What am I looking for? Honestly, whatever is to be found. I'm pretty sure that I am into BDSM to some degree, likely as a switch, but I haven't found anyone to express or experiment with these desires. I'm single, so if you are looking for something long term I am certainly not opposed to that. I don't want to put pictures on here, so I'll just describe myself. I'm 5'8", white, pale and scrawny (about 140 lbs i think). I've got pale blue eyes and darkish brownish hair, glasses with a trimmed beard that has red in it.