About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- LTR (relationship)
- BDSM Lovers
Description
I am a 57 yr old single Daddy Dom with 24 years of experience, very loving,caring, passionate and protective.
FetLife - DJWolfDaddy
As a loving Daddy, I am seriously looking for the right submissive who has a want and desire to have either a friends with benefits connection or full-time relationship as my baby girl.
MUST BE LOCAL TO IOWA AND BE 30 TO 50
Must Be Financially & Emotionally Stable
No ***, No Smoking, No Alcohol
Must Be DDF,Clean, Respectful
FOR ME It Is ALL Or Nothing!
if I show sincere interest it means that I am sincerely interested and wanting to get to know more about you as a person.
What l ask for is open daily communication, it takes time it takes devotion it takes trust in order to build a solid connection and bond.
That is why I asked for regular daily communication. if you cannot do that do not expect me to want anything to do with you!
I am open to being friends with benefits on a regular basis but what I want is a full-time Daddy/babygirl relationship.
You must be local here to Iowa and be 30 to 50 years old.
Limits
bad attitudes, ghosting, , , long distance relationships , ***, alcohol,
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- 24/7
- Anal Sex
- Anonymous Sex
- BDSM
- BDSM Collar
- Bondage Stocks
- Bondage
- Bondage Bed
- Bondage Cuffs
- Bondage Rope
- Chains
- Cuddling
- Cunnilingus
- Dildos
- Dirty Talk
- Domination
- Threesomes
- Violet Wand
- Erotic Film
- Restraints
- FFM Threesome
- Fingering
- Fisting
- Foreplay
- Handjobs
- Kinky Sex
- Kissing
- Massage
- Masturbation
- Multiple Orgasms
- Mutual Masturbation
- Nipple Clamps
- Oral Sex
- Pee Desperation
- Phone Sex
- Plus-Size Women
- Polyamory
- Porn
- Adult Movie Theater
- Quickies
- Shaving Fetish
- Sex at Work
- Car Sex
- Outdoor Sex
- Sex at the Movies
- Swimming Pool Sex
- Sex In Bed
- Shower Sex
- Sauna Sex
- Younger Sex Partners
- Spanking
- Trans Man
- Trans Woman
- Vibrators
- Wax Play
- Wand Massager
- Whips
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FetLife - DJWolfDaddy
As a loving Daddy, I am seriously looking for the right submissive who has a want and desire to have either a friends with benefits connection or full-time Read more… relationship as my baby girl.
MUST BE LOCAL TO IOWA AND BE 30 TO 50
Must Be Financially & Emotionally Stable
No ***, No Smoking, No Alcohol
Must Be DDF,Clean, Respectful
FOR ME It Is ALL Or Nothing!
if I show sincere interest it means that I am sincerely interested and wanting to get to know more about you as a person.
What l ask for is open daily communication, it takes time it takes devotion it takes trust in order to build a solid connection and bond.
That is why I asked for regular daily communication. if you cannot do that do not expect me to want anything to do with you!
I am open to being friends with benefits on a regular basis but what I want is a full-time Daddy/babygirl relationship.
You must be local here to Iowa and be 30 to 50 years old.
I just want to say that I do understand where you're coming from there should always be more to liking someone liking who they are liking their personality wanting to be with them for every day activities and be there at home to have someone to come home to.
Being intimate with the one that you Read more… desire and crave to be with is to be looked at as something special with love emotions desire want in a lot more.
If you need someone to talk to to open up to and know that what we talk about stays between us as a sign of trust and something good.
For me daily and regular messages, phone calls, text messages, sending Read more…pictures and videos are all important in getting to know one another and when that communication breaks down from either side means that you have failed to show that you are truly interested in forming our connection and bond.
I am one who needs to have regular daily communication to know what is happening and when the other person just playing stops talking communicating whatever to me it is disrespectful and it also shows me that you are not a real person or sincere. Back when I first started out in this way of life respect and showing respect to each other was very important but nowadays it seems to get thrown out the window and that is unacceptable to me.
I'm also 57 going on 58 at the end of this month and I have no time for game players people who cannot be honest about who and what they want. I know exactly what I want and I will not settle for anything less.
So again it is my humble opinion that communication is absolutely required on a regular basis in order to form the connection and bond between each other.
Online comms is difficult. There's no tone, no body language, so on. There's also a big issue in often expecting someone to be always available, which can take it's toll.
Obviously it sucks when someone does just Read more… stop replying - though - there was a guy on here who later found someone who 'ghosted' him had actually died - and in some cases folk are just busy (can that be communicated "hey, I won't be about for a few days" - yes - but if a close family member was rushed to hospital or any other emergency then logging on to tell someone I won't be about a bit isn't a priority, if they can't wait a few days, then...) and in a lot of cases, where was the conversation left - what was the last unread message? Was it a question? Was it conversational? Was it yet another "how are you", "how was your day", are they actually just bored... and as we found in another thread, telling men they're boring hurts their feelings.
I guess the other issue is that we often trick ourselves there is a connection or bond that the other person just isn't also feeling. There wasn't one, we just loved the idea. And like, if there isn't a connection or bond then at some point one person has to be the one that goes "this isn't working" -- and, like, if non-response is something you'd find disrespectful, they weren't the one for you anyway so you dodged a bullet.
You can’t set safe boundaries and bring fantasies to life without proper communication.
Also, effort can be small. If it takes someone an extensive amount of time to reply. Then I just assume disinterest. When you want something you apply effort to it. I am wanting to get back into the life style and I have also noticed that it’s a bit different now. At least when it comes to communication standards.
You can’t set safe boundaries and bring fantasies to life without proper communication.
Also, effort can be small. If it takes someone an extensive amount of time to reply. Then I just assume disinterest. When you want something you apply effort to it.
I do prefer my girl to be shaved and I love doing the shaving it is a special intimate time between myself and my girl
I have yes and will continue to do so especially those who don't even bother putting up a profile or picture
But you only speak of the respect you think women aren't showing men. In fact I see a lot of outrage on this thread from men towards "disrespectful women". And little censure towards the men who send the rude, crude messages to women.
I clearly stated mutual respect between each other were my exact Read more… words. Yes there are idiots out there who treat women with disrespect and they treat them like a piece of meat instead of a person those are the ones who need to be removed from every single damn platform there is.
And I know that they are the ones who are continually flooding people's inboxes with stupid comments. Every single one of them needs to be reported to be removed from this platform but there are those of us who do treat women with respect and send sincere interest messages that go either ignored or they do respond but then later on ghost you that is called disrespect
I said mutual respect between each other is my exact words
And I will pose this question what happened to the days of showing mutual respect to each other in this way of life? What change to make people want to disregard showing mutual respect to one another?
And I believe that I had made my point clear when it is an issue of already having a good conversation happening but then the other person stops responding for days weeks even months that to me is ghosting that to me is being disrespectful without telling the other person what's happening and being Read more… respectful doing so that leaves a bad mark on that other person that is what I deal with.
And that is also what leads up to me blocking people because of being disrespected and sometimes I will even report people for being fake or being scammers
Stuart 84 being respectful and being kind to someone goes a long way because as I said before and I believe that I've been in this lifestyle a lot longer that it does show positively towards yourself when you can show respect and just be kind enough to say yes or no and then move on.
The thing about this post is that when you have started a good conversation with someone and it's going well but then all of a sudden that other person goes silent and decides to not respond at all or ghost. That is what I call disrespectful when you don't communicate what's going on to let the Read more… other person know one way or another if you are wanting to continue the conversation or not. When I first came into the Kink community back 20 plus years ago respect was a big thing and was expected on both ends but now it seems like respect has been tossed out the window. At least when I show genuine interest in wanting to get to know someone and not playing games and being shown disrespect because of it that is not tolerated by me whatsoever and should not be tolerated by anyone
Ghosting someone is totally disrespectful and you should not even be on this site if you're going to go with people
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