Distance for new sub/slave

[me****]

It seems most of the intrest I get is from someone from from my location. Has anyone found issue with navigating this obstacle and has it worked out ?

[Be****]

Barely get any interest or even acknowledgement from anywhere everyone's experience is different.

[Co****]

I seem to have the same problem

[Al****]

Mine is 4 hrs away and we meet at least once a month sometimes two . We navigate pretty well considering we both have separate lives . Have to find a trusted one unless you want a full time position .

[ch****]

I have the greatest means of travel period

[Sk****]

With the right fit and a reasonable distance, this sub wouldn't have an issue

[go****]

Same queen 🤦‍♀️ I guess I’m just gonna have to relocate 361 miles away which way I don’t know yet but you say the word and I’ll be on route.

[Be****]

30 minutes ago, Couple2527 said:

I seem to have the same problem

Yeah its all about a patient waiting game for males. And for females just weeding out the right individuals

[Da****]

In my experience, it can work but it takes a bit more effort and need to be even clearer with expectations and rules.

[my****]

Long distance doesn’t work. You can begin with the best of intentions, even plan to relocate but when push comes to shove it becomes a part time relationship. Unless you’re willing or even eager to relocate it won’t work. The right partner will make it feel like it can work but in the end it’s just going to hurt more when it doesn’t. I’m sure there will be people who claim it does and that they’re fulfilled with a long distance, but they might not be at the end yet.

[xx****]

16 minutes ago, BengeBlaze said:

Yeah its all about a patient waiting game for males. And for females just weeding out the right individuals

U are absolutely correct. My partner and I are both on here and my inbox..... u get the pictures.. his not so much

[Daggz]

Strangely enough my previous sub lived 2 hours away and I didn’t expect her to show up when I invited her over for a coffee/dinner and whatever else she was comfortable with. It worked out and she didn’t mind traveling to see me as playing at my place is the best option 😎

[ou****]

Goon :(

[Be****]

1 hour ago, xxintoxicatdkizz said:

U are absolutely correct. My partner and I are both on here and my inbox..... u get the pictures.. his not so much

Ill even post like generic nonsexual question threads kinda like this so today's question is "how do you feel about mondays" I haven't gotten 1 person to comment on any of my question of the day posts

[Ta****]

I have had multiple fly in to meet. I think it’s all about the connection and how strong the need is to meet. I have never found it to be an issue.

[ze****]

56 minutes ago, TampaDom10 said:

I have had multiple fly in to meet. I think it’s all about the connection and how strong the need is to meet. I have never found it to be an issue.

Damn that’s crazy skill props

[Lo****]

If there is time permitting, then yes, it could work. But if free time is limited for both, then you may struggle.

[pi****]

Depending on the sub and how good they are I'd travel 50 miles if they were 100 away

[Deleted Member]

Same issue in Montana..Ive had fly ins and fly outs..my last dynamic was 3 hour drive away..sometimes I'd drive there, or she'd drive here, or we'd meet 1/2 way - it worked for a long time. For me, its usually Spokane (3hrs away) or Bozeman (over 2 hours away).

[Wh****]

Thanks for the post I'm trying here it's a two hour drive then maybe only 90 minutes of us time. Just can't keep a balance with such short time. Plus we can only meet twice a week.

[Wa****]

I agree with @MontanaDaddy think travel time is a killer. Real life gets in the way.

[On****]

For myself, I live in Canada, in a border city. Everyone who shows interest is in the US. Also, it doesn't help that I don't drive & am not willing to travel there... for obvious reasons. {🏳️‍🌈✨!}
It makes me feel a little guilty, which makes no sense. In order for anything to happen, they've got to be willing to travel here. It sucks.

[Deleted Member]

It depends on the quality of a submissive. I have an amazing obedient man i drive 2 hours 1 way due to personal reasons. It depends on what is given & received for it to balance out. I find that what I get out of it is worth the trip.

[Deleted Member]

The majority of those who reach out to me are long distances from me. I really can't see the practicality in starting a relationship like that; the distance, 75 miles away and up simply doesn't allow spending quality time together.
The interesting thing is, when I try to explain this to those who reach out to me who are extreme distances, they seem to be offended, even though I try to be very polite.