Change my mind, opinion please

[Ro****]

I'm wondering if others seeing bare minimum profiles also affect your interest level in a person?
Bare minimum meaning no Pic or a single pic that does not have a smile and the only text is something along the lines of exploring or hmu if interested. Nothing much else.

How am I to be interested in anyone if there's nothing notable to spark that interest?

Also shows potential for bare minimum effort on a profile in my experience also beget minimum effort in connection.
Do you agree?

[fe****]

If they dont have a pic i dont bother, also i think its a high possibility they are fake

[Deleted Member]

I would say yes i agree 👍, it doesn't take much time to add a few pics ,make short statement .

[Sa****]

If a profile says “just seeing where things go” I’m immediately out. If you’re 20+ and you can’t articulate what you want, bitch byeeeeee ✌️

[Va****]

I’m of the same mind. I also just have a hard time taking pictures of myself without absolute hating them. But no pic or a bunch of pics that are locked are an immediate no for me. My brain can’t attach a person to nothing. I need a face to associate who I’m talking to with. Hopefully that makes sense.

[Re****]

Yes not just here, but many profiles I've seen with little to no info.

[Na****]

I can’t speak for what men’s profiles look like, but I see dozens of women’s profiles where there’s a single pic of a super model hot lady and a blank profile. Image is usually AI generated or clearly just a copy and paste image from someone’s insta. TONS of scammers on this site, always better to be safe than sorry. As for real people who have blank profiles…not sure what they are expecting to happen. I guess horny guys will message anyone, so maybe they just like the attention and aren’t looking for much else 🤷‍♂️

[In****]

100% agree. A bare minimum profile is an immediate “off” for me and immediately tells me I’m going to bear the brunt of any effort in any kind of relationship. It may just be because I love writing, but just a “hi” or “hello” as an introduction is a bit of killer too. If you’re going to reach out say SOMETHING! comment about a shared interest, disclose a fact about yourself, tell me why you wanted to message me. Tying back to the minimum profiles, how am I supposed to strike up a conversation with you if I have nothing to comment on myself? Went on a tangent there but long responses short, bare minimum = not with my time.

[Deleted Member]

Doesn’t make one bit of difference to me if there is no picture or if someone is still trying to figure themselves out. What’s more important is what they write. Sometimes they might just need some guidance to finding their true identity. Not 20 guys saying they are going to fuck them up the ass and cum on their face 🤷‍♂️

[no****]

Most that have come across have no interest in talking but of hooking up. I have different interests on here than others and a different approach to meeting others

[Va****]

I have seen what an attractive woman’s tinder page looked like, I’m talking hundreds of dudes have liked her and she can filter thru who she wants to talk to. It’s insane. But most of the one picture profiles I see anywhere I steer clear of. And even some of the ones with a bunch of pictures are just people running scams. And men that aren’t putting effort into their profile, I feel they aren’t actually looking for whatever they say they are looking for

[no****]

It's hard to find someone that doesn't just want to have sex or some variation to it. So it depends on what you are looking for something of substance is harder.

[Sc****]

I thought that we were supposed to change her mind, not to just state the obvious agreement. So here is my rake. An empty profile in fact it turns me on, my imagination starts running filling the gaps with my own desires. Often I'm messaging these empty profiles... Most of the times they are a complete waste of time, scanners or bots, but every so often a pearl is hiding behind, a shy pearl. And that makes it worth.

[Ca****]

Precisely. If they're not gonna take the time to show you who they are, do you expect them to take their time with anything else? I've never been one for blind dates, the concept is even more disturbing online. Let's say we start talking, then I get my first look at you. Now if I don't find you attractive, I feel like a dick for being all talk. When I fill in all of your details in my mind, they're always wrong, and I'm always disappointed.

[li****]

Bare minimum is not appealing to me at all!! It also leads me to believe it’s under False pretenses

[Deleted Member]

Blank/limited profiles are an instant no from me. It’s just boring!! I’m gonna pass immediately. I need something to be attracted to or interested in to interact with them. Maybe the person has the capacity to connect and give effort, so I’m not going to comment on that, but it’s boring regardless.

[Ca****]

Just now, lil_logic said:

Bare minimum is not appealing to me at all!! It also leads me to believe it’s under False pretenses

Right?! What are you hiding?

[si****]

For me profile pics don't matter this is like a act out all your sexually fantasies and your trying to find someone one that into what you're into and looks are not everything especially when you on a sexual fantasies website like this I care more about how the girl performed in bed rather than there looks I had good looking girls that are horrible in bed and I have had skinny girls all the way up to BBW girls and honestly the BBW girls are way more fun better in bed and more out going so for me personally it's more about how the girl performed in bed and acts out out fantasies together but that just my opinion and I know every one thinks different lee

[GB****]

I see your point about “bare minimum effort”, but to me when the profiles are “bare” like that it “smells” like a bot or fake profile/scammer

[Ca****]

3 minutes ago, sitonmyface6968 said:

For me profile pics don't matter this is like a act out all your sexually fantasies and your trying to find someone one that into what you're into and looks are not everything especially when you on a sexual fantasies website like this I care more about how the girl performed in bed rather than there looks I had good looking girls that are horrible in bed and I have had skinny girls all the way up to BBW girls and honestly the BBW girls are way more fun better in bed and more out going so for me personally it's more about how the girl performed in bed and acts out out fantasies together but that just my opinion and I know every one thinks different lee

Agreed, but especially online the first hurdle is "prove you are who you claim to be." I'm not a shallow person, but if you're afraid to show me who you are, it's a reasonable assumption there's a reason.

[TimberTara]

It’s all about the pictures

[Deleted Member]

31 minutes ago, Moonliightt said:

If a profile says “just seeing where things go” I’m immediately out. If you’re 20+ and you can’t articulate what you want, bitch byeeeeee ✌️

I agree with that, since i'm mainly looking for a dom it would be a waste of time to message them

[Kr****]

The more pictures and information they have makes it easier to make decisions. Are they someone that could be compatible, so it does make a difference.

[Ca****]

2 minutes ago, Krampus247 said:

The more pictures and information they have makes it easier to make decisions. Are they someone that could be compatible, so it does make a difference.

Depending on what you're here in search of, I guess. But yes, more photos, more angles, better complete mental picture. The filter craze irritates TF outta me.😆

[Re****]

Or they want the $ and want you to sub to OF.