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Veteran pervert, writer of erotica, top/dominant, fond of rope, impact play and experimentation.

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MadameZ
icon-wio MadameZ wrote something in the forum
  • 31.05.2018 11:52:44
  • Female (59)
  • London
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MUSIC makes me want to get KINKY.

Some excellent suggestions here. I'd add a bit of Patti Smith and Kate Bush to the mix.

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MadameZ
icon-wio MadameZ wrote something in the forum
  • 25.05.2018 13:21:29
  • Female (59)
  • London
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Kink Positivity Vs Kink Shaming

Good piece. The one thing we can all say about 50 Shades is that the huge amount of attention those books got has made it a lot easier to discuss kink without people freaking out and calling the police.

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  • 18.05.2018 17:13:23
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  • London
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  • 22.03.2018 19:01:47
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  • 05.02.2018 16:44:14
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  • 10.11.2017 0:39:37
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MadameZ
icon-wio MadameZ wrote something in the forum
  • 28.09.2017 3:19:04
  • Female (59)
  • London
  • Single
BDSM dating and play safety.

Particularly important advice if you are, or identify as, female/submissive. Make friends with other female submissives. DO NOT listen to the creepy man dom who offers to be your 'protector' when you haven't asked for one.
Most of the people you will meet are actually OK. They may not all be your Read more… perfect partner, but most of them don't mean you any harm. Inexperienced people are better off playing in clubs while they build their confidence and get some idea of what they actually do and do not like, because safety in numbers.

MadameZ
icon-wio MadameZ created a topic in Leather, Latex & Other Fetish Clothing
  • 25.09.2017 11:49:12
  • London
Vacbeds
Who else likes vac beds?
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BobbiDD
BobbiDD Would love to try one of these it sounds fun
Would love to try one of these it sounds fun
Like · 21.01.2019 12:49:42
eyemblacksheep
eyemblacksheep I've been in one once. I wouldn't rule it out again - particularly as there are other activities within it I'd be interested to try. But, not a desperate rush.
The time I was in one, there were just two holes - one for mouth/air - one for dick.
So, I was incased in darkness for 2 hours. It was Read more… fairly intense and gave ride for some fairly vivid thoughts (probably replacing the darkness.)
anyway - the dick hole was for edging. I was strapped into a venus 2000 and edged. The rules were fairly simple - that I was to be edged for 2 hours. If I made it through the time without cumming - big orgasm at the end - if I failed, I'd have my orgasm ruined and then milked for the remaining time.
I failed on the 80 minute mark......
Like · 07.11.2018 8:02:40
Rm123
Rm123 Aw I've been dying to try one of these! Think the dungeon in Glasgow has one but I've not saved the money to go yet Aw I've been dying to try one of these! Think the dungeon in Glasgow has one but I've not saved the money to go yet
Like · 07.11.2018 2:34:01
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MadameZ
icon-wio MadameZ wrote something in the forum
  • 25.09.2017 10:22:19
  • Female (59)
  • London
  • Single
Choice of partner.

I'm not into relationships so I just look for people who will be fun to play with.

MadameZ
icon-wio MadameZ wrote something in the forum
  • 19.09.2017 10:36:36
  • Female (59)
  • London
  • Single
HELP, please. New and scared.

I'm in the UK, hopefully some US members will be able to help with details of events etc that are good for newcomers and not too demanding.
Books are actually quite useful, but they are not everything. Another key thing to remember is that there is more to kink than the DS aspect, and plenty of Read more… people like to have fun, try stuff out etc but have no interest in 'lifstyle' stuff. When you're new, it's usually best to play around and try things - and generally, anyone who wants to go straight into a DS relationship with you is likely to be a creep or a loser and best avoided. Most people who do that sort of thing successfully and enjoyably are aware that a) it takes time to get comfortable with someone and b) it's a GAME. It's not real. You can back off and walk away at any time.

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MadameZ
icon-wio MadameZ wrote something in the forum
  • 18.09.2017 18:02:35
  • Female (59)
  • London
  • Single
HELP, please. New and scared.

There are any amount of dickheads online. It's a good idea to explore things safely in real life by going to something like a fetish fair or market (some people recommend munches but they are...variable in quality and usefulness).
I don't know where you are (no need to tell me obvs) but if you are Read more… in London/Bristol/Biringham or can easily get to any of those places, there are monthly markets that are a really, really good low-pressure way to make friends and learn stuff.
And take this thought with you for future reference - it's ABSOLUTELY FINE to tell someone to fuck off and leave you alone, or to end a relationship, no matter how subby you feel and how dommy they claim to be. Kink is a GAME that is supposed to be enjoyable. If you're not enjoying yourself, you don't have to keep doing whatever you are doing. Anyone who starts talking about contracts and collars on the first date is either a laughable loser or a nasty bit of work.

MadameZ
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  • 18.09.2017 17:58:03
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MadameZ
icon-wio MadameZ wrote something in the forum
  • 03.09.2017 1:08:18
  • Female (59)
  • London
  • Single
Advice needed

What I would actually say is: Tops have limits too. if you find the idea of doing this particular thing upsetting, it oesn't make you a bad person or a bad partner if you say you don't wwant to do it. Remember kink is supposed to be enjoyable (or rewarding) for everyone.

MadameZ
icon-wio MadameZ wrote something in the forum
  • 22.08.2017 0:34:44
  • Female (59)
  • London
  • Single
I'm new to this please help

Some people are really not into kin, while others really are. So, though you might feel a bit sad about having split up with your last partner, it was probably the best thing to do, because you would have ended up making each other unhappy.,
When it comes to exploring your kinky side, the first Read more… lesson is: don't bellieve everything you read online. You may well get given some TERRIB|LE advice as well as some useful information. The best advice I can give you (after nearly 30 years on the kink scene) is: There is no 'right way' to be kinky. Find what you like, don't feel you have to do anything that you don't like, and remember you can say no to anyone or anything, at any time.
If you are near somewhere that holds fetish markets or fairs (like the BBB or the LAM) these are a good place to start. Some people will recommend you go to your nearest munch, and you might want to try that (I loathe munches, and some other people find them either tedious or unfriendly). What you want, as a beginner, if to make friends. If you are or identify as female/submissive, you need sub female friends. They will give you much better support/advice than creepy dominant men who slime up and offer to be your 'protector.'
Always remember, kink is supposed to be FUN. If you're not enjoying something, there's no reason to do it. Good luck.

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MadameZ
icon-wio MadameZ wrote something in the forum
  • 10.08.2017 18:37:06
  • Female (59)
  • London
  • Single
Safety with rope

I would add: Start slowly unless you a) know very well what you are doing and b) know the other person very well. And if you're new to rigging, go to groups and events and get people to show you what to do_ tying is a tehcnical skill that (beyond the absoltue basics) needs to be learned.

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