Sharing fantasies

[Au****]

14 hours ago, Pet_Mimic said:

So you're saying you spent multiple messages clearly just wanting to be friends, not flirting or leading him on at all, then he randomly wanted to know your fantasies? That does make him rather weird.

I didn’t even talk to him. I’m saying you shouldn’t assume someone is interested in dating you just because they’re communicating with you.

[Deleted Member]

Share what you share… it’s no one’s place to tell you what you have to share.. if they try to *** anything then they don’t belong here….

[Ke****]

You don't have to do anything with anyone you don't want to. If you don't consent to telling a specific person your fantasies, then definitely do not tell them. Consent must always be given by all parties, before going ahead with the consented to action. This applies to talking about anything as well as doing anything together.

[Ke****]

You can also stop in the middle of telling your fantasy for any reason too, because consent is always revokeable. You might regret starting to tell someone your fantasies, but you are under no obligation to finish communicating them, if you don't want to, regardless of the reason.

[Pe****]

Sunday at 07:11 PM, Aura999 said:

I didn’t even talk to him. I’m saying you shouldn’t assume someone is interested in dating you just because they’re communicating with you.

Sorry. I got you confused with the person I was talking to. As a random outsider, you have no idea what their conversation was like. Of course you're correct that nobody should assume interest, but that is entirely beside the point I made of not leading somebody on. Faking interest because you want attention, while having no intention of a relationship, is cruel and narcissistic. Merely chatting is one thing, but being flirtatious and provocative is an entirely different matter. If he is asking for her fantasies without her even expressing an interest, then he is being a toxic creep. If he is asking because she's been flirting without intent of a relationship, then she is being toxic and manipulative.
All anybody should pass judgment on is what they actually see.

[su****]

Unless we have some type of connection I wouldn't share my deepest fantasies.

[ro****]

Also remember that one's Upset belongs to them. They created their own Upset with you through their own filters. Some folks are not in touch with their own triggers and traumas so they believe that it's acceptable to inflict them upon others due to a lack of personal knowledge and respect and responsibility for their behavior and a generous lack of coping skills. You, obviously, did nothing to merit this reaction. Take care.

[ea****]

No why would someone think to ask anyone else to share

That' must mean they really don't have any of those in speaking 🗣️ I say

[Th****]

I'd say it depends on the one sharing. If you want to be freely open, do so. If not, act accordingly. Some people use raw honesty as a filter to avoid what they don't want in the moment. Others may hold back for reasons known only to them. If you're willing to share, then you're welcome to share literally anything. If you'd prefer not to share, just say so, and follow with a quick summary of why. Most people will react like adults and accept either response. Then again, some people are just looking for reasons to be an a**hole. Hold your ground, tell em to eat a dildo, block em then smile that you dodged a bullet

[re****]

That behavior is usually indicative of some kind of personality disorder and should be regarded as a red flag

[Ed****]

Idk, id say depends on the dynamic and depth of the d/s relationship. Perhaps communicate submissive boundaries. Its just an opinion though

[Deleted Member]

I will literally only share my deepest fantasies with my Dom. He has created a safe space to do that by being 100 percent completely honest about everything in regards to our Dom /sub relationship. We do not discuss family, personal lives etc our time together is purely pleasure. Personnally I think you dodged a bullet and it shows the emotional intelligence of that person. You will know when to share and with whom. Never doubt yourself x

[th****]

He took the wrong route than any sort of developed any kind of connection or anything it takes a lot of discussion and getting to know one first

[dr****]

Speak wats on ur mind

[My****]

I just give a basic "I wanna be a doll" to randos I haven't engaged in a conversation with.

[le****]

I share with ppl on here only place I don't get kink shamed

[Sw****]

When you tell someone what you're into you're being ***. The person you tell must earn your utmost trust first.

[Sw****]

*Being open about yourself with your guard down

[Jimpy]

I only share my fantasies on here, it feels safer

[Wo****]

The basics are on my profile, some are in my writings… others you only get to know once I trust someone. I would expect the same in return. Enough to try and work out if we were compatible on a profile, more to discuss after.

[fe****]

I am always very open and very honest about my emotional feelings and my sexual desires I put my deepest most desirable fantasy out here with the hopes that someone will see it and desire to experience and share it with me be a part of it make it come true you'll also feel and enjoy my other Kinks inside dishes and enjoy explore experiment experience each other every time we're together over a long-term relationship I will share anything you ask about me

[Ma****]

Sounds like someone was feeling overly entitled.

I occasionally seek such info sooner than is entirely appropriate, and gracefully accept any refusal, or redirection as the least I deserve if I've made that decision for some reason. More commonly, I seek indications of interests, and sometimes ask about fantasies generally - deepest or darkest should never feature early in a conversation, unless a profile or handle indicates them fairly directly.

Most alleged Doms, really aren't. At best, they were incompatible. Hopefully a block put them out of your misery...

[Ba****]

I feel like fantasies are basically dreams. Most people want their dreams to come true. And the sooner they do the sooner you can make more. I'm new to all this but looking forward to meeting a friend I found on here. All we've done is text about what we like and what we need. I think we've shared our Fantasies and haven't even seen each other in person yet. I think he can help me fulfill some of mine and me some of his. Then together we'll come up with new dreams and fantasies. Then look forward to fulfilling these. Once you fulfill one fantasy make another one. Just keep going!!!! 💋❤️

[bl****]

I have dream to make my hubby cleanup my down there.

[Deleted Member]

I fantasize about free use