Pegging

[AC****]

Short and sweet, my fiance introduced me to this, never thought I would be a fan but I want to be her every fantasy as much as she is mine. Turns out I enjoyed it A LOT. Now I don't know how to bring it up and ask for it and she has shown little interest in going again. What should I do?

[Prezy]

Make a request for it, open communication and honesty with eachother is the bedrock of a strong relationship

[su****]

Pegging is just wonderful! 🥰

[US****]

I do love getting pegged and am trying to find a regular pegging partner.

[man91]

Do it but give her the feeling it's your gift to her.

[Ra****]

Tell her you enjoyed it, ask how she feels about doing it again and then discuss how you might be able to make it happen.

It can be tricky to get going but once you start communicating openly it really will transform your sex life and relationship.

Good luck!

To the guys responding that they like it too - could you offer any advice from a male perspective?

[ge****]

How did she bring it up with you when she introduced you to it? I'm guessing by open and honest communication, so try the same - it may be she didn't think you liked it, but unless you talk to her how will she know?
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I guess she's the other half of your couple profile here, so really you have nothing to *** by raising it, if she's not seen your post already!!

[US****]

Sure, I’m happy to expand on my experience, although I’m not sure I can help you much in your situation. Given that you’ve already tried this experience with her, and she was open enough to share her desires, I think you should let her know how much you enjoy the experience and would like to try it again or something slightly different. Perhaps different position or a different size toy? Either way, healthy communication is key to a solid relationship.

[ey****]

if she brought it up then you've got a big shoe in here cos you can tell her how much you enjoyed it

however, possibly worth considering that she might have wished to try; but not enjoyed as much as she thought.  You won't know until you discuss this with her 

[de****]

Communication and acceptance is the key to most problems.

[Bt****]

The problem here is that you are projecting your insecurities onto her by saying she doesn't initiate your desires, which you are afraid to talk about due to *** of rejection.

[Widowkj]

If it's difficult to start the conversation. Try buying some anal toys for yourself, maybe a book on pegging. Something to show your interest. Make sure to leave them out where she WILL see them. Allow this to start your conversation or find some stories on pegging and point them out. Erotic video with pegging just keep putting in front of her. Let her catch you touching yourself there.

So many ways to open this conversation. Tell her you want to start a fantasy jar. Slips of paper with different acts of love. Ask her to contribute. Add several slips with pegging and anal play on you. Write a short story about it and give it to her.