A question on position

[cu****]

I'm curious on the percentage on average of ladies, or fellas, why not, that are not into oral sex in general I suppose, mainly those who do, is there a point where you outgrow the 69 position? Is it just something you prefer to focus on just one thing at a time? I've know those from each camp but I'm curious really on where the ladies vote goes to....

[dr****]

I like giving my bf a 71

[Ji****]

I’m not sure it’s an “outgrow” thing for me. If all I ever did was 69? That would get old fast. The idea for me is co-creating moments of pleasure. As a Dom? I mix it up.

69
My face as a throne.
Going down
Laying on my back on the bed, dangling my face off the edge and telling my sub to straddle me.

69 is fun for sure - and if I can’t see my subs face? It’s less connective.

Now. If I have my sub playing with a woman? 69 is amazing for me every. Single. Time. Watching two women giving each other pleasure while I lick my subs ass or play with it? *chefs kiss*

These are all tools on a tool belt for me (in my opinion) - ***tbrushes or ***ts for a blank canvas to create or co-create.

That’s how I don’t end up bored

[Th****]

For me personally, recieving it doesnt really give me much stimulation. A mouth just feels really loose and really wet. Even the most talented people with thier mouths cant compare to something like the feeling of anal penetration, and given that i suffer from lower sensativity due to being SAed as a kid sometimes even vaginal sex isnt enough stimulation to get me off if someone gets too wet, so i have quite literally never gotten off via recieving head. I hear other men talk about it like it feels somehow better than vaginal sex but....to me it just feels like well...a hotdog down a hallway kinda feeling...if anything i just go soft at the lack of stimulation like id rather just use my hand if its just head. So yeah....GIVING head though is a huge turn on for me.

[Ba****]

I have never particularly enjoyed receiving oral. It has been an active turn off for me at times. However I do greatly enjoy giving oral whether to a male or female partner. 69 is great for having them on my face and holding them exactly as I want but being distracted by their own efforts at oral has gotten old for me. So love the position but really would prefer to just enjoy devouring my partner.

[Ji****]

1 minute ago, BatterBaker71 said:

I have never particularly enjoyed receiving oral. It has been an active turn off for me at times. However I do greatly enjoy giving oral whether to a male or female partner. 69 is great for having them on my face and holding them exactly as I want but being distracted by their own efforts at oral has gotten old for me. So love the position but really would prefer to just enjoy devouring my partner.

This. So much this

[Deleted Member]

Im and offcianado of oral. I love to give and receive it. Oral worship is mandatory in my world. 69 never gets old. The better he eats, the stronger my suction. It's an infinity loop of give better and get better. ♾️

[Al****]

Like all things, I love it with an enthusiastic partner. It can be hard to not get out my own head but seeing your partner feast on you like their favorite dessert is🥰 Man moans during oral is on a different level🥵

[sq****]

As a man it's my favorite thing to do for my partner ,as far as receiving I have nit noticed any drop off at all. I think someone women never cared to do it, as some men don't, so I guess it's just a personal like or dislike, bug there definitely missing out.

[Bi****]

Personally I prefer to focus on giving and receiving. I love giving head and someone going down on me takes away from either experience.

[Ri****]

Definitely still love to give that kitty a good tongue lashing. I get off more getting my partner off then i do getting off.....as long as it's clean and groomed I'm gonna keep delivering

[ea****]

69 It's fun no doubt but I always feel like one person loses focus on the task at hand cause they are trying to give and receive at the same time. It's like trying to play quarterback and receiver at the same time. Lol

[Do****]

Definitely prefer to focus on one thing at once. If I’m focusing on giving then the receiving is not really being enjoyed and if u focus on how that feels then I’m not noticing how he’s responding to receiving from me. So it’s a definite no to 69s from me!

[No****]

My Dom won’t do oral on me. It’s his hard limit.

[No****]

The 69 is an advanced art as depicted in the kamasutra. Seldom are the partners who can be in osmosis for it. I found that mutual masturbation is the proper training ground that prepares for it, the learning curve to both understanding what the other likes/dislikes and training to receive pleasure while giving it.
My personal approach to 69 is slow worshipping each others genitals, not rushing to climax. I was blessed to have a partner a decade long with whom the harmony was so perfect, we both needed aftercare, but the orgasms were so intense, we barely could move, less provide the said care afterwards...
My recommendation is to find a partner who really is into cock worshipping to start with, and receiving pussy worshipping (show her how high you can bring her!), then the 69 will become the intensity pinacle of your dynamic!

[La****]

I love to 69, I've always found that the better the oral is from me, the more intense it gets from me the better oral I receive from my partners.

[Tak1024]

I love oral sex, giving and receiving. However, i find 69 is not as enjoyable as one at a time. For one, as a male, the most sensitive part is the underside of the head. That's hard for my partner to reach in 69. I would like to know if it is the same for women? Is one direction better or more sensitive than the other?

[PA****]

69 is overrated… I’m not against shared experiences, but one or the other ends up slowing down to savor…
That said, I absolutely LOVE to give oral.

[Deleted Member]

1 hour ago, DommeDelight said:

Definitely prefer to focus on one thing at once. If I’m focusing on giving then the receiving is not really being enjoyed and if u focus on how that feels then I’m not noticing how he’s responding to receiving from me. So it’s a definite no to 69s from me!

This. All of this.
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Let alone the fact that people orgasm for me through partner sex was hit and miss until I had a partner who was actually paying attention to what he was doing that produced certain sounds and, eventually, orgasm; then tested it a few times and *told me* his findings.
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Since then, I’ve ended up with play partners who are either bad at taking instruction or just don’t have an aptitude for sex. Throwing 69, which I’ve never been fond of, into the mix seems pointless.

[Do****]

3 hours ago, Notti_my_Fault said:

My Dom won’t do oral on me. It’s his hard limit.

God no I wouldn’t either. Was just talking general vanilla life question.

[St****]

I absolutely love going down on a woman, and giving them multiple orgasms before we even start to have sex!!!

[em****]

Never been a 69 fan. I like to have the focus whether giving or receiving…

[St****]

I love it and hate . You're absolutely right. You lose focus on the task at hand. And it's both, not just one of ya's

[ni****]

Hate 69 always have

[ri****]

Over rated