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Is it me, or are there a lot of empaths into kink? I am an empath, which makes it hard for the ONS, but it is what it is.
Adapt to survive, or screen thoroughly. You'll find that on here, many are lying to you or themselves.
I see myself as one. It is hard. Most ppl looking for casual hookups. While I strictly going for long term. But your person will arrive. Well thats what I want to believe for myself too lmao.
I’m an Intuitive Empath and absolutely into kink. Granted I’m new to the scene officially, but I’ve always known that I was on the kinky side of the spectrum.
I definitely struggle to find the right match, especially one who understands or takes the time to understand.
8 minutes ago, ViciouslilBitch said:

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lol, I was saying Not True to the guy who said that it’s not a real thing. If you scroll up, you’ll see where I said that I am also an empath.

1 hour ago, BiGuy2024 said:

lol, I was saying Not True to the guy who said that it’s not a real thing. If you scroll up, you’ll see where I said that I am also an empath.

Oh my bad 😂 I actually questioned that right before I hit send too 🧐 and still hit send 😂

  • 4 months later...
Yes, this is one reason I need good conversation and energy before being intimate.
Definitely makes the intimacy a lot different
As a demisexual who’s a switch that leans towards submissive… it’d be so much easier to be an empath! Empaths fall in love from across the room because someone looked sad in the corner. Me? I need a full emotional vetting, a six-hour conversation about childhood wounds, and to witness you making someone laugh in public without being a dick before I even think about catching a crush. It’s exhausting. My libido has a security clearance process 😂

Love this as I'm very similar, I thought I had found someone a few days a go messaging daily multiple times times, however to to he sent me a screenshot of my profile and demand to know how else I'd been messaging, I don't like ignoring people so I said the 2 words no thanks . Then delete the messages as I went.

I made a friend that was sharing advice on ***am and I have no idea how but he new about that to  . So even my 4 days of chatting hasn't saved me from feeling crappy.

1 hour ago, HappyFatLady said:

As a demisexual who’s a switch that leans towards submissive… it’d be so much easier to be an empath! Empaths fall in love from across the room because someone looked sad in the corner. Me? I need a full emotional vetting, a six-hour conversation about childhood wounds, and to witness you making someone laugh in public without being a dick before I even think about catching a crush. It’s exhausting. My libido has a security clearance process 😂

 

Maybe that’s why I signed up yesterday. I’m a major empath,  and I’m only now realizing my desire to sub/lb (I’m a lil mauzy on the terminology)

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April 30, HappyFatLady said:
As a demisexual who’s a switch that leans towards submissive… it’d be so much easier to be an empath! Empaths fall in love from across the room because someone looked sad in the corner. Me? I need a full emotional vetting, a six-hour conversation about childhood wounds, and to witness you making someone laugh in public without being a dick before I even think about catching a crush. It’s exhausting. My libido has a security clearance process 😂

As an Emp myself i 10,000% agree with what u said there and yes thats so very accurate as to how we can be and sometimes thats exactly how it happens. In my instances its a female i see but theres something about the pretty girl in the corner that looks sad that makes us fall in love its like we feel their *** and sadness and we wanna change it cause they don't deserve that and it also makes us not feel that sadness anymore ... most times it does end up where the person been through the mud and in it and we find love for their character as we do our thing and shit when u feed on someone elses emotions long enough it becomes hard to wanna leave it if its not all negative energy

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Empaths have a strong sense of feeling and a lot of us get our most instense feelings through kinks because they bring out intense stems and emotional feelings that we sometimes lack and want to feel
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You'll find most people into kink have some kind of neurological or mental "disorder"
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I know I an empath but scared to show and let my emotions and feelings and desires out.
JackJonesHull

I believed I was an empath for a long time but I've started to suspect that it's more a need to be liked than a feeling for others emotions.

I realise it's a bit late to realise, but there's little I can do now.

Yeah, that's why I'm not sure if a ONS would be right for me
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