Looking for a dom age 32-45 to pursue a relationship with. Please do not message me if you are under 30. I have experience in BDSM, but this is the first time I'm pursuing a long-term relationship of this manner. I'm not looking for a long-term relationship exclusively, but ultimately that is something I hope to find with the right person down the line. There's no rush, however.
I'm recently getting out of a 10 year relationship and realizing that I need more kink in my life than I was having prior. I've been split from my ex since January, however we still live together while he looks for a new job. I hope to be fully moved out within 4 months.
Aside from that fiasco, my life is about my dogs, friends, and my work in carpentry. I'm really excited to get into a BDSM relationship-- I enjoy being degraded and humiliated, talked down to, yelled at, spanked, chased, etc. Down for being forced to have sex in front of or with others, within respect of my hard "no"s, but those are pretty few. I am looking for a man who's ideally both a dom and a feminist (but let's keep that for real life and not for the bedroom, lol). Someone who wants to degrade me but can also be respectful of women as a whole. Must be pro-choice!
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Sex aside, I'm a pretty easy-going and open person. I love to laugh and to blush, and enjoy being with someone who gives me crap. Im pretty much an open book, but I love being with someone who can continue to push me and pull out all of my truths. There's something hot about that to me.
I'm very nonjudgmental and straightforward about who I am and what I want in life, and I'm accepting of all sorts of people from different backgrounds. One of the most beautiful things in life is getting to know and love different people, in my opinion. I love feeling my horizons expand by meeting new and different individuals, and I love being challenged with new thoughts and perspectives.
For fun, I love getting outside for hikes or gardening or really anything, and I like frequent visits to city downtown areas to walk around and get some secondhand people exposure. I love grabbing a coffee and people-watching or catching up with a friend. I'm a very dedicated friend and partner, and will be there for those I love in all ways. I love to take my dog on hikes or walks around the city, and enjoy going to all sorts of events and activities. I'm a very artsy person, and want a whole lot more tattoos than the two I have. I'm always down for any sort of activity that friends or partners organize, and I tend to organize a lot of my own events/activities, especially around the holidays. I believe strongly in community and participate in things like Habitat for Humanity. I am not close with my immediate family at all (for complicated reasons, but I've tried without success to form closer relationships with them), and thus seek out family in others/my community.
Please note that I have Type I Diabetes and wear a medical device (Dexcom-- google it if you're curious). I have no reservations about having TID, but if you have an issue with it, don't waste my time.