Praise kink language and requests

[Pirates]

So we are interested in phases and language used in praise kink. And how a dominant uses language to ask sub perform 

[Pirates]

‘You’re such a good girl ‘

‘You are doing so well’

‘Will you do something for me ?’

 

without heading into degradating or ***, how do you use crude or vulgar language to describe and excite 

[sa****]

Ciao

[Deleted Member]

It depends whether the person of praise is actually a sub or not and whether or not they are a seasoned sub or a sub in training. A sub in training who has a strong devotion to serve might hear me say, "your desire to please me is a delightful attribute, it almost makes you your lack of obedience worthy of keeping you" the praise to her hunger to serve satisfies her praise kink enough to make her even more determined to learn true submission and earn the praise of her obedience. A seasoned sub might receive my blessing in a form of something like, "your commitment and service to me are delectably satisfying. The seasoning of your submission, a flavor fit for Kings. I may let you choose the method of your next disciplinary implement." This fulfills the subs need for praise in relation to her submission and obedience and motivates her rise further in her skills at the promise of being able to choose something she prefers above other methods. A more naughty praise might be, "your pussy is a perfect oasis of pleasure that demands an impeccable amount of nurturing. It is at the highest levels, invigorating to me that you have given her over to my care and keep." The praise informs her of the magic she possessed between her legs and doubles her need for affirmation that the Master she is so hungry to please, is beyond satisfied with her choice of submission. The lingering message that he is not only accepting and pleased with what he has inherited, but that he is honored to be in the trusted position of making sure this jewel is formed, polished and displayed in an element of near worship. -I would say that I hope that helps, but.. I already know that helps 😉 - obviously, it is not the only method of praise kink fulfillment, but praise that sparks more desire to please or shows great appreciation of being in the position to praise are my preferred methods.

[sw****]

I've had the phrase " you're being such a good girl for me" make a huge wet spot..

[YoursMaybe]

kinda praise adjacent but sometimes reassurance can be a real turn on. It just depends on the person..to be really effective i think it would help to understand them a little..Like, do they have a *** of being abandoned? "I've got you" "I'm not going anywhere just relax(or 'shut up') and let me do all the thinking" works well in that context.

[YoursMaybe]

Edit: *Like, are they afraid if being abandoned? Then, the reassurance works well in that context.

[No****]

When I am doing something that my DOM enjoys he will say things like: "you're such a good girl doing what your told."you're " such a good girl keep going." Or he will tell me what he wants or how he wants me to do it.