Big, Fat Lie

[Co****]

So I noticed something pretty consistent in the fetish world… and the world in general.
And maybe it’s just me… and if so, that’s fine.
But people who “ say” they like big girls don’t really mean it universally. I mean, I know it’s a tiny or average sized girl world all around me, and only within the last 15 years or so has plus sized appreciative movements been made.
But I’m talking sex here.
See, it takes a LOT MORE EFFORT to please big girls. Our nerves run deeper… our bodies are more durable… we take more pressure to pleasure. I know… I get it… we are WORK-work! But I promise you that we are all worth it. We cum hard and we make a mess when we are done properly. And we will ALWAYS be sure that you are by more than satisfied.
But I’m gonna let you in on a little tip/ secret: if you show interest, affinity and absolute ADORATION AND LUST for those imperfect parts of us, you can have us around for a lot longer!
What do I mean?
Look at our naked bodies! Our rolls, dimples, flaps, pouches, fupas, thick thighs, knocked knees, fat feet, kankles,flabby arms, neck rolls, double chins, floppy tits, bankrolls, flat butts, dark inner thighs, ashy, discolored, hairy anywhere bodies…. And tell us you like it… or you don’t like it… or it concerns you… or whatever!
And another thing: SMELL US! Tell us if we smell good or bad. And not just our necks or chest: ALL THOSE PLACES MENTIONED ABOVE! We smell different from place to place to place on our bodies. My neck and the space between left fat roll 4 and 5 are completely different!

Learn to show your full appreciation for the big girls. Show us your true love! Show us you got chubby lust in you.

Otherwise, it’s all just a Big, Fat Lie.

[Deleted Member]

I love curves.

[Deleted Member]

Big is subjective and everyone is going to have their own version of what that is. But you are onto something, some men will revert back to women they don't find attractive because they can't get the women they do like. Which some women also do too. Those people lack integrity and is the reason why the vetting process is so important for me. I'm not going to contemplate a meet until we've spoken for a few months at least.

[Da****]

There is a difference between big and girls who are big because they're just morbidly obese. Big girls have big bones, can also carry sigificant additional meat. Big girls are more athletic, have massively or morbidly fat and obese Is a different matter

[Ki****]

Yes ! No doubt I love this 💕 big ups to all my BIG BEAUTIFUL WOMEN

[za****]

So being big but in shape is one thing as well as being big and out of shape.

[Pussylicker1981]

I do prefer the bigger women, I’m more attracted to them, than to skinny women. Yeah, I’d still have some fun with skinny women, cause I don’t discriminate, but, my proclivity is the bigger woman. All previous girlfriends have been from a size 18+. Yes, they are more work to pleasure and satisfy, but, I get more enjoyment out of it when you know you’ve done a good job.

Yes, they work harder on you to know that you’ve been pleasured to the fullest of their ability, but, I’ve always been pleasured fine by the bigger woman. They do whatever you want them to do.

In short, BBW’s are my preference.

[ja****]

It took alot of courage for you to write all you did. Im proud of you for that. Its not easy being this *** for thousands and thousands. Girl your such a brave person. I just came back and it was like we never stopped talking. Your vulnerability is more beautiful than most things i see in any given day. Hope we know each other a long time. Talk to you later 😁😁☀️

[GreyHogandBrat]

I prefer bigger ladies. They don't break as easy.... usually.

[au****]

Let me just say. I don't prefer bigger women. But, it's not how that sounds. What I don't have is any artificial fetish, or pre conceived opinion. When I meet someone,.I treat them as an open map to be explored. It's my job,.my duty to make that trip pleasurable. Larger women can be deeply sensual and very loving AND also very beautiful. I once dated Beyonce's Anglo-Indian plus sized doppelganger.

I don't care what size you are if you are kneeling lovingly at my feet. Respectfully...

[Deleted Member]

I don't dislike larger girls, I just prefer slender ones, that's my preference, that's what turns me on.

[GreyHogandBrat]

And, I must say, one of the most erotic and beautiful experiences I've ever had (and I've had A LOT), was with a lady who was 450+ pounds. When I put my hand inside her the first time, watching her body quiver and tremble through multiple orgasms was delightful. When she started squirting (which surprised her), she started crying joyful tears. In my view, skinny girls don't have the bodies to make that visual come to life.

[Deleted Member]

It's highly dependent on how weight is carried; but I have never had any issues finding men. In fact, I have the opposite problem. They won't leave me alone. A few that even told me that I'm not really fat  🙄 

[Deleted Member]

AMEN ***!!!!
Brings to mind the old joke what do big girls and mopeds have in common?
They’re both fun to ride until your friends find out. 😏

[Ca****]

I love big girls I'm a big man and cant do skinny I'll break something when I get going

[Ta****]

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Now this is to the Author:
Thank you for that, sometimes the way society is can be very challenging to talk about anything related to anything outside of the "norm", so I appreciate you. It's also nice to hear you different perspective. My bextie was very adamant about me not talking about it very much. So it always became sort of a a non-issue until somebody else made an issue.
I hope I can ask you this question to plus size women in this post, what's the most practical way for me to approach this subject with somebody that I've been with, what's your proper wait time of its intimacy what's the now what's the best way to open it up for discussion?

[Ta****]

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I ask the sexy +sized women following this thread again to let me know how You would like to be approached regarding your body?

[Deleted Member]

26 minutes ago, TasteTheseKisses said:

I ask the sexy +sized women following this thread again to let me know how You would like to be approached regarding your body?

Anyone approaches me just because of how I look, I instantly tell them to fuck off. I am tired of being only seen as looking good for my size. The only talk about my size (and hate that I'm going to the gym). They don't care about me as a person at all. I'm a person with thoughts, feelings, and needs. I'm not just here to be used as a fuck toy. Mention my weight and I instantly have zero interest.

[Co****]

OMG! I did not expect this much response from this post. Seems like I lit a fire and it has gone wild! I want to thank you all for your comments, both good, bad, and irregardless of relevance to the actual topic.  to those of you who love us plus size women, we love you right back. To those who prefer a smaller frame, OK. you like what you like. Peace be with you.
To answer the question : it’s kind of dependent on the comfort level of the person you’re talking to. Someone are very comfortable talking about their plus size, and they even make jokes about it in order to feel more comfortable around people. And some women don’t like to talk about it. As long as you see them as a person and not a plus size person and treat them like any other person around them, then you should be just fine. Plus size women want acceptance just like anybody else in the world. The biggest thing is, don’t try to hide us, and don’t act like you’re ashamed to be around them … us…in public. Also, not that we always need it, but when others are disrespectful to us, or look at us in shame, be ready to defend us. If you say you love us as we are, then never be afraid to tell the world and show the world how much you love us.
All of us!

[Ta****]

4 minutes ago, BrattyKei320 said:

OMG! I did not expect this much response from this post. Seems like I lit a fire and it has gone wild! I want to thank you all for your comments, both good, bad, and irregardless of relevance to the actual topic.  to those of you who love us plus size women, we love you right back. To those who prefer a smaller frame, OK. you like what you like. Peace be with you.
To answer the question : it’s kind of dependent on the comfort level of the person you’re talking to. Someone are very comfortable talking about their plus size, and they even make jokes about it in order to feel more comfortable around people. And some women don’t like to talk about it. As long as you see them as a person and not a plus size person and treat them like any other person around them, then you should be just fine. Plus size women want acceptance just like anybody else in the world. The biggest thing is, don’t try to hide us, and don’t act like you’re ashamed to be around them … us…in public. Also, not that we always need it, but when others are disrespectful to us, or look at us in shame, be ready to defend us. If you say you love us as we are, then never be afraid to tell the world and show the world how much you love us.
All of us!

I love you. Mwah!💋

[Ta****]

11 minutes ago, TheMacabreBrat said:

Anyone approaches me just because of how I look, I instantly tell them to fuck off. I am tired of being only seen as looking good for my size. The only talk about my size (and hate that I'm going to the gym). They don't care about me as a person at all. I'm a person with thoughts, feelings, and needs. I'm not just here to be used as a fuck toy. Mention my weight and I instantly have zero interest.

Dude i hate going to the gym too, it's so ***, so instead i try to do strenuous activities... Like fucking.
😂😂
Hey wanna be exercise partners?
🤭😏😘💋😎

[Deleted Member]

3 minutes ago, TasteTheseKisses said:

Dude i hate going to the gym too, it's so ***, so instead i try to do strenuous activities... Like fucking.
😂😂
Hey wanna be exercise partners?
🤭😏😘💋😎

I love going to the gym. 

You hating it is a major conflict in interests. Unless you are into HIIT and heavy lifting (maxing everything out until you drop), then I have zero interest. Keep up or gfto

[Deleted Member]

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Appreciate your post! Thanks for sharing

[FETMOD-BD]

Locked until I can get to my PC to deal with this thread

[FETMOD-BD]

OK, I've tidied up - keep comments on topic and respectful please.