Confused

[Deleted Member]

His loss your perfect a bit thick is way better ok

[xj****]

What a pos

[Ky****]

So can't message you becouse of your message filter. But girl you are beautiful. And hes an ass hole

[Deleted Member]

Take the outpouring of love and compassion from people here and know that one man doesn’t define your worth. I am so sorry that happened to you. Lessons learned the hard way sometimes. This person will never find happiness further than instant gratification. You will. Keep trying.

[Je****]

I'm not a brat. I just wanted to say my sympathy for going through this . You met an asshole sadly. And no one likes a dirty asshole. Should of ***d him with a bar of soap. All jokes aside your self worth is never a commodity to be traded or bandied about like commerce. It's up to you to determine your own value and stand up for yourself.

This bad date will just be something you talk about with a good guy on a wonderful date some day . Have a good one princess and good luck.

[mo****]

That “man” is no man. He’s a boy and you deserve much better in general. I’m so sorry you had to deal with that. Don’t let yourself fall to his words beautiful. Take comfort in the people picking you up and reminding you that you are worth more. If you need anything please feel free to reach out! 😍💛

[to****]

Your beautiful my friend amazing smile great face don't worry yourself about 1 obvious jerk men would go kuku for cocoa puffs for you Your absolutely gorgeous

[Luna16]

That's a boy trying to play big boy alpha, he's not worth your time, besides he obviously needed some glasses queen

[Ca****]

Guys an ass!! Don’t take it personally. He is the issue not you. Don’t settle. Find people who value you.

[Ra****]

I’m fucking jealous I barely even get a massage on here and you met up good for you I think every one scared of me and I can believe it wasn’t what you expected I think site is for people to be who they think they are not who they really are but hey shit you went out to see about go girl

[Yi****]

Id tell him youd like to meet again then when his back is turned, peg him with a couple of steaming Louisiana RedHots.

[So****]

Girl, you are beautiful!! Don't allow him to hurt your feelings! You should have turned him down at the point when he was rude and disrespectful to you. That's not what BDSM is all about. He needs to learn how to treat a sub. He's most likely a wannabe trying to be dominant but FAILED.

[JM****]

Dont let him ruin your spirits! Some people play their way to get where they want to be using deceit and lies to portay a character to show you, when in reality they're just trash ass people. Youre a beautiful woman, and you need to remember that anything he said trying to pass judgement is only opinion, not fact. Ive seen your profile a few times before, youre a beautiful woman, and just from this single post of yours, it shows that you have a heart, and a unique and beautiful soul which is a rarity in todays society. Remember to ALWAYS keep your head up and dont let clowns bring you down. He IS NOT worth the hurt and energy that youre projecting. There will always be someone better who will respect you for you. That creature was not a man, but simply a boy who threw a tantrum. Stay positive and keep shining queen! If you need someone to talk to you're always welcome to reach out. Dont stress the little things that arent going to be a part of making a positive impact in your life or on your future, and no matter what always stay true to yourself.

[JM****]

Oh and for the record hes blind as fuck.. you got a rockin body.

[zu****]

I’m sorry you met the guy and I hope you didn’t waste your time with him. Don’t be discouraged. Now you know what you’re not looking for and hopefully will be better prepared to avoid it. There are a lot of different relationship dynamics out there but being a Dom isn’t the same things as being a prick. Be very careful. People like who you described may not respect your limits. You need someone who will explore with you and let you discover what you’re looking for as you go.

[Co****]

You are stunning! Fuck that sociopath, Dom and fuck face, prick are not the same thing and that is where he is confused. Do not waste another second on that, go get a snackie, something smothered in chocolate is a safe bet. You are beautiful and clearly 60+ other people think so also, do not ever tame that bratty sparkle for anyone!💋❤️‍🔥

[Ne****]

Pick yourself up hold your head high, shake his words off and never let anyone else determine your worth. You need to be ***ed the F off that he was rude as hell. I have a rule . No A holes or Dick heads. But some slip in but I cut at first glimpse of either. Good lick. You are beautiful, amazing and worthy of everything great in this world.
Consider the source. I understand the disappointment. On this site it is 3 for 3 .
Sit with the disappointment and all the other feelings that being lied to and deceived beget, a few minutes. It will pass if you let it. Then muster girlfriend. It is the normal not the exception sad to say

[MrHulkS]

I am So So So So Sooorrrryyyyyy you have gone through this, I am shocked at the fact he said all that and the fact he has been chatting to you for a month and to come out with that quote about brats and Doms but he knew you was a brat
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You look amazing and cute and if someone can not see your self worth and how much you are worth just from chatting then they can go and do one, You deserve to be happy no matter what
All you can do is learn from this but with you chin up head held high and look at your self and say well it's his lose not mine I am worth a 1000 of him

[ey****]

I'm not sure some of the comments hitting on the OP are appropriate, feels quite predatory and opportunist

but, here goes.

Sadly. Some people are awful.  Really sorry you were on the receiving end.

Alas, such is the way of the world - whereas women's biggest ***s from dates is physical or sexual *** - for men it is that the person will scam them, or doesn't look like the image they had in their mind (such an imbalance here in the realities between the two)

I guess. as much as it hurts. the saving grace is he outed himself at the meet, and didn't wait until you were in a relationship.    I suspect he may have also been trying negging, to undermine your confidence to make you feel you're lucky he felt "you'd do" and yep, honestly - guys - don't do this.

Alas. It might take a little while to get your confidence back. Take time, take a break, and return as and when you're ready.   Know there are of course folk who will appreciate you for you - and well, to know your worth.

[Th****]

R E P O R T H I M

Other than that : his validation (or lack thereof) should not matter . Just send him where ever he came from, bad manners and all.

If he thinks he can be rude bc he does not know how to deal with his emotions: he can suck his own dick.

You are wonderful .
Don’t let anybody tell you otherwise.

Boy. Bye.

[Al****]

Sounds like a right prick! You had a lucky escape, lovely. If he can do that to you on first meeting in public, just imagine what he could do in private. Unfortunately, there are many people who think they understand the core principles, but they don't! They are ***rs and users masquerading as Doms or subs. This guy sounds like he has zero emotional intelligence, beaut honestly... don't let him ruin this for you. Be cautious, be safe x

[ma****]

Honey I just looked at your pics there is nothing wrong with you at all your beautiful some guys are ass holes I’m so sorry that happened to you I promise you not all guys are like that don’t let him ruin this for you or no body else sweet heart

[Da****]

You met a douchbag. You deserve love and happiness darlin. Don't let one asshole ruin it all for ypu

[Deleted Member]

Thank you so much everyone for your kind words. 😇

[Deleted Member]

Heck naw, F that guy. (No don’t, not really). I am hard limited on my attraction physically, weight being a one, or I simply don’t function. Even so, I would never tell someone this. My first hookup on here was also not pleasant. I wasn’t into her but I still gave her hers, supplier dinner, smoked and chilled, talked a little…. There’s no reason to be hurtful, that’s a personality disorder.