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I 100% agree with you! How I was raised and where, women always had more rights than men did, and I have no problem with that, because they’re our equals.

Where was this?

I do love when a man tells me what it is I 'need' 🙄

Anyway.

We're now responsible for stripping the world of masculinity, who knew we were so powerful, powerful enough to strip an entire gender identity???

If a man’s definition of masculinity is dependent on women needing him, it's not Read more… masculinity, it’s anxiety over job security.
Don’t worry though, the world isn’t running out of masculinity. It’s just running out of the kind that requires applause for basic decency.

:1771794722,725155, I'll always appreciate and be thankful for a comment where somebody opens up, so I hope you don't take what I'm about to say as an attack... but this reads as though all men feel the same way (would love such a message) and use visual words over the others Read more… you mention. Maybe a little less of the potentially inflammatory generalisation?

#NOTALLMEN??? 😂🤣😂
Sorry, I couldn't resist

I dont wear a watch but im not sure I've ever felt the need or desire to actually time any intimate interactions 🤷‍♀️

"Who are you really, behind all the masks you wear?" In so many contexts/environments. Or maybe not even that directly.

This isn't an issue of gender (or any other protected characteristic). You can Google 'giving unsolicited opinions' and it's very clear why it's viewed as an issue. Its even being taught in management and leadership courses as something not to do.

It may be worth your while exploring why you feel the need to share your unsolicited opinions with others. It can often be as simple as someone feeling the need to be heard/validated.
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A way that some of us manage unsolicited opinions is to set boundaries which on a kink site is ironic no?

Actually, you did have an expectation which was not to receive the responses you did. Your expectation was to either receive a thank you of some description or to be ignored.
To write an OP about is evidence of that.
To enter a strangers inbox either to compliment or educate is unnecessary. If Read more… people want the opinion of someone else, they will ask for it, otherwise we keep them to ourselves.

I think you misunderstand the purpose of the forums. Yes people can post what they want (within the context of the TOU's, which are currently seemingly flimsy) and others can answer in agreement or not but the point of the forum can also be to question.

Taking a questioning approach does two Read more… things, it encourages the OP/others to think about the situation a little more and can also be used when the OP may not be clear in what they've written and enables the person responding to respond without making assumptions/dig a little deeper. Thats neither insulting nor demeaning.

The "naughty" blanked out word is "vulner@able"