The blurb explaining what Fetish is...
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Same, always got the important people's backs x

There are but, the above was not a misconception. It was a demonstration of how ugly that individual is.

I dont comment on people's photo's either negatively or positively especially if I dont 'know' them. Things can be taken out of context via text only.
I'm tired of people commenting unsolicited, vile 💩 on my photo's, random dudes who i've never interacted with. I used to delete them, now I'll be Read more… leaving them up for all to see.
Your dude was worse though, did it privately in DM's, nothing more than a coward. A guy ************ in his 40's who should know better. Probably doesn't it to others too considering how many msgs he's sent.
Hopefully the Mods will actually do something about it x

You know, all of those things *should exist in any relationship regardless of title. For me, they're to be expected.

It's getting more like it by the day 🫩

Yes there are. Their individuality makes them different.

Yes, unfortunately so. They see your new to whatever site it is and they perceive your naivety as a vulnerability. Your newness attracts douchebags who start those conversations to see what wankfodder we're prepared to provide.
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It gets better though. Over time we find our place, have more Read more… confidence in ourselves, our wants and needs and can quickly identify those kind of people. Whilst you'll still get those messages, it's easier to spot them early doors and shut them down.

I didn't for the sole purpose of dating. At the time, it was better than Fetlife. Now though, given the amount of dick pics received in 24hrs, im not that sure but I remain due to the friends here

Whose jenna?

Brat is an awful word. I absolutely hate it.
The associated behaviour when discussed/understood and responded to appropriately? Love it!

At least some people understand my humour!

You don't