I love when she pins my arms by my side with her legs when she queens me. I love when she is rough with me when I give her oral sex and I struggle to breathe. It is super hot when I can feel her foot or leg pressing on my back during oral.

Being used as her footstool.

It's not a fetish for me, but definitely think upskirt pics are super hot. Love it when girls post videos of themself in public wearing a skirt and giving a quick flash of their panties.

Perhaps take a mindset that you exist to please the dom. So while he/she may be indulging in your sub desires, you partner is getting pleasure out of it also, or maybe there is something you can do for you partner as a form of appreciation for domming you.

This approach I took was to just start doing things for her that she likes. My wife loves pampering so I started offering to give her massages and baths. After a few weeks of this I talked to her about wanting to serve her and explained how it would benefit her. I also gave her a book about FLR to Read more… read. That was 20+ years ago and we are still in a FLR . I took it very slow in the beginning to allow he to learn and enjoy the experience. I think too many guys rush to all he kink and hardcore stuff, which often turns off women

I absolutely love erotic hypnosis. It’s a total mind fuck if you find the right hypnodomme. I’d be afraid to meet one in person because there’s no telling what I would do under her hypno power.

Yes, I think that is a good punishment. Wearing a plug makes me feel very submissive, so I think that would help with the ego. Also, it becomes a bit of a nussiance to wear over a prolonged period. A week may be a bit much if he is never worn a plug before. One or two days may be sufficient. Read more… Taking it in and out is a bit annoying so if you really want to punishment, make him take it out and put it in a few times a day.
As far as size goes, I would just start with the smallest one. They do sell training sets with various sizes that he can work up to. I will say the largest size in the set is tough. I've never been able to do it without it hurting. However, overtime I switched from the the silicon plugs to glass ones. The glass are more firmer and harder to take, but for me were a way to step it up without going to a large size.

I agree with others that Queening/face sitting is a great dominate/submissive dynamic. I love when my wife Queen's me. A few times she has bound me with wrist & thigh cuffs and then Queened me. Being *** beneath her while she rides my face is amazing! I also feel super submissive when I am Read more… between her legs and feel her heel on my back, pressing me into her or when she uses her hands to push my head tight against her. Occasionally after she has an orgasm when I am giving her oral, she will squeeze her thighs around my head, forcing me to remain just inches from her sex, while she calms down. I can do nothing but stare at her pussy and inhale her scent, until she releases me. I absolutely love this as it makes me feel completely dominated and at her mercy.

It's been in place for a few months now. Nothing has changed. It is simple and very impactful.

I am surrendered to my wife. I crave her authority and control. The rituals, rules, and daily service are exciting to me and keep me in a submissive state of mind, and it also thrills me to be owned by her, so for me it is both. However, I don't see submission as giving up the burden of decisions. Read more… That puts too much work on her. Submission for me is about ensuring my decisions align with her needs and desires, and accepting the consequences if she is not pleased with my decisions. Inherent in all this is that I defer to her for big decisions or specific decisions that I know are not appropriate for me, and I always yield to her if we have a difference of opinion.

My kinks have evolved but I believe it's more correlated to my experiences and not my age (although aged probably is a small factor). As I've tried new things and read about other people's experiences, my willingness to try new things has broadened. I feel like the more I try, the kinkier I want to Read more… be.

I have a morning and night ritual that help to keep me in a submissive mindset and help me stay focused on my Goddess wife's needs. Every morning when I wake up, the first thing I do is put on a collar. I make coffee and then when my wife wakes up, I serve her the coffee and tell her that I am Read more… excited to serve her and I ask if there is anything she needs me to do. After she is done her coffee I am allowed to remove the collar. In the evening, when she is ready to take a bath or shower, she we let me know. I will follow her upstairs and then I kneel in the corner of the bedroom naked while she showers or takes a bath. I remain in the corner until she dismisses me. Then I ask if there is anything she needs me to do before she goes to bed.

Wonderful rituals. It's often the small simple things that rein*** the dom/sub dynamic and keep the connection strong.