The time has come to close the door on this place, although I have made some good friends and had some interesting chats.. I feel, in the majority, im just wasting my time filtering through married men. who's wives "dont understand them" or a quickie, or the full works without the need for connection.. maybe I know myself too well, maybe im too headstrong.. but whatever it is... I know that its time for me to go. anyone that I've exchanged details with, feel free to continue to contact. to everyone else.. good luck 😍 I shall probably be back in the future, I think my last break was 2 years and funnily enough, it was during that time I found a genuine Dom. I'll be here until New years eve.. new year new me and all that!
I'm a genuine submissive, not here for someone to message me saying "hi sub, on your knees, I'm your new Daddy..." or anything of that nature.. true Dom would know that ISN'T how you get a genuine sub.. but good luck to you with someone else! I know my own mind far too much to suffer fools.. the art of conversation can work wonders for the mind ?
when have you ever started a conversation with "what do you like, what are you into?"? come on people!!!
curvy, plus size.. with an amazing personality and even better mind 😜
35+ anyone under just makes me feel mega old 🙈😅
DDlg, watersports, impact, denial/orgasm control, spitting.. my top 5 I think.. well in this moment they are! too many to list 🥰
varies on trust.. but feel free to ask
I exchanged a handful of messages with the guy, he asked what my fantasies were and I said (nicely) that I don't share them with people I haven't got a connection with. He then proceeded to tell me that I'm not a true sub because I would tell a Dom my fantasies and that "everyone else" tells him Read more… their fantasies because he asks, like true subs.
I am secure enough in my role to know the difference between me being bratty and a guy trying to manipulate me to get what he wants. This is a stranger, online.. thinking he has some power to get what he wanted by using the cloak of being a "dom"
You are here for their gratification. How dare you have standards 🙈🤣
Same. I'm secure enough to say no and disengage.. but I know that some others aren't and feel pressured into doing something they don't feel comfortable with just to please a "dom"
My boundaries are secure thanks
I think, to be honest, it's less about it being fantasies and more that I had a boundary and a guy who claimed to be a Dom, told me that I was wrong for not divulging the info he had asked for.. the rush to "be in control" rather than the beauty of growth, trust and being gifted the control
Exactly that. This guy I'd spoken to a handful of times.. I'll talk kinks all day long.. but not everyone gets a ticket to my mind