About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Networking
Description
ftm ocassional enjoyer of men's tits. not a woman and t4t only so fuck off and don't contact me if you're looking for "females"
Desires and Fantasies
you get these only if I really like you because outside of men's tits they're ultra specific and not morally wrong but weird
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- Androgyny
- Bisexual
- Bizarre Fetish
- Breast Fetish
- Breast Play
- Butts
- Crossdresser
- Cuddling
- Plus-Size Men
- Dildos
- Double Penetration
- Erotic Wrestling
- Gas Masks
- Goth
- Body Hair
- Muscle Worship
- Mutual Masturbation
- Nipple Play
- Non-Binary
- Quickies
- Sex In Bed
- Older Sex Partners
- Sex Doll
- Strap-on
- Stocking Fetish
- Testicles
- Trans Man
- Trans Woman
- Uncircumcised Penis
Wanna know what interests me?:
- Anal Beads
- Bondage
- Coulrophilia
- Lingerie Fetish
- Spandex Fetish
- Face Slapping
- Facesitting
- Fisting
- Free love
- Frottage
- Group Sex
- Rubber Fetish
- Rough Sex
- High Heel Fetish
- Costumes
- Masks
- Needles
- Nylon Fetish
- Spanking Paddles
- Pinching
- Polyamory
- Prostate Milking
- Puppy Play
- Sissification
- Vampire Gloves
- Wax Play
- Whips
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ftm ocassional enjoyer of men's tits. not a woman and t4t only so fuck off and don't contact me if you're looking for "females"
Desires and Fantasies
you get these only if I really like you because outside of men's tits they're ultra specific and not morally wrong but weird
Desires and Fantasies
you get these only if I really like you because outside of men's tits they're ultra specific and not morally wrong but weird
Question: any trans people t4t also into kink (not asking to date anyone)
Repost because my question got removed for being a personal ad when I was just asking if anyone here related to the issue of not being able to easily find other trans people in kink spaces without bumping elbows with chasers
LikeKymi, messieranddressier, grenoble988and 4 more… · 18 Replies
Nocturne ➦Nocturne quote RainFairy:❝Yeeesss, the trans population is already pretty low so finding people in the kink community that are also trans makes sense. The fact that being trans on its own is a fetish can cause issues as well.❞
Personally, an overlap between people who are trans (or LGBT+ in Read more… general) and those who practice BDSM would make sense, considering that having one of those identities can already paint you as a deviant in society, to varying degrees, making it less 'risky' to show further 'deviancy' towards the strict norms in society.
Given society already rejects me for being trans/gay, I am in a way 'losing less' social credit by also being a kinkster on top of that, many people who are uneducated will not see the difference between just being transgender and having a fetish, related or otherwise.
In that way, I don't receive much more rejection in comparison to the rejection I already receive by virtue of being trans, so to me, based on myself and those around me, it is logical that there might be a larger percentage of trans/otherwise LGBT+ individuals in the kink community in comparison to all of our society in general.
Personally, an overlap between people who are trans (or LGBT+ in Read more… general) and those who practice BDSM would make sense, considering that having one of those identities can already paint you as a deviant in society, to varying degrees, making it less 'risky' to show further 'deviancy' towards the strict norms in society.
Given society already rejects me for being trans/gay, I am in a way 'losing less' social credit by also being a kinkster on top of that, many people who are uneducated will not see the difference between just being transgender and having a fetish, related or otherwise.
In that way, I don't receive much more rejection in comparison to the rejection I already receive by virtue of being trans, so to me, based on myself and those around me, it is logical that there might be a larger percentage of trans/otherwise LGBT+ individuals in the kink community in comparison to all of our society in general.
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· 17.10.2023 21:50:01
RainFairy Yeeesss, the trans population is already pretty low so finding people in the kink community that are also trans makes sense. The fact that being trans on its own is a fetish can cause issues as well. Yeeesss, the trans population is already pretty low so finding people in the kink community that are also trans makes sense. The fact that being trans on its own is a fetish can cause issues as well.
LikeCallmelittle1
· 17.10.2023 3:02:33
Deleted profile I'm trans and looking for regular fun and friends I'm trans and looking for regular fun and friends
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03.09.2023 13:37:54
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Best tips for verbal domming?
I'm usually very mild mannered, what I say in my head is pretty raunchy or assertive but it's hard for me to bring that outwards Because I'm never sure where the boundary lies.
I've participated CNC type things in personal fantasy both as the reciever and the giver and I've participated as Read more…degrader and degradee in personal fantady as well.
What I say in my head during these noments can get intense and I know not everyone is into that.
I had a client today who wanted a video of me degrading them for being into my feet, I did ok but I wanna do better and I'm not really sure of where exactly to draw the line when I'm dishing it out because the farthest I've gone was cursing calling them a pig or calling them disgusting, I was a little scared of pushing the boundary if I got too involved because they're not just a paying customer but a comeplete stranger who likely doesn't think like I do or could even at worst be made uncomfortable by my content.
I've participated CNC type things in personal fantasy both as the reciever and the giver and I've participated as Read more…degrader and degradee in personal fantady as well.
What I say in my head during these noments can get intense and I know not everyone is into that.
I had a client today who wanted a video of me degrading them for being into my feet, I did ok but I wanna do better and I'm not really sure of where exactly to draw the line when I'm dishing it out because the farthest I've gone was cursing calling them a pig or calling them disgusting, I was a little scared of pushing the boundary if I got too involved because they're not just a paying customer but a comeplete stranger who likely doesn't think like I do or could even at worst be made uncomfortable by my content.
gemini_man ➦gemini_man quote ThikitalianNYC:❝Well if they are asking for it and they are paying strangers I wouldn’t hold back you have to do somethjng that seperstes yourself from everybody else ❞
Sorry, but just because they are paying strangers doesn't mean they don't have limits and boundaries - so it's not simply a case of not holding back.
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The *only* way to approach it is to discuss with them up front what their limits/boundaries are to truly understand how far to take it. ➦gemini_man quote ThikitalianNYC:❝Well if they are asking for it and they are paying strangers I wouldn’t hold back you have to do somethjng that seperstes yourself from everybody else ❞
Sorry, but just because they are paying strangers doesn't mean they don't have limits and boundaries - so it's not simply a case of not holding back.
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The *only* way to approach it is to discuss with them up front what their limits/boundaries are to truly understand how far to take it.
Sorry, but just because they are paying strangers doesn't mean they don't have limits and boundaries - so it's not simply a case of not holding back.
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The *only* way to approach it is to discuss with them up front what their limits/boundaries are to truly understand how far to take it. ➦gemini_man quote ThikitalianNYC:❝Well if they are asking for it and they are paying strangers I wouldn’t hold back you have to do somethjng that seperstes yourself from everybody else ❞
Sorry, but just because they are paying strangers doesn't mean they don't have limits and boundaries - so it's not simply a case of not holding back.
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The *only* way to approach it is to discuss with them up front what their limits/boundaries are to truly understand how far to take it.
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· 13.04.2022 7:03:04
ThikitalianNYC Well if they are asking for it and they are paying strangers I wouldn’t hold back you have to do somethjng that seperstes yourself from everybody else Well if they are asking for it and they are paying strangers I wouldn’t hold back you have to do somethjng that seperstes yourself from everybody else
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· 13.04.2022 6:50:04
ThikitalianNYC Well if they are asking for it and they are paying strangers I wouldn’t hold back Well if they are asking for it and they are paying strangers I wouldn’t hold back
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· 13.04.2022 6:49:51
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Best way to get into niche stuff?
@eyemblacksheep you think it would be ok to contact them through twitter
Best way to get into niche stuff?
I'm a ftm transgender man, I have boobs that hrt use has lessened the pain of and I'm gonna be as blunt as possible I'm willing to use them to not be broke and potentially pay my way into top surgery, I've found a few nice reddit communities for gynecomastia fetish but I'd like to find other sources of growing a consumer base on twitter so I can make more sustainable income with an OF. Any ideas of how to find what I'm looking for or tips on getting into sexwork?
eyemblacksheep they're both on there so can't do any harm they're both on there so can't do any harm
Likedoug
· 10.04.2022 21:56:53
doug @eyemblacksheep you think it would be ok to contact them through twitter @eyemblacksheep you think it would be ok to contact them through twitter
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· 10.04.2022 21:56:06
eyemblacksheep The best advice would be to seek out others who have done the same. People like Calyx Bielke or Mx Dagger. Even if you can't talk with them to find out what has worked and what hasn't, you can follow them to see what they are doing or have done to see if it works for you.
Building Twitter Read more… followers is often a slow and organic process which hinges a lot also on who you interactive with, while also remembering that Twitter is great and that but not the only form of traffic and promo to consider.
Sex Work in general is work. We see the headline figures of those who (seemingly) make a lot for (seemingly) doing very little but these are exceptions to the norm. There's a lot of long days, boundary pushers, arseholes, stigma - and then, to top it all off, the % you lose in commissions and of course tax self declaration (the ever increasing question of whether it's better to pay an accountant or not)
In general, networking with other sex workers for advice is better than asking civvies - joining a sex work collective (of which there are many) is often a good start.
Building Twitter Read more… followers is often a slow and organic process which hinges a lot also on who you interactive with, while also remembering that Twitter is great and that but not the only form of traffic and promo to consider.
Sex Work in general is work. We see the headline figures of those who (seemingly) make a lot for (seemingly) doing very little but these are exceptions to the norm. There's a lot of long days, boundary pushers, arseholes, stigma - and then, to top it all off, the % you lose in commissions and of course tax self declaration (the ever increasing question of whether it's better to pay an accountant or not)
In general, networking with other sex workers for advice is better than asking civvies - joining a sex work collective (of which there are many) is often a good start.
Likedoug
· 10.04.2022 18:12:27
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ftm ocassional enjoyer of men's tits