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Whips - a great tool for kinky BDSM play

In the words of the immortal Rihanna, "sticks and stones may break my bones - but chains and whips excite me". Whipping isn't quite as common a BDSM practice as the uninitiated might imagine (whips are unwieldy implements and difficult to use well; crops, canes, paddles and floggers are all far more usual) but it definitely has its fans. Bullwhips are occasionally to be seen in fetish clubs, and masochists who enjoy sharp sting-type pains are likely to have fun at the end of them. Enjoy the cracking noise when you hear it--it's a sign that you're breaking the sound barrier!

What is a whip?

Also known as singletails because they have just one end, they are long and flexible and give a lot of concentrated pain for the person on the receiving end. They are wielded quickly and leave marks quickly and easily.

What is the best whip for beginners?

It takes a lot of time and patience to learn to use a whip. As you need to learn the specific skill of how to crack and aim them. They are very dangerous and so it’s very important to practice a lot before hitting anyone. Any beginner needs to pick a whip they are comfortable with, generally a shorter whip is easier to wield than a long one.

How do you use a whip safely?

Be sure you have plenty of room and that no one is standing in your way who doesn’t want to be hit. Make sure to aim carefully, as a stray whip strike can be very painful and dangerous. Make sure to change the cracker after every person you play with, to minimise risk of infection etc.

Your bottom needs to have a safeword so they can stop proceedings if it gets too much, a whipping is very intense indeed. The bottom also needs to stand very still, so that they aren’t whipped in the wrong place by accident.

Do all whips look like Indiana Jones’s?

No, many do but some are made from paracord not leather. Others have different ends, such as dragontail whips that have a diamond shape flap on the end instead of a cracker. There are lots of different sizes and styles too, Indy’s long bull whip is only one kind of many.

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    The house was quiet for the night. I'd done my duties, fondly, (I love being an au pair, live in position for now)& I was looking forward to a long hot shower, I asked Mr W if he wanted anything. He said no, that he'd just enjoy the peace and quiet while his wife was at work. (He'd explained to me once something about a Polly before and that they were basically swingers or some shit. I guessed Polly was the extra gf, weird set up, but i wasthere to work) He asked what I planned now the kids were down. "A hot shower first Sir. Its cold!"
    "It's warm in our room, use the en suite shower."
    I felt like it would be rude to decline, so i said thank you, nodded and went to get my washbag and pyjamas. I was loving it, one of those rain power showers ive tried but once! I must have been in there 20 minutes when i heard a drawer bring opened in their room. I froze. Sir obviously thought i was done. OK get dried and dressed fuckin quickly !! Oh sh.....I forgot towels. I darent ask him, he might think im trying something. Ah fuck ill just meed to put the pyjamas on. How embarrassing i think silently. Just then the curtain is briskly yanked aside. I jump back in surprise and then gasp as my back slams against the cold tiles the shock of both make my knees give way. Im tryong to cover my fsce do i camt stand incase I slip "Im sorry im not out yet Mr Wi..." Hes lioking at me very intensely. He looks almost angry. He firmly clasps the hair at the top of my head, unzips himself and says "Open up ", pulling my bottom lip with his thumb. I cover my eyes again but he pulls my hair more tightly and repeats his instructions. Dammed if I do...he slides his leaking dick across my lips and begins prising my mouth open with his thumb and pressing his cock between my lips.. "Look at me little girl" he says. No way. Nooo wasaaay. He gives a disappointed sigh and puts his cock back and zips up. He then grabs my hair again and lifts me to him.He lightly brushes a nipple with his thumb. He then half cups the other and kisses it. He then gives another sigh, 1 I couldn't quite discern ,and leaves the washroom.
    "Sir may I have a towel ,well 2, please, I forgot..."
    "Imbecile." He chides. 2mins later a lilac towel and a white 1 are thrown at me. Again he leaves.
    Wow. Wtf just happened? I squeeze my hair with the lilac towel ,it's smaller,and wrap it up. The white towels this big fluffy white 1 I love it, luxury. I realize my pyjamas got wet during..whatever the f just happened, so I keep the towel round me and take my folded clothes off the floor. I find myself tip toeing barefoot past the solid mahogany mirrored bureau. It's such a pretty wood, like tiger's ey...my towels are stripped off from the back and I drop my clothes in fright. I assume I've caught them both somehow in the doorway but then I'm slammed cheek down onto the bureau by him twisting my arms up my back.The finished wood is so smooth but quite cold I notice. Compared to the warm rough crotch that was rubbing in a circular motion on my bare cheeks.
    "Don't move." He commands quietly but very firmly. I can see in the mirror he's pulled a black tie out of his drawer. He spun me round and tied my wrists infront of me. It was like an out of body experience..until it was very much in body experience as he hooked the tie on the wall in the middle above the mirror (is that what that's for jeeze how the other half love I thought sarcastically, attempting to dissociate)He went back into the drawer amd pulled out some lube which he rubbed over my clit, pussy and ass. I flinched when he put it on my ass. Heart started racing. Then he unceremoniously grabbed the sides of my hips and rammed himself in me. Ouch. He paused, inhaling my hair, and began slowly penetrating me over the bureau. Not a word. He took his hands from my hips and began fondling my tits. My tits look pathetic when I'm slim. I was mortified at anyone seeing them. He began rolling my nipples between his thumbs & index fingers. Silence. God that feels so good I wanna reverse into his pelvis to the base oh lord that's terrible of me - disavow!I shout in my mind. He takes one hand off 1 tit and after tilting my face to the mirror he starts playing with my clit. He's still slowly fucking me, his hand alternates between nipples, he's circling my clit and pussy with his cock simultaneously as he girates slowly round and up,round and down, round and up, down and out , forcefully back in, round and up, hes driving my nipples crazy and even my clit feels good with his touch fffffuuuuck i love it. I let out a moan & he puts 2 fingers in my mouth. He redirects my face back to the mirror and tells me to suck them while looking at him. I sucked them, but I couldn't look at him. "Dyou want them in your ass?"
    "No Sir"
    "Suck then girl, and look.at.me, he says through gritted teeth redirecting my head towards the mirror again. I suck his fingers slowly,gently,then more firmly as I look him in the eyes.
    He removes his hands, forces me into position and he starts fucking me furiously, moving his hands from my my waist to locking my pelvic bones with his vice like grip. He rams himself inside me again and again ,every few mins he slaps my ass hard.He pulls out, opens a new drawer and I see a belt which he folds in half and whips me repeatedly. My cheeks feel red raw. I'm wriggling and squealing. He keeps correcting my hips back into position ,then belting me again.
    He then corrects them to a tilt, and fucks me mercilessly i lose my balance several times .
    He exhales. He grabs the back of my hair and says softly in my ear "It's OK to want every inch of Daddy in your sweet little pussy. " and with that he rams himself inside me, its bruised now its painful with each thrust. After a couple of minutes he turns my face back toward the mirror. He puts 2fingers down my throat so far I wretch several times. I can see him smiling at this. He fucks me so hard while telling Mr he's not gonna take his fingers out till I look at him in the mirror and keep looking, so I try. But he just pounds me while making me gag and wretch. He puts both hands back on my pelvis and smashes himself against me , seems like he's gonna cum soon..just then he pulls out, unhooks my arms from the wall and forces me to my knees. "Look at me," he says, "Open your mouth " hes jerking off in my face. "Take it. Take it all baby swallow allll Daddy's cum - good girl.." &he pats my cheek. "Daddy's new little Fuck Toy...

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