about it.
Female (54) Durham, North Carolina
Y'all, I'm going to be honest. I like tall, dark men. I appreciate the others reaching out but it's just not for me, and yes I'm sure, yes I've tried.
Female (37) Durham, North Carolina
Looking for kinky dates to explore things I’ve never been comfortable asking for before. I love CNC role play, gentle nipple play and nipple orgasms, and creaming all over the place. DMs open here to locals only but you can also watch/message me on OF @LolaBunny24.7 (open access)
Female (36) Durham, North Carolina
Imagine a home that feels loving and peaceful. Maybe I'm baking cookies. Maybe it's Christmas time. I'm looking for all those warm & fuzzies. :) But here's the hard part - I'm polyamorous. My ideal situation would be to have a primary partner, someone I can build a life with. Then, the freedom to build a meaningful relationship with a second person if I desired & we agreed. Tough ask huh? This is the best way to create meaningful connections for myself. If you understand and accept this idea, I’d be delighted to meet you. ? If not, no message necessary. I know this is not for everyone. Ohhhhh, and I have a fetish for muscles. ?? Lindsay.821982
Female (41) Durham, North Carolina
Read my profile you cinnamon muffins —— Your friendly neighborhood raccoon 5’2/98lbs/Brat/sub Androgynous emo folks own my soul
Female (19) Durham, North Carolina
Not currently taking applications from men, I don't have the patience or the time. Curvy and flirty. Tiktok filters have let me know that my eyes are more gray than green. Tattooed. Definitely planning to get more tattoos. Pagan, and very liberal. Politics are personal, and I will not be with conservatives. Period. Not a sub. Not a little. Not interested in being dominated. Not interested in someone 10 + years younger/older than me. That means you must be at least 36 but under 56 to ride this ride. Would prefer someone within 50 miles of me. Please don't start the convo with sex or kink. At the very bare minimum say hello first. My blocking thumb is ever at the ready. My biggest kink is people that read. (Audiobooks are reading) **Cis males are on my nerves. Not accepting applications from them currently. If this offends you, it's about you. Have the day you deserve.**
Female (47) Durham, North Carolina

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