Why won’t my girlfriend do a cuckold role-play with me?

[DivineMystOG]

She doesn't share your kink.. you have a choice, live without her or live without your kink..

[Rac78]

Yea respect her , but I'll bet you she's just too afraid to admit what' she actually thinks about subject,

[sillysub]

You can't change someone's mind if they aren't comfortable doing it. That's a huge no no. If she refused to do it, then accept it and move on. Continuing to try to change her mind might be considered *** or harrassment. If you care about her at all, then drop it right now.

[Mi****]

19 hours ago, Rac78 said:

Yea respect her , but I'll bet you she's just too afraid to admit what' she actually thinks about subject,

Pretty sure she’s already admitted that she’s not up for it.

[Ny****]

Friday at 03:15 PM, Rac78 said:

Yea respect her , but I'll bet you she's just too afraid to admit what' she actually thinks about subject,

Yeah, not everybody’s into that…. 🙄

[BrainyBabeMagic]

Are you seriously asking us how to make her to do something she doesn't want to do? 

Edited October 22, 2024 by BrainyBabeMagic

[Da****]

I think you need to understand what you're saying. You're trying to *** someone to do something that they don't want. Do not try to change her mind because that's not okay at all. That is frankly disturbing to be honest. If that's what you want, then you need to find a different partner and let her go find someone else who isn't going to try to *** her into a role she's not comfortable with. You may also need some serious therapy as well, it's not okay to think you can make someone do something they already told you no for. Either break it off because you won't be happy, or stop pushing it on her and find someone else. There's no way around it.

[na****]

I would love my future bf to think like that ahaha

[Ca****]

I'm not convinced you can convince someone more likely to put them off ,if you keep pestering. I've been in two full cuckold relationships, the first happened by accident , the second I found on a dating website and as I knew I was interested in cuckold brought it up from the beginning , this put a fair few off but not all .

[id****]

You can't make someone be into something they're not into, respect that.

[DarkArts1066]

Not all mindsets are built the same OP.

And none of us have the right to change a persons opinions, or *** someone to do something against their will.

If she’s said it’s not for her, then you need to respect her view on this… otherwise you’ll find that relationship ends pretty quickly.

As to ‘why’ she feels like this -ask her.
Sit down, and actually ask her… but be careful not to turn it into a coercive conversation.

She may simply have traditional values, believing that a connection between two people is sacred, and that you shouldn’t bring another person into that.

She may also have had a negative experience in her life that has coloured her perspective on this.

In any case, you do need to respect her opinion.
No means No….. and that is an absolute in the kink world.

[ro****]

She may not want to share herself with a random she may respect herself more than that or maybe she's worried it would ultimately cause problems in your home ? She just only wants you ? Would make her feel extremely bashful or feeling awkward so she couldn't enjoy it properly with you ?

Your best option is to ask her though... We can only guess. If she's really not into it then I wouldn't push too much but if she's skeptical or uncomfortable about it, be open with her about what it does for you and what you want for her. & Don't forget to remind her that you value her as your own.

If she does end up doing it then one thing I would do to help encourage a second time is; attack her as soon as the 3rd party leaves. Show her how proud you are and how attracted you are of her for being such a good girl. If she does this for you then she's the goodest ever and you better tell her lol. So don't cum too much while you watch because she'll feel really appreciated and attractive if you tell her lol. Men forget the rewards part alot so that's my tip for ya lol

[ro****]

Don't pressure her though. Dont keep asking why if she's already answered that question. Like I said, be open. You can discuss the pros and cons or both sides.

[Yadiglalove]

If she’s gonna be fucking other people behind my back why can’t she do it in front of me