Because it may risk the relationship, in some cases. I give you 2 scenarious out of my head.
1. Lets say you have a fetish, where you know your partner doesnt like/is most likely not to like, why would you introduce that?
2. Lets say you have a fetish, who may even your partner like, but the fetish Read more… is hurtful to the relationship in generell. Why would you introduce it?
There is no point in risking a great relationship, if there is a 95% fail rate and a 5% Success rate.
Most of the time its fine to introduce it tho.
Do Men have 5 women at the same time? Only the top % maybe. Those usually get/have most women.
The vast majority, especially the more sub men struggle with women i'd say, because there are very few dominant women while there are many sub men.
STD are always a topic, however i think its overrated. Read more… Be smart and careful, but dont let *** dictate your actions :)