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Gender Transgender
Age 43
Status Single
Zodiac signs Scorpio

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I have been crossdressing for a while and enjoy being force feminized into a frilly sissy girl for my dommes pleasure

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I have been crossdressing for a while and enjoy being force feminized into a frilly sissy girl for my dommes pleasure

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82% Submissive
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48% Read more… Switch
44% Voyeur
42% Non-monogamist
33% Masochist
33% Primal (Prey)
29% Vanilla
7% Sadist
2% Brat tamer
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I am new here and have been crossdressing for a while and would like to meet a mistress to help me fulfill my desires of being force feminized into a frilly sissy girl for her pleasure

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
99% Slave
97% Experimentalist
97% Brat
95% Rope bunny
91% Degradee
82% Read more… Submissive
79% Boy/Girl
53% Ageplayer
48% Pet
48% Exhibitionist
48% Switch
44% Voyeur
42% Non-monogamist
33% Masochist
33% Primal (Prey)
29% Vanilla
7% Sadist
2% Brat tamer
2% Dominant
1% Daddy/Mommy
0% Primal (Hunter)
0% Rigger
0% Degrader
0% Owner
0% Master/Mistress
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Milking
I was wondering if any dommes or subs could explain milking to me and why it's and what is achieved by doing, how it feels. I'm very curious about it.
Kind regards
Pinktink
LikeCuriousSissy · 6 Replies
MiztressD
MiztressD It is possible to milk whilst in chastity through prostate massage. The cage is left on and the only physical stimulus is to the prostate. Using ice around the cock/balls can help discourage it getting hard. The recipient won't orgasm, but will eventually ejaculate. Does take a bit of practice, and a good prostate massager is handy as it can (but not always) take upwards of half an hour to achieve. It is possible to milk whilst in chastity through prostate massage. The cage is left on and the only physical stimulus is to the prostate. Using ice around the cock/balls can help discourage it getting hard. The recipient won't orgasm, but will eventually ejaculate. Does take a bit of practice, and a good prostate massager is handy as it can (but not always) take upwards of half an hour to achieve.
Likeeyemblacksheep · 10.11.2018 11:40:29
eyemblacksheep
eyemblacksheep I've seen people let out of chastity to be given a ruined orgasm and subsequently milked and locked back up - but I think it would take a special skill to do this without removing a cage?! I've seen people let out of chastity to be given a ruined orgasm and subsequently milked and locked back up - but I think it would take a special skill to do this without removing a cage?!
Like · 06.11.2018 23:13:56
Fozzle
Fozzle I have been in chastity for a month, any techniques or ideas on milking with out removing the cage? Obviously pleasure is second here, I want to push myself and see how long I can go with maximum arousal and frustration. I would assume milking would heighten this? Or would it curb it? I have been in chastity for a month, any techniques or ideas on milking with out removing the cage? Obviously pleasure is second here, I want to push myself and see how long I can go with maximum arousal and frustration. I would assume milking would heighten this? Or would it curb it?
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Sub domme contracts
Hi I was talking with a domme and they mentioned contracts I was curious as to why these would be needed and what they contain generally speaking.
LikeBigPolly · 6 Replies
eyemblacksheep
eyemblacksheep Honestly; it's not over complicated.
They're not binding, legal or otherwise.
Some people like them for the symbolism, because it can feel like you're bound to someone.
Some people do use them to try to coerce consent, which is why it's important to know previous points (not binding)
They can, Read more… however, be a good way to set out rules or expectancy
They can also be useful if for example a Dominant has multiple subs and arrangements may need to be bespoke.
They are, however, completely unnecessary. But, can be a way to set foundation into structure.
Take marriage or a relationship - there's no contract - though, we do have a number of laws around divorce, separation, pensions, inheritance, so on - D/s lacks this foundation on it's own. There's no universal method of releasing a sub or whatever.
Like · 05.10.2018 0:34:28
Majibo
Majibo I dont know of course because most contracts especially of that nature are cut to fit . My food for thought speculation would be privacy discloser. And emergancy or insurance greement and or availability to hold eachother to a set # of meetings each period also it might be necessary for some people to have prefferance details of the meetings on paper for trust and peace of mind. Hope that helps just a thought.
I dont know of course because most contracts especially of that nature are cut to fit . My food for thought speculation would be privacy discloser. And emergancy or insurance greement and or availability to hold eachother to a set # of meetings each period also it might be necessary for some people to have prefferance details of the meetings on paper for trust and peace of mind. Hope that helps just a thought.
Like · 05.10.2018 0:23:23
Ben937 we found it a very useful way to keep track of our Rules/expectations as we realised our play was more complexe than could be readily remebered long term. Also good for keeping everything accurate, instead of thgings slipping over time we found it a very useful way to keep track of our Rules/expectations as we realised our play was more complexe than could be readily remebered long term. Also good for keeping everything accurate, instead of thgings slipping over time
Like · 03.10.2018 10:34:34
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Subs and slaves
Hi I was talking to a dom/domme yester and they said they had a sub and a slave. First question is it common for dominants to have more than one sub/slave
The dominant also said he sold his slave to another dominant be she did not please him. Does this happen or is it bull.
Tinytoolcuck
Tinytoolcuck Hey Hey
Like · 04.10.2018 2:51:34
LadyDominaByte
LadyDominaByte I can only speak for myself here but alot of Dommes have more than one sub. It's very common but if you talk with your domme, they can be in a monogamous D/S relationship. Both are common it just takes communication. As for selling I would never but it does happen. Some subs do enjoying being sold or bought it makes them feelmore like an object. I dont take on these types of subs. now do I buy them. It's just a preference for some subs I can only speak for myself here but alot of Dommes have more than one sub. It's very common but if you talk with your domme, they can be in a monogamous D/S relationship. Both are common it just takes communication. As for selling I would never but it does happen. Some subs do enjoying being sold or bought it makes them feelmore like an object. I dont take on these types of subs. now do I buy them. It's just a preference for some subs
Like · 03.10.2018 20:08:04
eyemblacksheep
eyemblacksheep it's not uncommon for all shades of relationship anarchy - but certainly within D/s it's not uncommon for a Dominant to have multiple subs, play-partners, whatever.
Selling a Dominant who did no please seems a bit... like it's linked to a fantasy. But, again - I've seen "slave trading" it's not uncommon for all shades of relationship anarchy - but certainly within D/s it's not uncommon for a Dominant to have multiple subs, play-partners, whatever.
Selling a Dominant who did no please seems a bit... like it's linked to a fantasy. But, again - I've seen "slave trading"
Like · 01.10.2018 21:01:24
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Aftercare
Hi I was reading an article on here about finding your limits and it mentioned moving into your aftercare routine if you discover a new limit. I would like to know what's is ment by an aftercare routine, I'm assuming it's very intimate time between dom/domme and sub for reassurance etc.
Gman458
Gman458 Helps to snuggle with them or just reassure them if trying new limits as you don’t wanna scare them I normally let them cum with out holding or with ease if they are trying new limits Helps to snuggle with them or just reassure them if trying new limits as you don’t wanna scare them I normally let them cum with out holding or with ease if they are trying new limits
Like · 11.10.2018 1:08:29
amy-black
amy-black For me I just need a few minutes of almost silent "come down", bit like a jet engine when it winds down.
My female kink buddy likes hugs and to just be held.
Guess like most kink, different for all.
For me I just need a few minutes of almost silent "come down", bit like a jet engine when it winds down.
My female kink buddy likes hugs and to just be held.
Guess like most kink, different for all.
Like · 10.10.2018 1:01:53
SeekingU
SeekingU My sub and I cuddle and I reinforce what went wrong to cause her punishment, I never push her limits unless she want to try, after subspace we talk, cuddle and enjoy each other
My sub and I cuddle and I reinforce what went wrong to cause her punishment, I never push her limits unless she want to try, after subspace we talk, cuddle and enjoy each other
Like · 30.09.2018 16:23:31
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Titles dom domme master mistress
Hi I'm curious to know if there are any conotations behind the titles of dom, domme, master and mistress do they mean different things.
eyemblacksheep
eyemblacksheep Capitalisation protocol, like many things in BDSM, is very specific to the individual(s) and their preferences.
I had some conversations earlier this year.
Someone who I follow on Twitter, and have met a few times, seemingly out of nowhere declared she was abandoning capital protocol.
That she no Read more… longer wished to be referred to Her, She, You, etc. and that she found it pretentious and fake.
Obviously, this is her preference and opinion and not the law.
I took this to ask some other Ladies I had good relationships with about Their opinions and preferences.
One of which, the Lady who is now my Mistress. Her response to me was quite special in the sense that She started with a mini detail about how, as a general rule, this isn't something She needed or expected, even if it can be a nice touch.
However, She said, She does expect it from Her close or personal subs/slaves. But, I don't feel She wants it so much from the respect or heir heirachy.
I mean, when She emails and addresses me, She always capitalises my first/real name whereas I've seen others deliberately lower-case it to show authority.
But, moreso, that it showed an attention to detail having to go through and make sure every instance (You, W/we, O/our, whatever) was capitalised.
Another Lady I spoke to said that She didn't feel it was necessary - but was a very good idea if you wished to impressed people. They can very easy stand you down if it's not necessary (as has happened with me).
Now, my *personal* preference is for words like Dom(me), Master, Mistress, Dominant, etc. to be capitalised - however - it's not overall necessary.
I think if you see a sub who is not using capital protocol, then unless they are addressing you then it's not a problem.
They're not your sub.
This is something can be corrected should they become your sub and you require it. It may even be their lack of this protocol means they are not impressing you. But, I think, just because you insist on (or prefer) something doesn't mean everyone else does.
Mind. I do think it is a good practice for subs to at least capitalise the aforementioned words - as obviously it can be devisive.
If a Dominant refers to some words in lower case then it may imply they are less strict on this protocol, or, less strict on it with, well, people they don't know.
But, I think ultimately, it's no one's place to correct the protocol of someone who isn't their sub or who isn't trying to impress them.
It can be politely pointed out what the protocol is, but, I feel there's no one twue way and assumptions shouldn't be made.
LikeVictoriaBlisse · 13.11.2018 16:38:13
Carnelian2
Carnelian2 ➦Carnelian2 quote MissTillysue:❝Personally if I'm writing someones name as in Miss/Mistress Whiplash or Master Blaster for example then as they are nouns I will capitalise them but if I am writing about masters/mistresses or doms/dommes in general then I use small letters as they are not nouns. I Read more… understand the capitilisation as honourifics but it is the person not the word who is honoured❞
I agree with this statement. Forcing someone to capitalise anything does not do anything in terms of actually showing respect. It shows compliance, which can be forced. I think that if someone actually chooses to use the titulation “Master” as a sign of respect, then it is commendable. Like most other things, roles have to be earned and are not given.
Like · 13.11.2018 16:33:45
MissTillysue
MissTillysue ➦MissTillysue quote FabSeverus:❝It’s not about a grammar question or lesson but more about a hierarchy to respect. You don’t write for example the queen of England but the Queen... not my favourite example but typical about what I try to explain.
My subs would never dare to make a second mistake Read more… about not using capital. Without following structure and rules everything collapse, I am not pedantic about it.
After all we all free here to decide within our own dynamic, If you like to adress your Sir/sir or Sub/sub ❞
I think this proves my point "The Queen of England is her honourific and pertains to a specific person.
You are free to make whatever rules you like where your own subs are concerned but I find it a tad pedantic to come on to a thread and state they should all be in capitals
LikeVictoriaBlisse · 13.11.2018 15:38:52
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Dominants limits
Hi I am curious to know if dominants have limits? From what I've read so far all the limits set in bdsm relationship are governed by the limits of the submissive and agreed with by the dominant I just wanted to know if I have that understanding correct.
LikeMrchristopher70, Lilmonster, Stubborn · 12 Replies
New2Bused
New2Bused I had a mistress before who would refuse to do something herself she just didnt feel comfortable with it I had a mistress before who would refuse to do something herself she just didnt feel comfortable with it
Like · 30.09.2018 19:31:34
3SumQueen
3SumQueen I guess you set your own limits by finding someone submissive who has the same/similar limits as yourself, basically. I prefer to do it that way. I guess you set your own limits by finding someone submissive who has the same/similar limits as yourself, basically. I prefer to do it that way.
Like · 29.09.2018 17:39:15
Mrchristopher70
Mrchristopher70 My hard limits are non negotiable not open to push or bend to suit s types it's taken me a great deal of time and many mistakes and lessons by now means does this mean that I'm stuck in my ways after years you still grow. I see starting out as a leaning curve and you always in some way pay for your education . I've in the past allowed my self in the heat of play over stepped and paid the cost . C My hard limits are non negotiable not open to push or bend to suit s types it's taken me a great deal of time and many mistakes and lessons by now means does this mean that I'm stuck in my ways after years you still grow. I see starting out as a leaning curve and you always in some way pay for your education . I've in the past allowed my self in the heat of play over stepped and paid the cost . C
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