Red Flags: anger

[La****]

Anger frightens me
in a Dom. Cruel words
with a hard edge
becomes cruel hands.
A *** hold meant
to make you pay attention.
Eyes implacable and
intent, but not aroused.
Moved roughly, with
a hand twisted in my hair
or fingers bruising
my arm. Impatience.
Temper slicing the connection
between you and me,
leaving cold and ice.
You stay buttoned up
and closed off.
The only thing I feel from you
is ***. Anger frightens me
because in anger,
your control is a thin veneer.
We are all of us
only human, but when your temper
ignites
with the tiniest spark,
you become not safe. Not
Dominant, just frightening.
So I will push, sometimes,
Just a little,
Because I need to see
if you will flair. Blaze. Shove back
with the *** of you, or if
you'll absorb. Accept,
and then correct. Firm, but gentle.

[In****]

Love it ,, love me some poetry

[TM****]

Loss of control like that ruins more relationships across the board. 😟

[sa****]

👏👏👏👏👏

[be****]

If a Dominant has a temper and can’t control himself, he’ll never be a true Master

[M1****]

25 minutes ago, belovedsub said:

If a Dominant has a temper and can’t control himself, he’ll never be a true Master

How can he ever expect to be a Pokedom Master

[Di****]

35 minutes ago, belovedsub said:

If a Dominant has a temper and can’t control himself, he’ll never be a true Master

Be quite you beautiful bink! Or I will show you my angry face. 😠. Temper can be channeled but boy oh boy bee careful what you’re doing to yourself. Temper hurts yourself and makes you weak not ***. *** is just admitting you have feelings besides fine and frustrations. What have we done

[Deleted Member]

A “Dom” who can’t control his anger, really isn’t a dom but a child trapped in a man sized body. That’s a red flag for ANYONE.

[bo****]

You actually can get angry? Am I the only one whos head goes like Angry->Contemplating->Overthinking->automatically inventing random reasons amd conditions why it is your fault that he/she was in place to make this choice that made you angry